I was asked in October to be in a co-worker''s wedding (I have known her for 3 years). Since then, we have had several arguments (one in which she told me that she hates going to work functions with me, avoids me all the time, and feels better when I''m not around). It has gotten to the point where I only view her as a colleague (and nto really a friend). On December 22nd, she told me through an email that she was "letting me off the hook" and no longer having me in her wedding. Before work today she told me abotu her bridesmaid dress shopping experience (with the other bridesmaids) and then said she''d like to talk with me more after work. I think that she is going to ask me to be a bridesmaid again..and I REALLY don''t want to (hurt feelings, my heart''s not in it, and I feel uncomfortable around her family members who she has "bad-mouthed" me to). How can I handle this situation appropriately (as we work right next to each other)? Please help!