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packrat|1465262512|4040961 said:I work in preschool-special Ed and starting this year also gen ed integrated. Up until this just ended school year I would've said I adore my job. I work w/kids who are autistic, kids who have no language, kids w/physical delays, cognitive delays, mixes of all, feeding tubes, a deaf child. This year we had a couple kids w/behaviors, and that has been a challenge I am not sure I care to continue until I retire. I hope next year is better. (add in the new administration that has most of the staff looking for different jobs and boy howdy..)
However. Last night one of the mom's of our spec Ed kiddos posted a video of him pointing to the letters on her sweatshirt as she asked. He started walking this year. He started working on saying names "uh-knee" is mine. My deaf one on one, who ended up w/an actual interpreter half way thru this year, the interpreter and I worked on figuring out how many signs he was familiar w/ and were just blown away. To go from him signing "No" or "yes" or "shoes" at the beginning of last year, to now this year "Missi, can I have some candy please?" and then signing "thank you for the candy, Missi" after...(and it's cough drops, not candy fyi) that's pretty fricken great.
When you see the kids outside of school and they scream MISS MISSSSSSIIIIIIIII! and run to me for huge hugs and some of them jump up into my arms...you can't beat that. Moms that message me to tell me the picture I drew for their child is framed and hung above the bed. That their child was scared to start their 2nd year of pk and said "well, but Miss Missi will be there and she loves me so it will be ok"
Notes on my desk "I love you Miss Missi" with all the S's backwards..man I love those kids. Little turkeys.
PintoBean|1465269173|4041021 said:I hate working for a living. Period. It's my frame of mind. Whatever it is, I like it less when it's a job. Even if it were to be a professional sleeper or ice cream taster.
The flip side, make it a volunteer position and I like it more.![]()
stracci2000|1465271798|4041038 said:PintoBean|1465269173|4041021 said:I hate working for a living. Period. It's my frame of mind. Whatever it is, I like it less when it's a job. Even if it were to be a professional sleeper or ice cream taster.
The flip side, make it a volunteer position and I like it more.![]()
Yeah, I hate working, too. Kinda feels like slavery.
In our society, we have created this awful lifestyle of working to pay the bills, then creating more bills, because we have the money from working. Aarrgh!
I want to live in a tent on a secluded beach, and eat the mangos that fall from the trees. Then I would probably step on a thorn, and die from infection.
Given that our first careers were the same/similar in the same field, I get that same feeling sometimes. I left that field because I left that job and ended up taking what was at the time intended to be temporary. I am still here and I get paid significantly more doing this job than I ever did in my field with a masters in that field. Sometimes it makes me laugh, other times it enrages me. I always felt like if I had my "dream job" in that field that it would be different, because I'd be doing that work, with clients and in the area I really wanted to be in, and my work would always end up in those CommunicationsArts annuals and be, like, award winning and whatever. But I think if I had been paid reasonably for the amount of crap I did where I was, that would've maybe made it palatable, and I wouldn't have been so much of a mess for so many years. I really just realized not long ago that I just did not want to do what I did, for who I did it for, and that I really idealized that career path to be so much like my "dream job" and less the "grunt work" it really is. It's not glamour, it's long days and nights and very little pay or glory. I still do my side work, but it's not really the same thing yknow?Tacori E-ring|1465256911|4040922 said:I feel like we have had threads like this before...however, I LOVE my job. It is very, very challenging but I cannot imagine anything more rewarding. This is my second career so I do not take loving my job for granted. My first career was never a good fit.
Yea I can't even imagine that you/Paul/John/Lieve/Jon/Brian/Brian/Lesley/anyone else I am not naming due to a brain fart at 330pm can not possibly adore their jobs.Wink|1465327246|4041281 said:Hmmmm. Let's see.
I wake up in the morning, take the dogs for a short walk, go work out three mornings a week, then eat breakfast and go to the computer to check emails. (Sometimes, if I am expecting something I will go to emails immediately after waking up and make the poor dogs wait, which they really DO NOT LIKE).
Most mornings I have new requests for information or videos or even just an order to buy. I then get to go to the vault when I get to work, pull the diamond, and voila, make a video, or send an invoice, or both.
Often I then get to work with the client to create the perfect ring for that diamond, or have them peruse selections from companies like Vatche, Beverly K or other of our vendors.
Soon, I am getting messages from people about how much they love it.
Basically, I am getting paid to work with happy people at one of the highlight times of their lives and helping them to create memory snapshots with their loved ones.
What's not to love?
Wink
packrat|1465262512|4040961 said:I work in preschool-special Ed and starting this year also gen ed integrated. Up until this just ended school year I would've said I adore my job. I work w/kids who are autistic, kids who have no language, kids w/physical delays, cognitive delays, mixes of all, feeding tubes, a deaf child. This year we had a couple kids w/behaviors, and that has been a challenge I am not sure I care to continue until I retire. I hope next year is better. (add in the new administration that has most of the staff looking for different jobs and boy howdy..)
However. Last night one of the mom's of our spec Ed kiddos posted a video of him pointing to the letters on her sweatshirt as she asked. He started walking this year. He started working on saying names "uh-knee" is mine. My deaf one on one, who ended up w/an actual interpreter half way thru this year, the interpreter and I worked on figuring out how many signs he was familiar w/ and were just blown away. To go from him signing "No" or "yes" or "shoes" at the beginning of last year, to now this year "Missi, can I have some candy please?" and then signing "thank you for the candy, Missi" after...(and it's cough drops, not candy fyi) that's pretty fricken great.
When you see the kids outside of school and they scream MISS MISSSSSSIIIIIIIII! and run to me for huge hugs and some of them jump up into my arms...you can't beat that. Moms that message me to tell me the picture I drew for their child is framed and hung above the bed. That their child was scared to start their 2nd year of pk and said "well, but Miss Missi will be there and she loves me so it will be ok"
Notes on my desk "I love you Miss Missi" with all the S's backwards..man I love those kids. Little turkeys.
ame|1465325195|4041266 said:Given that our first careers were the same/similar in the same field, I get that same feeling sometimes. I left that field because I left that job and ended up taking what was at the time intended to be temporary. I am still here and I get paid significantly more doing this job than I ever did in my field with a masters in that field. Sometimes it makes me laugh, other times it enrages me. I always felt like if I had my "dream job" in that field that it would be different, because I'd be doing that work, with clients and in the area I really wanted to be in, and my work would always end up in those CommunicationsArts annuals and be, like, award winning and whatever. But I think if I had been paid reasonably for the amount of crap I did where I was, that would've maybe made it palatable, and I wouldn't have been so much of a mess for so many years. I really just realized not long ago that I just did not want to do what I did, for who I did it for, and that I really idealized that career path to be so much like my "dream job" and less the "grunt work" it really is. It's not glamour, it's long days and nights and very little pay or glory. I still do my side work, but it's not really the same thing yknow?Tacori E-ring|1465256911|4040922 said:I feel like we have had threads like this before...however, I LOVE my job. It is very, very challenging but I cannot imagine anything more rewarding. This is my second career so I do not take loving my job for granted. My first career was never a good fit.
You said this perfectly...I think that sums it up so well. I am pretty much shutting the side gig down because I miss having free time. I had a rough 2014 with the car accident and family drama. I decided to take a break. But I see what my competition is doing and frankly...it is too exhausting to keep up and still make a profit.Tacori E-ring|1465346676|4041426 said:ame|1465325195|4041266 said:Given that our first careers were the same/similar in the same field, I get that same feeling sometimes. I left that field because I left that job and ended up taking what was at the time intended to be temporary. I am still here and I get paid significantly more doing this job than I ever did in my field with a masters in that field. Sometimes it makes me laugh, other times it enrages me. I always felt like if I had my "dream job" in that field that it would be different, because I'd be doing that work, with clients and in the area I really wanted to be in, and my work would always end up in those CommunicationsArts annuals and be, like, award winning and whatever. But I think if I had been paid reasonably for the amount of crap I did where I was, that would've maybe made it palatable, and I wouldn't have been so much of a mess for so many years. I really just realized not long ago that I just did not want to do what I did, for who I did it for, and that I really idealized that career path to be so much like my "dream job" and less the "grunt work" it really is. It's not glamour, it's long days and nights and very little pay or glory. I still do my side work, but it's not really the same thing yknow?Tacori E-ring|1465256911|4040922 said:I feel like we have had threads like this before...however, I LOVE my job. It is very, very challenging but I cannot imagine anything more rewarding. This is my second career so I do not take loving my job for granted. My first career was never a good fit.
I know. Not that I get paid what I think I am worth now, but I love it. I always felt like a fraud in my previous job/career. Not that I didn't design some cool stuff. In the end it just wasn't a good fit.
ame|1465350514|4041469 said:You said this perfectly...I think that sums it up so well. I am pretty much shutting the side gig down because I miss having free time. I had a rough 2014 with the car accident and family drama. I decided to take a break. But I see what my competition is doing and frankly...it is too exhausting to keep up and still make a profit.Tacori E-ring|1465346676|4041426 said:ame|1465325195|4041266 said:Given that our first careers were the same/similar in the same field, I get that same feeling sometimes. I left that field because I left that job and ended up taking what was at the time intended to be temporary. I am still here and I get paid significantly more doing this job than I ever did in my field with a masters in that field. Sometimes it makes me laugh, other times it enrages me. I always felt like if I had my "dream job" in that field that it would be different, because I'd be doing that work, with clients and in the area I really wanted to be in, and my work would always end up in those CommunicationsArts annuals and be, like, award winning and whatever. But I think if I had been paid reasonably for the amount of crap I did where I was, that would've maybe made it palatable, and I wouldn't have been so much of a mess for so many years. I really just realized not long ago that I just did not want to do what I did, for who I did it for, and that I really idealized that career path to be so much like my "dream job" and less the "grunt work" it really is. It's not glamour, it's long days and nights and very little pay or glory. I still do my side work, but it's not really the same thing yknow?Tacori E-ring|1465256911|4040922 said:I feel like we have had threads like this before...however, I LOVE my job. It is very, very challenging but I cannot imagine anything more rewarding. This is my second career so I do not take loving my job for granted. My first career was never a good fit.
I know. Not that I get paid what I think I am worth now, but I love it. I always felt like a fraud in my previous job/career. Not that I didn't design some cool stuff. In the end it just wasn't a good fit.