MichelleCarmen
Super_Ideal_Rock
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Eh, yeah. Well, I wouldn't work Friday because my kids get out of school early, so 6 days a week (I doubt I could fit in 40 hours). It's not as if the job is super "amazing," it's more someone is trying really hard to get me a job and the thing is, she hasn't really talked to me about it, moreas, she's just gone about it on her own and if she offers me the job, I cannot let her down. All my family is striving hard to help me find employment and my kids have always come first, so now, I'm juggling my little ones AND the need to prove that I'm not a slouch being a SAHM while both kids are in school during the day (hence me driving a ton just to work 4.5 hours).Date: 1/6/2009 6:59:44 PM
Author: diamondseeker2006
So 2 to 2.5 hours in the car to work 4.5 hours? Wow, it must be an amazing job to make it worth it! And are you saying you'd be working 7 days a week??? Just remember that gas prices can very easily be back at $4 a gallon at any time. At the moment, I cannot think of anything that would tempt me to drive that far.
My job is 10 minutes away, but I am usually dropping off a child at school on the way, so it takes about 20 minutes.
I honestly think that you get used to it...My commute used to be about 1.5 hours each way. Both DH and I work downtown, but wanted to live in a sleepy seaside town far from the city. We loved it and while the commute really wore on us (by the time we got into work we felt exhausted), it was worth it for us. We''ve since moved closer to the city to *see* if we''d like it better. Yes, the commute is better but when we buy a house, we''ll be moving right back to the sleepy seaside town and doing the commute again. We''re just working on how to make it easier next time around (will probably take a commuter rail so we can work on the way).Date: 1/6/2009 5:53:14 PM
Author: MC
Okay, the deal is the reason I''m trying to gain perspective. . .I''m possibly getting a job that would be around 1 hour commute (possibly 1 hr 20 mintutes) and I''d have to work around my kids'' schedual and they are in school for 7 hours, so basically, I''d be driving there, working 4.5 hours and then coming back home. Then I''d work weekends. This would NOT be permanent and life wouldn''t continue in this cycle forever - it''d be for a few months and I can pick my own hours. If I get the job, I have to take it since it pays really good.
The alternative is having my kids go to the onsight daycare at school and working 8 hours on Mon-Wed., plus weekends, but then I''d be shelling out $ for that and defeating the purpose of driving all that way for the good income (for someone who''s been a SAHM for many years - no current job experience and bad economy).
Crazy drive, huh? I''m hoping *somebody* says they drive a long way for a good job opportunity. . .