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So I need the help of some mom's tonight... this is when I love this forum...
My daughter received a message from a very popular girl at school tonight (DD is not popular...she's the one that gets picked on.. the Scoliosis brace doesn't help, she's the smallest and awkward) and this girl who is in one of her classes, very popular, told her if they didn't hang out she would "ruin" her. I ended up taking the phone from DD to read the string of text messages and this girl started this exchange and DD tried to tell her was not available because she knew the girl was just being mean. I sent a text to the bully and identified myself as DD's mother and gave her my name and asked for details on exactly how she planned to "ruin" my daughter. I then asked her if I should contact the school regarding bullying or her mother who I found on FB and send her a copy of the text... She VERY quickly apologized about six times saying it was a joke...
How would you handle?
Would you contact the mother and let her know?
Would you call the school and let them know?
Or just let it die down and hope they leave DD alone at school?
I hate Middle School almost as much as my DD....only six more months.. I hope HS is better....
My daughter received a message from a very popular girl at school tonight (DD is not popular...she's the one that gets picked on.. the Scoliosis brace doesn't help, she's the smallest and awkward) and this girl who is in one of her classes, very popular, told her if they didn't hang out she would "ruin" her. I ended up taking the phone from DD to read the string of text messages and this girl started this exchange and DD tried to tell her was not available because she knew the girl was just being mean. I sent a text to the bully and identified myself as DD's mother and gave her my name and asked for details on exactly how she planned to "ruin" my daughter. I then asked her if I should contact the school regarding bullying or her mother who I found on FB and send her a copy of the text... She VERY quickly apologized about six times saying it was a joke...
How would you handle?
Would you contact the mother and let her know?
Would you call the school and let them know?
Or just let it die down and hope they leave DD alone at school?
I hate Middle School almost as much as my DD....only six more months.. I hope HS is better....