- Dec 29, 2006
...than living together before hand? A friend and I were talking about this one day. She''s been with her husband for oh, 7 or 8 years I think. They were together for about 6 or 7 yrs. before getting married, and they had bought a house together and everything. My friend said how she feels (and felt) no different after getting married than she did before. I''m not sure if it''s because they had been together for so long before hand or if it had something to do with buying a house together (first major life purchase, etc.). What did it feel like for you?