by Asscherhalo_lover » Sep 18, 2014 Since so many of us become compartmentalized in threads once were are at a certain family planning stage, I thought it could be helpful if we had a thread for charting so any and all can ask questions, share frustrations, and generally help one another. I am currently waiting TTC but I started charting this month. I had my Nexplanon removed and the very next day had my CD1. DH and I are abstaining from BD until we are sure I have ovulated and am no longer fertile until December when we plan to actually start trying. So I'm at the stage of frustrated. I don't know if I should believe this or not. I got the crossed line after today's entry. I had no other symptoms and I was checking for them, a lot. I'm using the wondfo OPKS. I think on Saturday I had one that was slightly darker than the others but still quite a bit lighter than the control. I was still spotting from my cycle when I supposedly ovulated. I know only time will tell if it is accurate but this is very frustrating so far. I'm hoping this is just an odd duck of a cycle because of coming off my BC. How many more days do you all think I should wait before it's safe to say I DID ovulate and it's safe to BD? That's the real concern, lol. Thank you all for your expertise and help!