beadchick
Shiny_Rock
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- Jan 26, 2010
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So, I guess after the disintegration of what would have been my wedding and marriage after the in-laws showed up in May, I am now single. (If you want to see the thread, look at my postings in BWW.) I'm actually managing pretty well, things weren't so great the first month, but the fiance and his family disappeared soon after and I will say, when they continue to act like a jerk, it makes it much easier to see how much better off I actually am.
The weird thing is, in my social circle, people are lately wanting to get me dating again or fix me up with someone or tell me I should start dating on-line again. Its only been two months! I have adjusted to life without him definitely. But, the bitterness that you feel when something like that happens is still there. I told myself a while ago that dating any sooner than 6 months after the fact is just too soon.
What do you all think? My closest friends of course, agree with me. But, why are people trying to set me up so soon? It just seems like any kind of relationship I end up in right now would become messy.
What is a reasonable time to wait before you put yourself out there again?
The weird thing is, in my social circle, people are lately wanting to get me dating again or fix me up with someone or tell me I should start dating on-line again. Its only been two months! I have adjusted to life without him definitely. But, the bitterness that you feel when something like that happens is still there. I told myself a while ago that dating any sooner than 6 months after the fact is just too soon.
What do you all think? My closest friends of course, agree with me. But, why are people trying to set me up so soon? It just seems like any kind of relationship I end up in right now would become messy.
What is a reasonable time to wait before you put yourself out there again?