So, today was our first meeting with my husband's new hospital doctor, upon whom many hopes are pinned. I dressed up, with my triple-whammy of D studs and pendant, my antique diamond bangle, nice make-up, long-sleeve shirt and trousers even though it's 90 outside, nice shoes and bag, etc. My husband always dresses well, anyway. I feel that first impressions are important and we really, really need the doctor to take my husband seriously. Yes, yes, I know they are all supposed to treat everyone the same, but they are only human and everyone is subject to subliminal messages and forces.
So, do you dress up for the doctor? Do you think it makes a difference? We have all heard stories about patients who tell the doctor about their symptoms, only for the doctor not to take them seriously.
On a related note, I also dress up for the hairdresser. I feel that if it's clear that YOU take your personal presentation seriously, they will take it more seriously also.
My husband found this philosophy most amusing and wondered aloud why I wasn't dressed in a ballgown and long white gloves for the appointment!
As an aside, I personally hated this doctor within 10 seconds of meeting him. He's my husband's doctor and my husband was perfectly happy, so it's all fine. But may I just say, in this safe venting-space that is PS, big fat
So, do you dress up for the doctor? Do you think it makes a difference? We have all heard stories about patients who tell the doctor about their symptoms, only for the doctor not to take them seriously.
On a related note, I also dress up for the hairdresser. I feel that if it's clear that YOU take your personal presentation seriously, they will take it more seriously also.
My husband found this philosophy most amusing and wondered aloud why I wasn't dressed in a ballgown and long white gloves for the appointment!
As an aside, I personally hated this doctor within 10 seconds of meeting him. He's my husband's doctor and my husband was perfectly happy, so it's all fine. But may I just say, in this safe venting-space that is PS, big fat