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Ideal_Rock
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Whenever I''m in a situation where I know something important (it doesn''t have to be really important, just something slightly different from the usual everyday stuff really) is happening, I get soooo paranoid about things going wrong.
Example 1: We just moved, and we have to go to the post office to get the mailbox key. They only do it one day a week. Dh messed up and forgot to ask them to MAKE our key (he got here before I did), so when I went, they said it would take another week. Now it''s been 2 weeks of no mail. I really want to get my mail. When I went to try to pick it up last week, they told me to come back Tuesday after 2. Now that it''s almost 2, I''m all paranoid that something went wrong and we still won''t have a key. Like I start thinking, she was barely listening when I told her the apartment number, what if they made a key for the wrong apartment? Or, the rental office told us the post office only does keys on MONDAY, but when I had gone last Monday, they definitely told me to come back next Tuesday after 2. But what if they won''t hand out the key today and tell me to wait till next Monday?
Example 2: I''m at the doctor''s office. I check in. I wait. It''s going on a half an hour, and I''ve not been called yet. People who got there after me are getting called (but I know they could be scheduled for a different doctor). It''s been 45 minutes. I start thinking, what if they forgot to pull my chart? What if they checked me off when I haven''t really been called yet (this actually happened to me once). How long should I wait...etc. This happens often at the doctor, and I usually end up asking and being told that I''m next or something, but I get this high blood pressure panicky feeling before I ask.
I realize these reactions are totally irrationally paranoid. Have no idea how to stop them though. Am I alone in this? Any suggestions?
Anyway, wish me luck, I''m off to try to pick up our mailbox key!
Example 1: We just moved, and we have to go to the post office to get the mailbox key. They only do it one day a week. Dh messed up and forgot to ask them to MAKE our key (he got here before I did), so when I went, they said it would take another week. Now it''s been 2 weeks of no mail. I really want to get my mail. When I went to try to pick it up last week, they told me to come back Tuesday after 2. Now that it''s almost 2, I''m all paranoid that something went wrong and we still won''t have a key. Like I start thinking, she was barely listening when I told her the apartment number, what if they made a key for the wrong apartment? Or, the rental office told us the post office only does keys on MONDAY, but when I had gone last Monday, they definitely told me to come back next Tuesday after 2. But what if they won''t hand out the key today and tell me to wait till next Monday?
Example 2: I''m at the doctor''s office. I check in. I wait. It''s going on a half an hour, and I''ve not been called yet. People who got there after me are getting called (but I know they could be scheduled for a different doctor). It''s been 45 minutes. I start thinking, what if they forgot to pull my chart? What if they checked me off when I haven''t really been called yet (this actually happened to me once). How long should I wait...etc. This happens often at the doctor, and I usually end up asking and being told that I''m next or something, but I get this high blood pressure panicky feeling before I ask.
I realize these reactions are totally irrationally paranoid. Have no idea how to stop them though. Am I alone in this? Any suggestions?
Anyway, wish me luck, I''m off to try to pick up our mailbox key!