by mogster » Aug 8, 2012 I am getting married in less than a month and am so, so far from being ready to have a child. I'm definitely a planner and I think part of what terrifies me is not knowing what the logistics are like and not being able to envision what daily life is like with a child. At the risk of being nosy, what is the day-to-day like after one gives birth? How long after do women usually go back to work? How do they breastfeed during this time? Who watches the child while she is away? Does the baby go to daycare and, if so, how does one find a reputable daycare? Who drops off and picks up the baby from daycare?