*RubyRN*
Shiny_Rock
- Joined
- Aug 3, 2007
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Well, I had thought that the engagement would be coming soon.
We agreed on a budget for a ring, and I basically found what I want. BF had the money saved up and I was just getting ready to tell him I had made a ring decision. HOWEVER, today he let me know that he "can''t spend the money for the ring yet". I don''t quite get this because I am 90% sure that he has plenty more than what my ring will cost in his savings account. So now I''m worrying, has there recently been some kind of huge financial set-back that I somehow don''t know about
? I do know he recently had some fairly large medical bills that came up unexpectedly, but not enough to cause a huge problem as he is VERY responsible and financially stable. Then when I asked him about it he told me he thinks he would be much more comfortable saving a little bit more(we also want to move out of our current house and into a new one sometime in the next 2 years) and not getting engaged for UP TO A YEAR
. I probably shouldn''t be so upset because this was the original plan (that we''d be engaged by summer 200
, but I got my hopes up for something sooner. After over 6 years, one more won''t kill me, and he''s probably right that we''d be smarter saving some more money first, but I''m dying here!!
Encouraging words encouraged
We agreed on a budget for a ring, and I basically found what I want. BF had the money saved up and I was just getting ready to tell him I had made a ring decision. HOWEVER, today he let me know that he "can''t spend the money for the ring yet". I don''t quite get this because I am 90% sure that he has plenty more than what my ring will cost in his savings account. So now I''m worrying, has there recently been some kind of huge financial set-back that I somehow don''t know about


Encouraging words encouraged
