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I have mentioned the marriage ministry that my husband and I have dedicated our time and our lives to for the last eight years, many times before to people in troubled marriages who were asking for advice or help. I am happy to pass along the news that Retrouvaille has received national press today in the form of information given from ''Dear Abby'' in her column to a hurting and lonely husband in Georgia. Please read below. The ''Dear Abby'' syndicated column can be found in newpapers nationwide. This is a very good day for our ministry!
Local Retrouvaille communities can be found in all parts of our country and world wide. For information on where you may be able to find help close to home, please visit http://www.retrouvaille.org/
From http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/ dated Thursday, August 21, 2008.
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DEAR ABBY: What do you think of marriages where the husband and wife merely tolerate each other and have little emotional connection? In our situation, my wife seems to accept that our marriage ''just is,'' but I feel that marriage should offer more.
I would press for a divorce except for the fear of making matters worse. In this case, no children are involved. It''s doubtful that counseling would change a thing. Do we just stick it out after 25 years of marriage? -- LOVELESS IN GEORGIA
DEAR LOVELESS: Marriages in which the spouses ''merely tolerate each other with little emotional connection'' are called marriages of convenience. I''m sad to say they are not uncommon. Some couples who have drifted apart have been able to reconnect through a program called Retrouvaille, which began in 1977 in Canada. Although it is Catholic in origin and orientation, it is open to all married couples regardless of their religion.
I have mentioned Retrouvaille in my column before. It consists of a weekend, plus a series of 12 presentations that take place over the following three months. The program is run by three married couples and a priest. The ''team couples,'' all of whom have experienced disillusionment, pain and anger in their own marriages, share their personal struggles, reconciliation and healing.
Before you decide whether to continue living in an emotional desert or chuck the marriage entirely, ask your wife to attend a Retrouvaille weekend with you. It might be the spark you need to get your relationship going again, and it has worked for many other couples. For information on programs in your area, call toll-free 1-800-470-2230 or visit www.retrouvaille.org.
Local Retrouvaille communities can be found in all parts of our country and world wide. For information on where you may be able to find help close to home, please visit http://www.retrouvaille.org/
From http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/ dated Thursday, August 21, 2008.
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DEAR ABBY: What do you think of marriages where the husband and wife merely tolerate each other and have little emotional connection? In our situation, my wife seems to accept that our marriage ''just is,'' but I feel that marriage should offer more.
I would press for a divorce except for the fear of making matters worse. In this case, no children are involved. It''s doubtful that counseling would change a thing. Do we just stick it out after 25 years of marriage? -- LOVELESS IN GEORGIA
DEAR LOVELESS: Marriages in which the spouses ''merely tolerate each other with little emotional connection'' are called marriages of convenience. I''m sad to say they are not uncommon. Some couples who have drifted apart have been able to reconnect through a program called Retrouvaille, which began in 1977 in Canada. Although it is Catholic in origin and orientation, it is open to all married couples regardless of their religion.
I have mentioned Retrouvaille in my column before. It consists of a weekend, plus a series of 12 presentations that take place over the following three months. The program is run by three married couples and a priest. The ''team couples,'' all of whom have experienced disillusionment, pain and anger in their own marriages, share their personal struggles, reconciliation and healing.
Before you decide whether to continue living in an emotional desert or chuck the marriage entirely, ask your wife to attend a Retrouvaille weekend with you. It might be the spark you need to get your relationship going again, and it has worked for many other couples. For information on programs in your area, call toll-free 1-800-470-2230 or visit www.retrouvaille.org.
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Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Write Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.
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