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When having lunch with a former co-worker who had just returned from India, I admired his new ring and commented "next time you go to India, maybe I'll give you money to have something made". Fast forward, he left his job and joined me at my new company this week.
Now the conundrum....for Christmas he gives me a copy of his ring! I told him I can't accept such a generous gift without paying for it ...but he won't discuss it saying his family considers me extended family and his wife had bought me a set of pearls on the trip but when he saw I loved the ring asked his father to have another made. And while I l know it comes without strings, ethically I can't accept a gift like this.
Since he had it custom made for me, I'm not sure how to get out of this other than to get him to accept some form a of payment. Any other ideas? And if not, how much? The Here are the pictures. Assume stone is glass and base on the gold value?
Anyone familiar with jewelry made in India?
Any suggestions welcomed.
Now the conundrum....for Christmas he gives me a copy of his ring! I told him I can't accept such a generous gift without paying for it ...but he won't discuss it saying his family considers me extended family and his wife had bought me a set of pearls on the trip but when he saw I loved the ring asked his father to have another made. And while I l know it comes without strings, ethically I can't accept a gift like this.
Since he had it custom made for me, I'm not sure how to get out of this other than to get him to accept some form a of payment. Any other ideas? And if not, how much? The Here are the pictures. Assume stone is glass and base on the gold value?
Anyone familiar with jewelry made in India?
Any suggestions welcomed.