What would you do?

Maybe it's because I'm male or I'm type of guy who likes to solve problems, but to me this one is easy:

1. You prefer the D VS1.
2. Your significant other is ok with the extra $500 it costs to get it.
3. Both diamonds are otherwise the same.

I would get the D VS1. You'll feel better, your SO is ok with it, and it doesn't break the bank. To me there really is no dilemma here?

Now let me try to be more understanding of why you may be asking :) Are any of these true?

1. You are asking because you believe your SO is saying he is ok with spending the extra $500 but you fear he really isn't and is just being nice?
2. You are asking because many Pricescopers think a D color is overkill and you are worried that you are "crazy" or "not normal" for wanting an ideal color and clarity?

If any of those are true, I'd still recommend the D VS1. If your SO is really just being nice but may not share the same feelings you do about a D VS1 vs. an E VS2, maybe you can give him an analogy to something he likes. Example - I spent an additional 10% on our new condo to get a high floor with a view. My fiance would have spent that 10% on greater square footage instead. But to me the feeling of coming home to a naturally lit apartment with a scenic view is priceless, and I would rather have the view than room for an extra dressing table and couch. And if you are feeling "neurotic" for wanting a D VS1 - I returned a 1.5ct I VS1 stone for a 1.3ct G VS1 stone - the color of the loose stone was bothersome enough to my eyes when I saw it that sacrificing on size was preferable to sacrificing on color. I also wanted VS1 when buying over the Internet for that extra insurance that we wouldn't spot flaws visibly with our eyes under close scrutiny. I was willing to pay more so that my fiance and I could have peace of mind.

So hope this helps. D VS1 all the way, it'll look icy white and beautiful. And there's nothing wrong with wanting the best :)

* Too much of a good thing can be wonderful * ~ Mae West

September 6, 2009

Date: 1/22/2008 8:21:41 PM
Author:honey22
Just looking for some advice. What would you do? I am torn - do I pull the trigger now on a E VS2 which is under my budget,or hang out for a D VS1 which is the top end of budget.

Some points to consider:

- stones are branded H&A, AGS 000,0 light perf, gorgeous numbers
- same size - 0.8ct
- I feel a bit like I am 'settling' for the E VS2, when my aim was for a D VS
- I totally know the D is overkill - I can't tell the difference but it's a mind thing
- I am worried about inclusions being visible in the VS2
- the difference is about $500
- we have money set aside for the setting so I won't have less for that
- SO is totally happy with me waiting and spending the extra money, even being aware of the above points
- I am clearly neurotic

Thanks!

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Date: 1/22/2008 8:21:41 PM
Author:honey22
Just looking for some advice. What would you do? I am torn - do I pull the trigger now on a E VS2 which is under my budget,or hang out for a D VS1 which is the top end of budget.

Some points to consider:

- stones are branded H&A, AGS 000,0 light perf, gorgeous numbers
- same size - 0.8ct
- I feel a bit like I am 'settling' for the E VS2, when my aim was for a D VS
- I totally know the D is overkill - I can't tell the difference but it's a mind thing
- I am worried about inclusions being visible in the VS2
- the difference is about $500
- we have money set aside for the setting so I won't have less for that
- SO is totally happy with me waiting and spending the extra money, even being aware of the above points
- I am clearly neurotic

Thanks!

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