I hope this does not come off as bad or negative. I am just really curious. I have read a lot of post and it seems that alot of you LIW talk to your SO about getting married and being engaged. They have a ring and have not given it yet or they tell you that they want to get married and a engagement is to come. I am just curious because I was with my S.O for three year and we never once talked about getting married. Never went looking for rings, never talked about when we would get engaged. Christmas morning I got a E Ring and as you can imagine, total shock to me, and of course I said yes. Maybe its modern day age that when you live together for a while or date it becomes a conversation piece but for me it never had so I find it interesting that this is happening so much. I guess in my thoughts, if your to a point of discussing an engagement and looking at rings then why is there an issue with the waiting game. Sorry if I sound like its not ok, cause really it is, im just curious.....I would have guessed my engagement to be about another 3-5 years off......and maybe would have said something if it would have been longer. This is my first engagement, so Im just not sure. thanks for understanding in advance that this is just curiousty and not negative.