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P:  8/19/2008 1:08:05 AM  
trillionaire
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Today when SO got home from work, he called me and let me know that he had a sucky day at work, and was in a bad mood. I asked him if he was in the mood to talk, and he said he wasn't really, and that he wanted to "blow stuff up", ie, play his video games before he went to class later that evening. I told him to have fun and relax, and didn't give him a hard time (I mean, who hasn't been in a bad mood before?), and he thanked me for being understanding about it. Sure, have fun!

So he plays his games, goes to class and comes home, tired of course. I am watching the Olympics and we are both on the phone, but there is not much conversation going on, which bugs me a little since we haven't really "talked" all day. I ask him again whether he is in the mood to talk, and he says, again, that he is not. (we usually talk for HOURS everyday!) I am quite disappointed, but I don't give him a hard time about it, and I let him go. 5 minutes later he calls back, and says that the relationship isn't all about him, and he was calling back because he knew that I wanted to talk. Then he says that a relationship where the both people put the other first can't go wrong. I've said this to him before, but it feels incredible when you know that you are both "embracing" the ethos. And then we talked for an hour and a half

I love this man.



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Engaged: 7/18/09!
Elopement: 9/25/10, our 7th anniversary!

* Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect. It means that you've decided to look past the imperfections *
Posted:  8/19/2008 1:08:05 AM

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P: 8/19/2008 8:39:18 AM
elledizzy5
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Awww! That is so sweet and thoughtful of him!

I get bummed too when FF doesn't want to talk! I shouldn't take it personally, but I always do.


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Let all the people
of the world
say what they please
I alone know what I do
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Posted:  8/19/2008 8:39:18 AM
P: 8/19/2008 9:19:33 AM
leeNY
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What a great story, a true testament to BOTH of your commitments. I love that you let him do his thing and then he came right back and wanted to do your thing.

Congrats on being such a happy woman in love with a wonderful man!

Posted:  8/19/2008 9:19:33 AM
P: 8/19/2008 1:55:42 PM
jcarlylew
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what a wonderful guy!

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Posted:  8/19/2008 1:55:42 PM
P: 8/19/2008 2:09:11 PM
fiery
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You know part of him doing that was because of how well you handled his crappy mood

Posted:  8/19/2008 2:09:11 PM
P: 8/19/2008 3:50:07 PM
Dreamgirl
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Awwwww what a sweetie. Glad to see he recognizes the things that you need in the relationship!

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Posted:  8/19/2008 3:50:07 PM
P: 8/20/2008 12:37:35 PM
vita*dolce
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aw, trill your bf sounds so sweet!! that was so thoughtful of him to call and talk to you for such a long time just because he knew it would make you happy!!

*and this is the wonder that's keeping the stars apart... i carry your heart (i carry it in my heart) ~e.e. cummings

Posted:  8/20/2008 12:37:35 PM
P: 8/20/2008 8:34:00 PM
trillionaire
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Thanks all! I would tell SO that he was being praised on PS, but then he would know about my little obsession... He's never heard of PS, I just filter knowledge to him from here




********************************
Engaged: 7/18/09!
Elopement: 9/25/10, our 7th anniversary!

* Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect. It means that you've decided to look past the imperfections *

Posted:  8/20/2008 8:34:00 PM

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