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Rough_Rock
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- Nov 2, 2007
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Hey ladies! I have a question for ya'll.
My BF and I have been together for 3.5 years and he is the greatest- I love him to pieces. He was previously with someone before me for over 4 years but they broke up on mutual terms- they were very young and had a lot of problems. Anyway, they don't talk to each other, but if they see each other they are civil with each other. However, in the beginning of our relationship she kept trying to contact him and cause problems in our relationship, and she made it very clear that she was upset that he had found someone else. My BF let her know that he had moved on and she should do the same. She actually is in a LTR, but I guess my bf said she can be a very jealous/manipulative kind of person. But anyways......
Here's the (kinda) problem: My BF is VERY close with this ex gf's cousin. They continued their friendship even after he broke up with his ex. This cousin is getting married in July and of course my BF is invited and has told me that he wants me to come with him as his date. I do want to go, but I don't at the same time- I really don't want any drama and I have a feeling this ex will be not too friendly with me. I also will not know one single person there...I am pretty outgoing but am not too comfortable in large groups of people where I don't know anyone.
SO, my question is: Would you go? Have you or anyone you know been in a similar situation as me?
I know this sounds kinda petty that I'm thinking about not going, but I really hate confronation and would rather not meet this particular ex if I don't have to. Any advice would be appreciated- thanks ladies!
My BF and I have been together for 3.5 years and he is the greatest- I love him to pieces. He was previously with someone before me for over 4 years but they broke up on mutual terms- they were very young and had a lot of problems. Anyway, they don't talk to each other, but if they see each other they are civil with each other. However, in the beginning of our relationship she kept trying to contact him and cause problems in our relationship, and she made it very clear that she was upset that he had found someone else. My BF let her know that he had moved on and she should do the same. She actually is in a LTR, but I guess my bf said she can be a very jealous/manipulative kind of person. But anyways......
Here's the (kinda) problem: My BF is VERY close with this ex gf's cousin. They continued their friendship even after he broke up with his ex. This cousin is getting married in July and of course my BF is invited and has told me that he wants me to come with him as his date. I do want to go, but I don't at the same time- I really don't want any drama and I have a feeling this ex will be not too friendly with me. I also will not know one single person there...I am pretty outgoing but am not too comfortable in large groups of people where I don't know anyone.
SO, my question is: Would you go? Have you or anyone you know been in a similar situation as me?
I know this sounds kinda petty that I'm thinking about not going, but I really hate confronation and would rather not meet this particular ex if I don't have to. Any advice would be appreciated- thanks ladies!