dmamsquared
Shiny_Rock
- Joined
- Jan 26, 2007
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- 101
Ok Girls, it''s time to weigh in. Mom (and/or Dad) is paying for the whole affair. They rationalize it as another year''s college tuition. They have their own expectations. You, of course, have yours. Do you try to accommodate their wishes? Or, do you fight them tooth and nail on every detail? Let''s not leave the groom out of the loop. He may have his own ideas. To whom does he communicate his visions? Should he even have a voice since he''s not the one footing the bill?
When I got married back in the Stone Ages, my man had to worry about getting fitted for a tux, that''s about it. He did not concern himself with little details. Of course, he was 600 miles away!
My daughter, who will be turning 26 this year announced to me that she was paying for her own wedding whenever that is. I know for sure it won''t be a big to-do because she''s so tight; she squeaks! I plan to hold her to her word, too. I think she was silly because I was willing to pay for anything that she wanted. Well almost anything. Hehehe
When I got married back in the Stone Ages, my man had to worry about getting fitted for a tux, that''s about it. He did not concern himself with little details. Of course, he was 600 miles away!
My daughter, who will be turning 26 this year announced to me that she was paying for her own wedding whenever that is. I know for sure it won''t be a big to-do because she''s so tight; she squeaks! I plan to hold her to her word, too. I think she was silly because I was willing to pay for anything that she wanted. Well almost anything. Hehehe