Daisys and Diamonds
Super_Ideal_Rock
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My MIL chose assisted living after her stroke. I would have loved her to live with us but she chose it because she was very social and wanted to be around a lot of people.
Assisted living is just that- living with assistance. It should never be looked at as a hospital setting with visiting hours. I took my MIL out all the time and she stayed overnight at my house on many occasions. So take your grandfather out to have some fun. Shopping, parks, festivals. It is harder when they have physical limitations but very doable if you plan. You can also hang out at their place to watch TV, visit, join the group activities, or sit by the fireplace if the facility has one. You can also (usually for a fee) join them for dinner at the facility.
When we visited mum and also my father in law they would always ask us to join them for lunch
I think sometimes they wanted to show us the food was good !