Hi Everyone!!!
I''m a long time lurker and recently engaged!!! So in planning my wedding for next summer FI and I were looking into having our wedding locally (southern CA) but is EXTREMELY EXPENSIVE!!! We (I... LOL) have always dreamt about getting married on the beach!!! FI has ALOT of family and I have a small family (all of which are located on the east coast) so it would be very very hard to cut our guest lists down! So anyways, we decided to have our wedding in Hawaii!!! It''ll be alot cheaper and more exciting and fun, we are super stoked about it! Now the problem??? Everyone we have told about our plans loves the idea, that is except my family. All of my family were very quick to say they weren''t able to attend. It kind of upset me b/c we have lived in CA for 11 yrs and they never have been out here to visit, we are always the ones making frequent trips for all the occasions and they don''t want to make the trip. (I do understand it''s a long trip, but I''ve always been close with them and I thought they''d make the effort to put the flight aside!) My mom is now insisting that I should change my location to accomidate them, but as much as I love them and want them there, FI and I really love this idea and don''t really have the money to have it elsewhere (we got a great deal to have it at a military only hotel where a family friend will sponsor us and it is BEAUTIFUL!!!)
Has anyone else run into this kind of situation??? Any advice???
Sorry for so much rambling lol... I''m just going out of my mind!!!
I''m a long time lurker and recently engaged!!! So in planning my wedding for next summer FI and I were looking into having our wedding locally (southern CA) but is EXTREMELY EXPENSIVE!!! We (I... LOL) have always dreamt about getting married on the beach!!! FI has ALOT of family and I have a small family (all of which are located on the east coast) so it would be very very hard to cut our guest lists down! So anyways, we decided to have our wedding in Hawaii!!! It''ll be alot cheaper and more exciting and fun, we are super stoked about it! Now the problem??? Everyone we have told about our plans loves the idea, that is except my family. All of my family were very quick to say they weren''t able to attend. It kind of upset me b/c we have lived in CA for 11 yrs and they never have been out here to visit, we are always the ones making frequent trips for all the occasions and they don''t want to make the trip. (I do understand it''s a long trip, but I''ve always been close with them and I thought they''d make the effort to put the flight aside!) My mom is now insisting that I should change my location to accomidate them, but as much as I love them and want them there, FI and I really love this idea and don''t really have the money to have it elsewhere (we got a great deal to have it at a military only hotel where a family friend will sponsor us and it is BEAUTIFUL!!!)
Has anyone else run into this kind of situation??? Any advice???
Sorry for so much rambling lol... I''m just going out of my mind!!!