Dear Pser''s,
As like many of you I am a newlywed and just returned from the highs of the wedding and honeymoon! We had a perfect wedding... it was beautiful weather, ran smoothly with extremely supportive family and friends - no complaints at all! In fact we have received many compliments from our guests that it was one of the best weddings they have ever been to which was a huuuuge compliment given the number of our friends who are recently being wed.
Now a month later, we got the photos back everything is done and dusted I''m feeling a strange sense of emptiness like now there is a huge gap in my life that for the last 18 months was taken up with "wedding this..." and "wedding that..."
Is this normal?
My husband and I are not looking to have kids in the near future. Not for at least 4-5 years is the plan. I know many couples have had the wedding and the baby in tow and maybe that''s what has filled the void?
Oh and married life is fantastic! I love my DH very much and we are really enjoying our new lives together. I''ve had the joy of running around changing my name and using the word ''husband'' as much as I possibly can! This is no reflection on our relationship in fact I don''t think he even knows that I am feeling a little lost...
Feeling lost is more of a personal reflection and also realisation while I was sitting at my desk looking at wedding blogs and realising I need to let go now that I am married!!!
Would love to hear your thoughts and experiences??
As like many of you I am a newlywed and just returned from the highs of the wedding and honeymoon! We had a perfect wedding... it was beautiful weather, ran smoothly with extremely supportive family and friends - no complaints at all! In fact we have received many compliments from our guests that it was one of the best weddings they have ever been to which was a huuuuge compliment given the number of our friends who are recently being wed.
Now a month later, we got the photos back everything is done and dusted I''m feeling a strange sense of emptiness like now there is a huge gap in my life that for the last 18 months was taken up with "wedding this..." and "wedding that..."
Is this normal?
My husband and I are not looking to have kids in the near future. Not for at least 4-5 years is the plan. I know many couples have had the wedding and the baby in tow and maybe that''s what has filled the void?
Oh and married life is fantastic! I love my DH very much and we are really enjoying our new lives together. I''ve had the joy of running around changing my name and using the word ''husband'' as much as I possibly can! This is no reflection on our relationship in fact I don''t think he even knows that I am feeling a little lost...
Feeling lost is more of a personal reflection and also realisation while I was sitting at my desk looking at wedding blogs and realising I need to let go now that I am married!!!
Would love to hear your thoughts and experiences??