monkeyprincess
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Although we''re not at that point yet, has anyone considered whether you will be taking your future husband''s last name when you get married? I had a conversation about this with some friends, and the opinions were very different. I have no particular attachment to my last name (it is pretty common), and I like the idea of becoming a family and having the same last name as my future children, so I will be taking my boyfriend''s last name when we get married. He has said he would prefer me to take his name, but he wouldn''t mind if I kept my last name. The only thing he wouldn''t like is a hyphenated name.
Many of my friends feel attachment to their names or feel like they have had accomplishments (degrees/articles published) under their last name and don''t want to lose their identity just because they are getting married. I completely respect this. It seems like a lot of people are planning on taking on their husband''s last name as a second last name, so they can use them interchangeably. Just curious what others are planning on doing.
Many of my friends feel attachment to their names or feel like they have had accomplishments (degrees/articles published) under their last name and don''t want to lose their identity just because they are getting married. I completely respect this. It seems like a lot of people are planning on taking on their husband''s last name as a second last name, so they can use them interchangeably. Just curious what others are planning on doing.