rubybeth
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I am not a mom, and don't even plan on being one for a variety of reasons, but recently a book caught my eye and I decided to check it out and was thinking some of the PS moms may also find it interesting. It's Bringing Up Bébé by Pamela Druckerman:
http://www.amazon.com/Bringing-Up-Bebe-Discovers-Parenting/dp/1594203334
I'm only a couple chapters in, but the gist is that Pamela is an American with a British husband, living in Paris, and she explores why French parents seem more relaxed than her American friends, kids better behaved, and so on. For example, French people ask her if her daughter is 'doing her nights' at 2 months old, and she thinks they are taunting her, until she finds out that a majority of French babies sleep through the night at 2-3 months. She also learns that French kids have mealtimes, just like adults (8am, 12pm, 4pm snack, 8pm dinner), and so French parents do not carry around goldfish crackers and Cheerios. Children are taught to be patient and 'wait.' She discovers how parenting is different in France, how there doesn't seem to be a lot of disagreement about how to raise kids, parents seem less stressed than their American counterparts, and so on.
http://www.amazon.com/Bringing-Up-Bebe-Discovers-Parenting/dp/1594203334
I'm only a couple chapters in, but the gist is that Pamela is an American with a British husband, living in Paris, and she explores why French parents seem more relaxed than her American friends, kids better behaved, and so on. For example, French people ask her if her daughter is 'doing her nights' at 2 months old, and she thinks they are taunting her, until she finds out that a majority of French babies sleep through the night at 2-3 months. She also learns that French kids have mealtimes, just like adults (8am, 12pm, 4pm snack, 8pm dinner), and so French parents do not carry around goldfish crackers and Cheerios. Children are taught to be patient and 'wait.' She discovers how parenting is different in France, how there doesn't seem to be a lot of disagreement about how to raise kids, parents seem less stressed than their American counterparts, and so on.