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Shiny_Rock
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Ok I thought I would make a collective topic, because most of your are getting bits and pieces of my problems all over the place. So here it is.
I am 20, my partner is 27. I live at home with my family he lives at home with his. He is the eldest of 3 and ''mummies little boy'' We have been boyfriend/girlfriend for nearly 4 years.
My relationship with his parents hasn''t been that great (it was okay for the first few months) and then I realised what type of people they are.
His mother:
She would start to ask me things in broken english (because she hasn''t been bothered to learn in the 30yrs she has been here) "How much do I weigh? her response "oh when I was your age I weighed a lot less then what I weigh now, but that''s because I have had children" she is just in some weird sort of competition that I care not to take part in. she would ask me how much I earn even though I work part time I earn nearly what she earns, which is sad really. The only thing I admire about her is that she is a hard worker, but she could have found a better, easy, well paying job if she really put her mind to it. She would ask me what I cook, what size my clothes are!! My boyfriend bought me a tiffany & Co. necklace for my birthday this year and she comes in just as I am putting it on my neck and looking in the mirror to admire and asks me "How much did that cost?????" Ummmm???? "How rude are you???? Its my birthday present! I don''t know!!!!!!" Of course I didn''t say anything??? I NEVER know what to say in the situation I have no idea how to deal with this woman?? She makes me uncomfortable and uneasy. But that is not what makes me resent her the most.
I use to sleep at their house at most 4 times a week because I was closer to work (which I asked permission for and I understood it was okay for me to sleep there) This is where my blood starts to boil. When I slept over, it was as if I wasn''t even there! Nothing changed. She can''t drive (I mean why does she have to drive, she has a son who will take her where ever her heart wants) SO, my partner needs to drive her around as if they are married to each other!!! She has 2 jobs and works all hours. My boyfriend works hard and long hours and then has to get up all hours of the night to pick her up or drive her to work. It''s not fair! She interrupts both of our sleeping patterns! And if she didn''t work that night, that doesn''t matter she just comes into our bedroom at 4, 5, 6am and fiddles with stuff! Opens the windows, opens drawers, comes round to my side of the bed (nearest the wall) I have no idea what she is doing but I can''t stand it. I don''t know if this will sound weird. But I am vulnerable when I am sleeping and I don''t think people should come into the bedroom. She wakes me up everytime she comes in. She also wakes my boy up to tell him something!
The Dad also comes into the room as well. One time my boyfriend got up to watch football on his laptop in the middle of the night, the father thought there wouldn''t be a problem coming in (no knock no nothing) and pulling up a chair and watching it with him while I am naked!!!!! and asleep in the bed! Like what if I got hot and pushed the blankets down unintentionally????
Stay tuned....
I am 20, my partner is 27. I live at home with my family he lives at home with his. He is the eldest of 3 and ''mummies little boy'' We have been boyfriend/girlfriend for nearly 4 years.
My relationship with his parents hasn''t been that great (it was okay for the first few months) and then I realised what type of people they are.
His mother:
She would start to ask me things in broken english (because she hasn''t been bothered to learn in the 30yrs she has been here) "How much do I weigh? her response "oh when I was your age I weighed a lot less then what I weigh now, but that''s because I have had children" she is just in some weird sort of competition that I care not to take part in. she would ask me how much I earn even though I work part time I earn nearly what she earns, which is sad really. The only thing I admire about her is that she is a hard worker, but she could have found a better, easy, well paying job if she really put her mind to it. She would ask me what I cook, what size my clothes are!! My boyfriend bought me a tiffany & Co. necklace for my birthday this year and she comes in just as I am putting it on my neck and looking in the mirror to admire and asks me "How much did that cost?????" Ummmm???? "How rude are you???? Its my birthday present! I don''t know!!!!!!" Of course I didn''t say anything??? I NEVER know what to say in the situation I have no idea how to deal with this woman?? She makes me uncomfortable and uneasy. But that is not what makes me resent her the most.
I use to sleep at their house at most 4 times a week because I was closer to work (which I asked permission for and I understood it was okay for me to sleep there) This is where my blood starts to boil. When I slept over, it was as if I wasn''t even there! Nothing changed. She can''t drive (I mean why does she have to drive, she has a son who will take her where ever her heart wants) SO, my partner needs to drive her around as if they are married to each other!!! She has 2 jobs and works all hours. My boyfriend works hard and long hours and then has to get up all hours of the night to pick her up or drive her to work. It''s not fair! She interrupts both of our sleeping patterns! And if she didn''t work that night, that doesn''t matter she just comes into our bedroom at 4, 5, 6am and fiddles with stuff! Opens the windows, opens drawers, comes round to my side of the bed (nearest the wall) I have no idea what she is doing but I can''t stand it. I don''t know if this will sound weird. But I am vulnerable when I am sleeping and I don''t think people should come into the bedroom. She wakes me up everytime she comes in. She also wakes my boy up to tell him something!
The Dad also comes into the room as well. One time my boyfriend got up to watch football on his laptop in the middle of the night, the father thought there wouldn''t be a problem coming in (no knock no nothing) and pulling up a chair and watching it with him while I am naked!!!!! and asleep in the bed! Like what if I got hot and pushed the blankets down unintentionally????
Stay tuned....