I wasn''t sure where to post this so I tried here and the bww forum. Basically, my husband/fi and I eloped 2 years ago, and never told anyone. Now we''re doing it for real. When we told everyone that we were engaged, the first thing my sil said was "I''ve got to be at your stag!". ummmm...??? Even Fi thought it was weird. I''m not sure if he told her, but he made it clear to me and his best man that he would think it was "really inappropriate" and that he didn''t want her invited. About a month later she tried to plan him another stag herself. She invited his friends (as well as a bunch of hers). Fi told her he was uncomfortable with the whole strip club thing, so she changed it to be just a party. It basically turned into an engagement party, but since it was still his stag, I wasn''t invited. He finally just sat her down and told her to cancel it. I don''t know why, but I''m still so upset about the whole thing.