I've been debating getting a pair myself, but I like the really long ones! Do you have a Tiffany's near you to try some on? I fell in love with their 5 stone drop. They used .05 melee and length is approximately 2 and 3/4 inches long. (I'd prefer a .07 in these) You'd get these flashes of light filtering out among your hair. I don't think I'd use 20 pointers- I think they'd be too large in a dbty. I also like the graduated 3 stone dbty-using a .05 on top, then a .10, then a .15- total length about 2 inches. BGD will make any combo you want in any length-that is who I'll use when I'm ready to order- I want mine in rose gold!
thanks pinkjewels ,
WF also have preset 2 inch DBTY earrings with 5 pointers ,but they appear to be too small . thats why I am thinking of getting bigger melee that show .I am too shy to try something at Tiffany's !