Green with Envy
Brilliant_Rock
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If there is already a discussion about this topic... thx for adding the link.
My Bf and I are designing the ring together after he proposes and we are sharing the expense of the diamond (we already live together so what we spend on the ring is OUR money). i know this is not the traditional way of doing things... but we have discussed it 1000 times and it is what will work best for us.
Now I sort of have a problem because this means when he proposes he will not get down on one knee and present me with any sort of gift or token of the occasion. I thought this would be ok... but the more I think about it... I get sort of bummed that I will not have an object I can keep forever to mark the moment. I suggested maybe getting me a small piece of jewelry like a necklace or something to honor the occasion... but this is sort of silly to spend money on anything when we are both saving money for my dream ring.
i told him I will be happy with any proposal that he plans and tries to make special... but I am nervous that he will just pop the question when we are in the grocery store or something (he did practically ask me when we were standing in a parking lot after dinner the other night and if that had been THE OFFICIAL proposal... it would not have been very special AT ALL).
What do others think, suggest, or whatever in terms of hints to the BF about a proposal and being satisfied that it is the perfect moment when there will be no ring?
My Bf and I are designing the ring together after he proposes and we are sharing the expense of the diamond (we already live together so what we spend on the ring is OUR money). i know this is not the traditional way of doing things... but we have discussed it 1000 times and it is what will work best for us.
Now I sort of have a problem because this means when he proposes he will not get down on one knee and present me with any sort of gift or token of the occasion. I thought this would be ok... but the more I think about it... I get sort of bummed that I will not have an object I can keep forever to mark the moment. I suggested maybe getting me a small piece of jewelry like a necklace or something to honor the occasion... but this is sort of silly to spend money on anything when we are both saving money for my dream ring.
i told him I will be happy with any proposal that he plans and tries to make special... but I am nervous that he will just pop the question when we are in the grocery store or something (he did practically ask me when we were standing in a parking lot after dinner the other night and if that had been THE OFFICIAL proposal... it would not have been very special AT ALL).
What do others think, suggest, or whatever in terms of hints to the BF about a proposal and being satisfied that it is the perfect moment when there will be no ring?