Venzen007
Shiny_Rock
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- Dec 22, 2008
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I'm considering giving some "consolation" money, so to speak, to my local jeweler who has helped me search for an asscher stone, assuming I do not pick the one he has tomorrow. I've received another stone from an out-of-state jeweler who has also been helping me, and I plan to compare them side-by-side tomorrow (a fact of which my local jeweler is, as of yet, unaware).
I've spent probably 3 hours, collectively over several separate occasions, looking at potential stones with my local jeweler at his store, stones he has brought in from sources he's been searching. That doesn't include any time he's personally spent searching for and looking over stones without me, though I don't know how much time that is; maybe that time is negligible. Also, the sales person in this store, a young lady, who has also been a part of this experience, has helped show me the stones along with the owner of the store, himself.
My local jeweler has indicated to me that the stone he has now is the best available to get in my price range; in other words, he's basically done looking, so I'm going to consider the stone he has the best he can do.
If I should I pick the stone from the out-of-state jeweler, what are some opinions and reasons for why I should or shouldn't offer what I'm calling "consolation" money? And if folks think it is a good idea, what amount would be appropriate, considering the purchase would have been roughly 15-20k. I'm considering offering 1,000, but I don't want to throw money around needlessly.
Now, the price he's quoted me on the stone he has seems high to me. I understand he's got to make some money over and above what money will be going to his source, but even so, it seems too much. He's told he got them down to the lowest they would go, and quoted me $18,800 ($20,022 with tax) for a 1.52 F VVS1, GIA. Any opinions here? What is he planning to make on this sale, do you think? 3,000? More, less?
The stone from the out-of-state jeweler is a 1.85 E VS1 (it's a good VS1 as it's difficult for me to find the GIA cert-listed inclusions in a loupe), for a total price of $17,800. From my dealings with this jeweler, all via email, my impression is that this is a fair deal for everyone, and I tend to believe that.
I'm interested in people's thoughts here, especially, but not limited to, jewelers who have been in similar sorts of situations.
I've spent probably 3 hours, collectively over several separate occasions, looking at potential stones with my local jeweler at his store, stones he has brought in from sources he's been searching. That doesn't include any time he's personally spent searching for and looking over stones without me, though I don't know how much time that is; maybe that time is negligible. Also, the sales person in this store, a young lady, who has also been a part of this experience, has helped show me the stones along with the owner of the store, himself.
My local jeweler has indicated to me that the stone he has now is the best available to get in my price range; in other words, he's basically done looking, so I'm going to consider the stone he has the best he can do.
If I should I pick the stone from the out-of-state jeweler, what are some opinions and reasons for why I should or shouldn't offer what I'm calling "consolation" money? And if folks think it is a good idea, what amount would be appropriate, considering the purchase would have been roughly 15-20k. I'm considering offering 1,000, but I don't want to throw money around needlessly.
Now, the price he's quoted me on the stone he has seems high to me. I understand he's got to make some money over and above what money will be going to his source, but even so, it seems too much. He's told he got them down to the lowest they would go, and quoted me $18,800 ($20,022 with tax) for a 1.52 F VVS1, GIA. Any opinions here? What is he planning to make on this sale, do you think? 3,000? More, less?
The stone from the out-of-state jeweler is a 1.85 E VS1 (it's a good VS1 as it's difficult for me to find the GIA cert-listed inclusions in a loupe), for a total price of $17,800. From my dealings with this jeweler, all via email, my impression is that this is a fair deal for everyone, and I tend to believe that.
I'm interested in people's thoughts here, especially, but not limited to, jewelers who have been in similar sorts of situations.