So my fiance and I have compiled a guest list of about 200 people excluding children. We really don''t want to go above this number because of cost issues. Now here is the issue....my family is larger than my fiance''s family and for that reason he feels like he should be able to invite the children from his family. I know that will cause problems with my family. I have many people that will be coming in from out of town with children. If they get to the reception that they were told was ADULT ONLY and see children present they will be upset. If they''re making the trip from far away and I tell them they can''t bring their kids yet they get there and see all the children from my fiance''s family present it will become a problem. What are your suggestions???