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| P: 12/5/2005 1:30:33 AM | |
monarch64 Ideal Rock Total Posts: 9,555 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 8/12/2005 |
Ok, I need a little advice here. My DH just informed me last night that we are going downtown next weekend (Chicago, we live in the suburbs) and he will be wearing a suit and tie to dinner Saturday night. The restaurant is Tavern on Rush, which I am not familiar with but I did look at their website and it seems jackets are appropriate for men and cocktail/semi-formal attire is appropriate for ladies. Why on earth do men wait til the last minute to inform us of these things? I have a gorgeous little black dress I purchased last spring, but it just doesn't have that "hot" factor I feel I want to wear for him! So I have a few questions for all you fashionistas out there, even though I have a BS degree in fashion merchandising! LOL! question 1. do I stick with the little black dress even though I don't feel outrageously hot in it? question 2. do I purchase something online (I'm in love with a couple of dresses from anthropologie.com--they do have an overnight shipping option) BTW, does anyone know how their sizes run? question 3. does anyone have any suggestions as far as cute/sexy things you have seen online that might work for an evening in downtown Chicago in December? Lord it's hard to dress up in 30 degree weather, even with a nice long coat! S.O.S.! Please advise! 
"Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined." Henry David Thoreau |
| Posted: 12/5/2005 1:30:33 AM | |
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| P: 12/5/2005 1:38:00 AM | |
Mara Ideal Rock Total Posts: 27,922 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 10/30/2002 |
i'm too practical about stuff like this to go out and buy a whole new dress just for one event...esp if you have something that works already. when you say it doesn't have the hot factor, what do you mean? little black dress is usually pretty darn cute? hot? can you spice it up with jewelry or an updo or really high black heels? something fun? fishnets? sometimes with a conservative dress those can really do the trick. we have a black tie event next week and i just borrow dresses from my girlfriend who has alot of fancy stuff...i am really not into buying stuff like that anyway since we rarely go to these types of things. that reminds me i better get a dress from her this week!! ________________________________ |
| Posted: 12/5/2005 1:38:00 AM | |
| P: 12/5/2005 2:08:05 AM | |
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monarch64 Ideal Rock Total Posts: 9,555 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 8/12/2005 |
Blast...if only I had friends who wore the same size (except one, but she recently gave birth and doesn't have any up-to-date, fun dresses). I agree with your practical side, Mara, but I am guilty of hating to wear something more than once or twice if I don't have to. My husband works in an industry where there are a lot of dress up occasions, and also we have been to a lot of weddings this past year, so I am SO tired of everything I have, plus I live right outside Chicago and there is the seasonality issue to deal with. Boo! IMO, my black dress is a little too conservative, and fishnets would look a bit silly with it...it's a Jones New York black crepe sheath with a double deep v-neck (sleeveless), beaded on the v's, knee-length. I always wear 3+" Chinese Laundry satin criss cross ankle strap open toed heels with it, or any other black dress for that matter (enough detail for you  ). I checked out shopbop.com, but they were too expensive. Mara, have you had any experience with anthropologie? As far as sizing/fit? They offer a lot of cute dresses, but they are all from different vendors and who knows how they run, which is why I've never ordered anything from them or gone into their store. Now I'm tempted, due to the amount of mouth-watering dresses I saw online. "Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined." Henry David Thoreau |
| Posted: 12/5/2005 2:08:05 AM | |
| P: 12/5/2005 8:54:00 AM | |
IslandDreams Ideal Rock Total Posts: 2,011 Last Post: 12/3/2008 Member Since: 11/19/2004 |
Tavern on Rush is usually a very dimmly lit restaurant. They have candles & twinkle lights. Why not dress up your black dress with a bright colored wrap, put your hair up & add some sparkley jewelry? Realistically you will be sitting most of the evening and it is dim in the restaurant so the focus will be on your face anyway. Also, you could wear some "hot" lingerie and promise him a peak later. Probably just thinking about your naughty lingerie will make him forget that maybe your dress isn't as "hot" as you would have liked.
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| Posted: 12/5/2005 8:54:00 AM | |
| P: 12/5/2005 12:05:02 PM | |
marvel Ideal Rock Total Posts: 1,133 Last Post: 11/5/2008 Member Since: 7/8/2005 |
I live in So. Cal., so I have no idea on what would be appropriate to wear in Chicago. I'm not practical either and love to buy cute clothes, so I say go for the HOT number that you found on the website If you don't like it when it shows up, you can return it! Can you show us pictures of the outfit you found that you're thinking about buying?
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| Posted: 12/5/2005 12:05:02 PM | |
| P: 12/5/2005 3:59:34 PM | |
Angel7 Ideal Rock Total Posts: 1,997 Last Post: 8/7/2008 Member Since: 1/18/2005 |
As somone who lives in Chicago and been to Tavern, I agree with Island Dreams. Why not get a really cute or dressy wrap? Perhaps even accent it with a great broach? You can do tons with a black dress. How about bringing in some color with red shoes and a red wrap? Or Gold/Silver shoes with matching accessories. A dressy wrap/caplet can change up the look as well as great jewlery. Good Luck! ____________________________________________________________________________________ |
| Posted: 12/5/2005 3:59:34 PM | |
| P: 12/5/2005 4:05:31 PM | |
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Mara Ideal Rock Total Posts: 27,922 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 10/30/2002 |
I don't have too much experience with Anthropologie..but I know people who love their stuff. It's just not me really in terms of taste...but they do have some cute stuff sometimes!! I am totally unsure about their sizing though. What about JCrew? Do you have a local store? They usually have some cutie dressy things that aren't too black tie but still fun. ________________________________ |
| Posted: 12/5/2005 4:05:31 PM | |
| P: 12/5/2005 4:37:00 PM | |
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monarch64 Ideal Rock Total Posts: 9,555 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 8/12/2005 |
Ok, here are some of the things I like from anthropologie. I still don't know how to do multiple attachments on one reply, so bear with me. "Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined." Henry David Thoreau |
| Posted: 12/5/2005 4:37:00 PM | |
| P: 12/5/2005 4:38:32 PM | |
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monarch64 Ideal Rock Total Posts: 9,555 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 8/12/2005 |
I thought this dress was fun, a little different from basic black. "Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined." Henry David Thoreau |
| Posted: 12/5/2005 4:38:32 PM | |
| P: 12/5/2005 4:42:02 PM | |
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monarch64 Ideal Rock Total Posts: 9,555 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 8/12/2005 |
cute skirt "Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined." Henry David Thoreau |
| Posted: 12/5/2005 4:42:02 PM | |
| P: 12/5/2005 4:43:35 PM | |
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monarch64 Ideal Rock Total Posts: 9,555 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 8/12/2005 |
maybe with this top "Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined." Henry David Thoreau |
| Posted: 12/5/2005 4:43:35 PM | |
| P: 12/5/2005 4:48:29 PM | |
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monarch64 Ideal Rock Total Posts: 9,555 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 8/12/2005 |
Then there's this dress, which is a chocolate brown...I love browns, can you tell? "Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined." Henry David Thoreau |
| Posted: 12/5/2005 4:48:29 PM | |
| P: 12/5/2005 4:51:44 PM | |
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monarch64 Ideal Rock Total Posts: 9,555 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 8/12/2005 |
Hmmm, what else is in the virtual closet? I love this lace cardigan, but I don't have anything to wear with it. "Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined." Henry David Thoreau |
| Posted: 12/5/2005 4:51:44 PM | |
| P: 12/5/2005 4:53:19 PM | |
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monarch64 Ideal Rock Total Posts: 9,555 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 8/12/2005 |
Then there's this dress, which is black but a less traditional style.  "Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined." Henry David Thoreau |
| Posted: 12/5/2005 4:53:19 PM | |
| P: 12/5/2005 4:57:37 PM | |
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monarch64 Ideal Rock Total Posts: 9,555 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 8/12/2005 |
what about a top like this "Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined." Henry David Thoreau |
| Posted: 12/5/2005 4:57:37 PM | |
| P: 12/5/2005 4:58:28 PM | |
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monarch64 Ideal Rock Total Posts: 9,555 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 8/12/2005 |
with some of these funky cropped pants and really cute shoes? "Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined." Henry David Thoreau |
| Posted: 12/5/2005 4:58:28 PM | |
| P: 12/5/2005 5:27:25 PM | |
pebbles Ideal Rock Total Posts: 953 Last Post: 6/9/2006 Member Since: 10/8/2005 |
While I like all the things you posted, I think the first dress is the only one fancy enough for a cocktail dress atire. I would wear the Jones New York dress (love their dresses BTW) and dress it up. Here's a few things I found on Nordstrom's web site: Echo sequin nylon mesh sash: http://store.nordstrom.com/product/product.asp?styleid=2882106&category=2376779~2376805~2376807~2384812&PrevStyleID=2869814&NextStyleID=2881468 Helen Welsh Organza Wrap: http://store.nordstrom.com/product/product.asp?styleid=2878875&category=2376779~2376805~2376807~2384812&PrevStyleID=2885040&NextStyleID=2878874 Echo pretty peacock silk scarf: http://store.nordstrom.com/product/product.asp?styleid=2874230&category=2376779~2376805~2376807~2384812&PrevStyleID=2874776&NextStyleID=2875088 Nine West Crystal Crinkle sash: http://store.nordstrom.com/product/product.asp?styleid=2872116&category=2376779~2376805~2376807~2384812&PrevStyleID=2870300&NextStyleID=2874933 If you go under "handbags & accessories" and click "special occassion accessories" there is a lot of jewelry that would look awesome with a little black dress. Can you make the treck to Oak Brook Mall and see some of those things in person?
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| Posted: 12/5/2005 5:27:25 PM | |
| P: 12/5/2005 6:00:42 PM | |
MC Ideal Rock Total Posts: 8,848 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 2/8/2003 |
ooooh, this is cute, Pebbles. . I'm about to do an online order and am going to get this! lol About the Anthropologie items. . I don't think it's a good idea ordering online for an event so near in the future. If the dress (or whatever) you buy doesn't fit, then you're under even more pressure to rush to the mall in order to find something. Since you've never ordered from there, it's impossible for you to gauge sizing and all that so you're risking a stressful situation. I just came back from, where else, but the mall, lol  and noticed all kinds of velvets and beautiful lacy camisoles everywhere. Why not just hit one of the finer department stores nearby and try on a few things??? . . . regardless of what you decide. . .DO NOT wear the dress that doesn't make you feel outrageously hot! Find something, anything else! 
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| Posted: 12/5/2005 6:00:42 PM | |
| P: 12/5/2005 6:04:01 PM | |
gingerBcookie Ideal Rock Total Posts: 1,858 Last Post: 3/27/2009 Member Since: 8/13/2004 |
i was just on the nordstrom's site and they have a TON of cute dresses on sale...and right now shipping is free for purchases over $100. These were my faves from the sale rack. I think the foirst and third dresses on the top row are HOT! 
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| Posted: 12/5/2005 6:04:01 PM | |
| P: 12/5/2005 6:06:31 PM | |
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MC Ideal Rock Total Posts: 8,848 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 2/8/2003 |
Date: 12/5/2005 4:05:31 PM I'm unsure about Anthropologie, too. My husband's cousin just got a job there and now she can get me 40% off all of their clothes. I'm debating about whether or not to check out their clothing because I'd have to drive into downtown and I'm kind of lazy about dealing with parking and all that.
Author: Mara I don't have too much experience with Anthropologie..but I know people who love their stuff. It's just not me really in terms of taste...but they do have some cute stuff sometimes!! I am totally unsure about their sizing though.
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| Posted: 12/5/2005 6:06:31 PM | |
| P: 12/5/2005 8:44:42 PM | |
Blue824 Ideal Rock Total Posts: 1,614 Last Post: 10/28/2009 Member Since: 12/15/2004 |
Honestly, if the weather is anything like it was today, I wouldn't be caught dead with my legs not covered!!! I'd spend the entire dinner trying to warm up But honestly, the last time I was at Tavern on Rush for dinner with my bf, I wore black pants with this cute jacket and a sparkly top underneath...the time before that with friends I just wore dark jeans with a cute top....I did not feel out of place at all. I don't believe they have a real dress code, I've seen the entire range there. Have fun, I hope you enjoy it!
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| Posted: 12/5/2005 8:44:42 PM | |
| P: 12/5/2005 9:32:40 PM | |
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Mara Ideal Rock Total Posts: 27,922 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 10/30/2002 |
oh michelle, anthropologie DOES have AG jeans, so if she can get you 40% off those, score!! i love that first black nordstrom dress, now THAT's HOT! and it looks like it would work for various body types too!
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| Posted: 12/5/2005 9:32:40 PM | |
| P: 12/5/2005 9:48:28 PM | |
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MC Ideal Rock Total Posts: 8,848 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 2/8/2003 |
Date: 12/5/2005 9:32:40 PM NO WAY!!! OMG!!! Author: Mara oh michelle, anthropologie DOES have AG jeans, so if she can get you 40% off those, score!!  Thanks. I had no idea. I spent over an hour the other day trying to find something on the web site I liked enough to make it worth driving DT, but didn't see anything. . . but now I have a great reason! Actually, I just ordered a pair AG's from Nordstrom online this afternoon and this was to be my first pair of this brand! These jeans do fit me good, but I never purchased before and today when I decided to finally get a pair, t.b.d. was all sold out (due to Oprah's raving) except for one pair of size 26 jeans that someone had purchased, altered, and then returned so I ordered from the site!
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| Posted: 12/5/2005 9:48:28 PM | |
| P: 12/5/2005 10:24:52 PM | |
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monarch64 Ideal Rock Total Posts: 9,555 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 8/12/2005 |
Thanks everyone for the input! I went to Von Maur after work tonight and tried on some dresses, but wow, is it cold up here and Blue you're probably right about freezing to death without my legs covered. Why can't sidewalks here be covered???? We went to Minneapolis last winter for a Vikings game/fun weekend and all the buildings were connected with heated walkways...it was great! And we've been to Vegas when it was like 35 degrees (unusual) and all the entrances had giant space heaters set up so you didn't freeze waiting for a cab. Chicago needs to get it together already! Pebbles, I really love the ideas you posted, the sashes are adorable. I am going to Oakbrook Center after work tomorrow...they have Anthropologie, J.Crew, Neiman's, everything, so hopefully I can find something there and not mess with ordering online since I am a little late in the game for that. I would totally wear jeans and a cute top, but my husband wants to wear a suit for some reason, so I think I would look a little silly on his arm dressed in jeans. We only live 13 miles outside the city, but we maybe make it down there once every few months, therefore we like to dress up and make it a big deal, you know? Ok, I'll keep you updated on my shopping quest (not that anyone cares, but this is kind of fun).  Sniff, thank goodness for Pricescope shoppers!
"Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined." Henry David Thoreau |
| Posted: 12/5/2005 10:24:52 PM | |
| P: 12/5/2005 11:07:58 PM | |
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gingerBcookie Ideal Rock Total Posts: 1,858 Last Post: 3/27/2009 Member Since: 8/13/2004 |
i ended up buying that first black dress...with free shipping and free returns at the store, i couldn't resist! this shopping forum is bad bad bad. i start looking and shopping for other ppl and end up buying for myself !
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| Posted: 12/5/2005 11:07:58 PM | |
| P: 12/5/2005 11:36:33 PM | |
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monarch64 Ideal Rock Total Posts: 9,555 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 8/12/2005 |
Ok, gingerbcookie, you have gotten me in a lot of trouble here.  LOL. I went on the nordstrom site and found the blue Laundry dress, did a live chat and found it in Escondido, CA in my size...then I did a search and found it on ebay for a starting bid of $49! (It's $122 at nordstrom, but there is only one and as stated above would have to be shipped from Ca). Question: I've never bid on ebay before, and I may have made a huge mistake, considering that there are 5 days left of bidding on that item. Does that mean I have to wait 5 days to find out if I won the auction, or can the seller just decide to sell it to me? I bid $55. I didn't realize when I bid (even though I checked the little box, which I didn't read, oops) that you have to buy it no matter what if you are the highest bidder. Hmm. I could be in a pickle here, I think. P.S. I do love that little black dress you purchased, ginger! Sorry we're such bad influences on each other!!! 
"Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined." Henry David Thoreau |
| Posted: 12/5/2005 11:36:33 PM | |
| P: 12/5/2005 11:50:42 PM | |
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Mara Ideal Rock Total Posts: 27,922 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 10/30/2002 |
haha we are all such bad influences on each other in more ways than one! diamonds...clothes...HANDBAGS!!
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| Posted: 12/5/2005 11:50:42 PM | |
| P: 12/6/2005 12:10:02 AM | |
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Blue824 Ideal Rock Total Posts: 1,614 Last Post: 10/28/2009 Member Since: 12/15/2004 |
Date: 12/5/2005 11:36:33 PM Author: monarch64 Question: I've never bid on ebay before, and I may have made a huge mistake, considering that there are 5 days left of bidding on that item. Does that mean I have to wait 5 days to find out if I won the auction, or can the seller just decide to sell it to me? I bid $55. I didn't realize when I bid (even though I checked the little box, which I didn't read, oops) that you have to buy it no matter what if you are the highest bidder. Hmm. I could be in a pickle here, I think. Yeah, unfortunately you have to wait until the auction ends to find out if you've won or not. The only instant transactions on Ebay are the ones with a "buy it now" option. Hopefully someone will outbid you then you don't have to worry about it! Just get yourself to the mall and find something cute to wear! (and then show us )
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| Posted: 12/6/2005 12:10:02 AM | |
| P: 12/6/2005 12:26:32 AM | |
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monarch64 Ideal Rock Total Posts: 9,555 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 8/12/2005 |
darn it! Leave it to my impulsive buying habits to mess up! Oh well, even if I end up paying $100 I will wear it someday, hopefully. Should've consulted hubby or PS first! I will definitely show you the end result, rest assured!
"Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined." Henry David Thoreau |
| Posted: 12/6/2005 12:26:32 AM | |
| P: 12/6/2005 6:10:52 PM | |
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MC Ideal Rock Total Posts: 8,848 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 2/8/2003 |
Date: 12/6/2005 12:26:32 AM If you get the win the dress and don't end up wearing it, you can always resell it on eBay. I sell all kinds on there. It's really easy and almost addicting as bidding Author: monarch64 darn it! Leave it to my impulsive buying habits to mess up! Oh well, even if I end up paying $100 I will wear it someday, hopefully. Should've consulted hubby or PS first! I will definitely show you the end result, rest assured! 
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| Posted: 12/6/2005 6:10:52 PM | |
| P: 12/8/2005 3:46:15 PM | |
teagreen Cut Rock Total Posts: 281 Last Post: 11/16/2006 Member Since: 3/28/2005 |
Off topic about what to wear, but have a great time at Tavern! I love that place! The steak is really good (better than Wildfire in my opinion, if you've been there), and yummy au gratin potatoes. Charming atmosphere too. I'm jealous!!!
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| Posted: 12/8/2005 3:46:15 PM | |
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