projectwedding.com/
 

Diamond Jewelry Forums   Picture Gallery   Video Gallery   Journal

   
 Search Posted Today Most Active Help   
 » Home »  » Pricescope café »  » Hangout »  » What would YOU DO? Wedding band choices :)


  

 What would YOU DO? Wedding band choices :)

P:  3/4/2005 3:03:40 PM  
treysar
treysar

Ideal Rock
Total Posts: 935
Last Post: 4/29/2009
Member Since: 6/5/2004
 

I'm so dramatic!
But really, you guys know how hard it is to decide on bling! I'm trying to decide between the three choices:


a) an eternity band the same mm as my e ring to go on the same hand as my ring (You have to see my ring to understand that not only does it NOT sit flush, it's VERY far away from the e-ring itself).


This is a consideration because in the future I can wear it on the other hand with more stacking bands, which if I’m lucky, will come in the future..


b) A 5 stone band for my right hand.


The pros - I REALLY WANT THIS! The cons - the size that I want is not feasible right now, so in the back of my mind I think, why not got cheaper and stick with a ring that goes with my e-ring this way I have something to look forward to on a big anniversary?



c) A slightly thicker, fun filigree diamond and sapphire band that can be a right hand right, but it doesn't really look like a wedding band.


Don’t ask me which I like the best, because I HAVE NO IDEA. I actually went to my jeweler with the intention of buying our bands and wound up leaving empty handed because I was so perplexed.


What are your opinions? Thank you, oh sparkly ones.


***2 one way tickets and a diamond ring, hell it don't matter what the rain might bring...***
Posted:  3/4/2005 3:03:40 PM

 There are 30 replies to this message.  There are 30 replies on this page.

P: 3/4/2005 3:09:38 PM
mrssalvo
mrssalvo

Ideal Rock
Total Posts: 16,860
Last Post: 11/24/2009
Member Since: 1/3/2005
 
also consider how sentimental you are. will this be THE RING he uses when he says his vows. some people always want to wear that band for that reason alone.
i vote for the eternity, but that's cause I WANT ONE....





-----------------------------
A deal is only a deal if you are getting exactly what you want.

Posted:  3/4/2005 3:09:38 PM
P: 3/4/2005 3:13:07 PM
MC
MC

Ideal Rock
Total Posts: 8,870
Last Post: 11/25/2009
Member Since: 2/8/2003
 
Okay, um, I'd definetly get a sentimental wedding band.  A ring that signifies your marriage.  But, due to the way your ring is designed and although generally I love gaps, yours would be really big, so I'd probably wear the ring AFTER the ceremony on the right hand!!!  lol

Maybe find a pretty wedding band that will also coordinate with the five-stone ring you're wanting so you can stack these together on your right hand???   



Posted:  3/4/2005 3:13:07 PM
P: 3/4/2005 3:16:42 PM
Kaleigh
Kaleigh

Ideal Rock
Total Posts: 25,920
Last Post: 11/24/2009
Member Since: 11/18/2004
 
I like the idea of an eternity band.  The five stone band sounds nice too!!  Sorry to be of no help!!

____________________________
Piece of cake and a candle.
**ng gift**

Posted:  3/4/2005 3:16:42 PM
P: 3/4/2005 4:00:08 PM
Patty
Patty

Ideal Rock
Total Posts: 4,031
Last Post: 6/4/2008
Member Since: 12/7/2003
 
treysar, How high up does your ring sit?  Is it possible to get a very narrow/short wedding band that would fit under the head of your ring?

From pictures I've seen that seems to be what Princess Diana did with her huge sapphire.

Posted:  3/4/2005 4:00:08 PM
P: 3/4/2005 4:01:38 PM
ame
ame

Ideal Rock
Total Posts: 3,452
Last Post: 2/7/2006
Member Since: 7/7/2004
 
I have a new option. Make two eternity bands, one regular to wear alone and one that has a hole in the circle so that it stops at the head of the setting and picks up on the othr side. Someone has that giong on with her solitaire and it's really cool.

Posted:  3/4/2005 4:01:38 PM
P: 3/4/2005 4:29:58 PM
Patty
Patty

Ideal Rock
Total Posts: 4,031
Last Post: 6/4/2008
Member Since: 12/7/2003
 
Date: 3/4/2005 41:38 PM
Author: ame
I have a new option. Make two eternity bands, one regular to wear alone and one that has a hole in the circle so that it stops at the head of the setting and picks up on the othr side. Someone has that giong on with her solitaire and it's really cool.

Ame, I was wondering if they made such a thing.  Like a ring that only goes around 3/4ths of the way and it stops at the big circle.  That would be cool!

Posted:  3/4/2005 4:29:58 PM
P: 3/4/2005 4:49:11 PM
ame
ame

Ideal Rock
Total Posts: 3,452
Last Post: 2/7/2006
Member Since: 7/7/2004
 
Oh yea, someone has two of them in her post in the Show Me the Ring thread. I can't remember the page though. Its awesome.

Posted:  3/4/2005 4:49:11 PM
P: 3/4/2005 4:53:15 PM
ame
ame

Ideal Rock
Total Posts: 3,452
Last Post: 2/7/2006
Member Since: 7/7/2004
 
Ok found it.

Page 6 Post 4 and Post 20. Its AGBF's set.

Posted:  3/4/2005 4:53:15 PM
P: 3/4/2005 5:10:47 PM
Patty
Patty

Ideal Rock
Total Posts: 4,031
Last Post: 6/4/2008
Member Since: 12/7/2003
 
http://www.pricescope.com/idealbb/files/agbffinal.JPG



I found it too!

Posted:  3/4/2005 5:10:47 PM
P: 3/4/2005 5:11:41 PM
ame
ame

Ideal Rock
Total Posts: 3,452
Last Post: 2/7/2006
Member Since: 7/7/2004
 
That is just cool.

Posted:  3/4/2005 5:11:41 PM
P: 3/4/2005 5:14:17 PM
Kaleigh
Kaleigh

Ideal Rock
Total Posts: 25,920
Last Post: 11/24/2009
Member Since: 11/18/2004
 
That's awsome, thanks Patty!!

____________________________
Piece of cake and a candle.
**ng gift**

Posted:  3/4/2005 5:14:17 PM
P: 3/4/2005 5:42:52 PM
movie zombie
movie zombie

Ideal Rock
Total Posts: 5,223
Last Post: 11/25/2009
Member Since: 1/20/2005
 
so very lovely!  how about practical:  do the partial bands catch on anything or do they stay snug up against the solitaire?

just as i think i'm headed in one direction, one of you posts something that just gives me more ideas!  am i complaning?!  well, sounds like it but i'm not!  thank you!

peace, movie zombie

"I don't feel enjoyment watching films that evoke passivity. If you need that kind of comfort, I don't understand why you wouldn't go to a spa." Chan-wook Park

Posted:  3/4/2005 5:42:52 PM
P: 3/4/2005 5:47:04 PM
treysar
treysar

Ideal Rock
Total Posts: 935
Last Post: 4/29/2009
Member Since: 6/5/2004
 
Wow - that would be SO COOL! I'll have to ask my jeweler about that!!

I am leaning towards the eternity band, it seems to be more affordable - and Patty, like you said, it can kind of fit under the head of the ring - but only slightly because my ring profile is, well, weird. In a good way!




***2 one way tickets and a diamond ring, hell it don't matter what the rain might bring...***

Posted:  3/4/2005 5:47:04 PM
P: 3/4/2005 5:56:50 PM
Gale
Gale

Cut Rock
Total Posts: 472
Last Post: 2/23/2007
Member Since: 7/3/2004
 
Treysar - your ring is to die for. I really like the option that Ame suggested. It would be the perfect foil for your already blingy-bling.

Posted:  3/4/2005 5:56:50 PM
P: 3/4/2005 10:30:38 PM
windy1365
windy1365

Cut Rock
Total Posts: 369
Last Post: 9/30/2008
Member Since: 2/13/2005
 
I would get the ring that matches your e-ring.  You might regret not getting it.  I got a wedding band that that almost matches my e-ring because it saved us $500, but now I wish that I had gotten the perfect match.  I will always know that it's not perfect. 

For the other rings... you can get them for your one year anniversary, then the other one for your birthday!!  I did want a sapphire and diamond band, but now my dream ring is a pave diamond with with a turqouise center stone!!  You might like something different in a few months.

Posted:  3/4/2005 10:30:38 PM
P: 3/5/2005 6:45:30 PM
Lions, Tigers & Bears
Lions, Tigers & Bears

Ideal Rock
Total Posts: 4,107
Last Post: 9/12/2005
Member Since: 10/18/2003
 
My gut said "eternity band"...my rings don't sit flush...but it's not an issue....it's hard to say for sure how far apart is too far apart without a visual but if you can interchange rings between right & left hands,  get the eternity band which you could wear on the right hand as well. I just think an eternity band done in the size/style of your ering would be so beautiful.

Ame's idea is also promising if it can be done.

ETA:  Did you see the celebrity rings/Cosmo thread???/ Most of those sets do not sit flush...I think it looks kind of cool.  it sort of gives off an "I have X thousands of  dollars twirling on my finger" vibe.

_____________________________________________ Don't breed or buy when homeless pets continue to die.

Posted:  3/5/2005 6:45:30 PM
P: 3/5/2005 7:17:16 PM
Kaleigh
Kaleigh

Ideal Rock
Total Posts: 25,920
Last Post: 11/24/2009
Member Since: 11/18/2004
 
The way rings are being designed these days, most do not sit flush with a wedding band.  Mine doesn't there is a small gap, but looks great.  I would go with what you are comfortable with.  A gap is almost the norm these days.  You can always wear a wedding band on the right hand too, as many people are choosing to do.  I like ame's advice, I think it would look awesome.

____________________________
Piece of cake and a candle.
**ng gift**

Posted:  3/5/2005 7:17:16 PM
P: 3/5/2005 7:34:11 PM
ame
ame

Ideal Rock
Total Posts: 3,452
Last Post: 2/7/2006
Member Since: 7/7/2004
 
Date: 3/5/2005 6:45:30 PM
Author: Jennifer5973
I just think an eternity band done in the size/style of your ering would be so beautiful.


Ame's idea is also promising if it can be done.

I bet if you had an e-band and almost e-band made (like AGBF's) in the same antiqued style that WOULD be gorgeous.

Find out where she got those made and see if they can make something more in that style just like it. Make one with the gap and one without.

ETA: I say this assuming you and your man are made of money.

Posted:  3/5/2005 7:34:11 PM
P: 3/5/2005 7:41:08 PM
valeria101
valeria101

Ideal Rock
Total Posts: 14,048
Last Post: 4/30/2006
Member Since: 8/29/2003
 
Date: 3/4/2005 5:47:4 PM
Author: treysar

I am leaning towards the eternity band...

Looking at the pic...

Can't see why a thin ( not narrow, I mean, but thin in profile) eternity band would not fit nearly flush to the ring. One made like the pave portion of the shank of the ring would look great, IMO.

A band as dainty as THIS  would fit flush, I think.

Ana "The greatest experts are only as good as the sum total of what they have seen." [Souren Melikian]

Posted:  3/5/2005 7:41:08 PM
P: 3/5/2005 7:43:11 PM
ame
ame

Ideal Rock
Total Posts: 3,452
Last Post: 2/7/2006
Member Since: 7/7/2004
 
oh wow!

Posted:  3/5/2005 7:43:11 PM
P: 3/5/2005 7:45:23 PM
Lions, Tigers & Bears
Lions, Tigers & Bears

Ideal Rock
Total Posts: 4,107
Last Post: 9/12/2005
Member Since: 10/18/2003
 
The band Ana just posted a link to is just stunning...and would be so beautiful with your ring.

_____________________________________________ Don't breed or buy when homeless pets continue to die.

Posted:  3/5/2005 7:45:23 PM
P: 3/5/2005 8:28:01 PM
snow_happy
snow_happy

Ideal Rock
Total Posts: 546
Last Post: 7/30/2006
Member Since: 2/10/2005
 
Your ring is beautiful! Is it possible to custom make a band that dips at the top so you can wear it flush to your e-ring? You can even get the same size pave(?) that is on your e-ring. I know Tacori rings have a design similar to this and the w-band is very thin. I don't know if I can find a picture or not... sorry !

Posted:  3/5/2005 8:28:01 PM
P: 3/5/2005 8:36:05 PM
NyssaLynne
NyssaLynne

Cut Rock
Total Posts: 353
Last Post: 7/3/2005
Member Since: 12/21/2004
 
I went to a special event at a local jeweler's today and tried on a micro eternity band. it was nice and fit flush but the diamonds were so small that they didn't look right next to my 3-pointers in my band.  It would probably look great with your pave band.

Lynne~

Posted:  3/5/2005 8:36:05 PM
P: 3/5/2005 11:23:35 PM
Libster
Libster

Ideal Rock
Total Posts: 998
Last Post: 9/18/2009
Member Since: 10/21/2004
 
I think you really should get a wedding band to wear with your BEAUTIFUL e-ring.  Have you seen this ring at www.signedpieces.com ?  It's a Facets millgrain eternity band, that I'm betting would look great with your ring. 
 

 




******************************
Diamonds.........Yield to Temptation!



Posted:  3/5/2005 11:23:35 PM
P: 3/6/2005 1:07:05 AM
snow_happy
snow_happy

Ideal Rock
Total Posts: 546
Last Post: 7/30/2006
Member Since: 2/10/2005
 
what about the one at the bottom of this link? It's from Antique Engagement Rings.com is 2mm side and only 1.4mm tall. Maybe it would be small enough to sit flush? It has milgrain too which would be great with your e-ring.

Link

Posted:  3/6/2005 1:07:05 AM
P: 3/6/2005 1:07:58 AM
snow_happy
snow_happy

Ideal Rock
Total Posts: 546
Last Post: 7/30/2006
Member Since: 2/10/2005
 
Oh yeah to answer the original question I go for #1 for tradition reasons...even if you can't find one to sit flush

Posted:  3/6/2005 1:07:58 AM
P: 3/6/2005 10:16:45 AM
fountainfairfax
fountainfairfax

Ideal Rock
Total Posts: 1,180
Last Post: 7/10/2006
Member Since: 2/4/2005
 
I think everyone has offered treysar some wonderful options but if I had an e-ring with as much breath-taking, beautiful detailing as hers, I would miss not being able to see it from the side
...but since I'm left-handed I get a constant view of the side facing me with any ring I wear on my left hand
maybe the mirco eternity band would be the best choice in regard to not hiding those perfect details?

Posted:  3/6/2005 10:16:45 AM
P: 3/6/2005 10:52:19 AM
Maxine
Maxine

Ideal Rock
Total Posts: 1,394
Last Post: 10/25/2009
Member Since: 12/6/2004
 
Antique engagement rings...and other sites...have the curved bands, too...would that work???

Posted:  3/6/2005 10:52:19 AM
P: 3/6/2005 12:44:42 PM
kittykat
kittykat

Cut Rock
Total Posts: 179
Last Post: 12/16/2006
Member Since: 2/18/2005
 
Treysar,
I am having the same dilemna. I purchased and infinity band that looks ok with my engagement ring. I bought it with the intention of stacking it in the future. After a while I decided it didnt look good enough with my engagment ring so I decided to buy another with diamonds and sapphires to stack right away. (They're failry inexpensive since they are about .20 and .30 carats in diamonds). I plan to wear these most of the time when we are married and I'm really excited. I've decided not to wear my engagement ring too much after we get married. However, I do want the option of wearing a weeding band that matches my engagement ring every once in a while but don't think we should spend that kind of money. I think your idea of the infinity ring custom mde for your e ring is a good one. The point of my story is to say that if you can afford it, you should get the band that matches your e-ring and a set of stackable rings. That wuld be my own personal ideal!

Posted:  3/6/2005 12:44:42 PM
P: 3/7/2005 7:48:43 PM
mrssalvo
mrssalvo

Ideal Rock
Total Posts: 16,860
Last Post: 11/24/2009
Member Since: 1/3/2005
 
I recently stumbled upon Sheldon Speyer's website and he has a new collection called Mini Mania that are all micro pave eternity. something from him might work as well.





-----------------------------
A deal is only a deal if you are getting exactly what you want.

Posted:  3/7/2005 7:48:43 PM

 Previous Page Next Page 
« Mother's Day Pressie «» dumb question about 3 stone rings »
Next Topics
Cosmo Bride celebrity rings special (pics) 15ct Asscher..... Jacko's wedding ring.... How do you handle the wait? I can't believe I am SO peeved about this- What center stone size blends in best with 0.22c sides? the good,the bad of having kids earlier in life is.... nbsp Coming up on E! TV - 40 Celebrity Weddings... Paris Hilton engaged? Gastanau Girls Most accurate way to determine your ring size? Mother's Day Pressie Argh! I can't decide. Baby, these are all the things I like, YOU choose! dumb question about 3 stone rings Hot ICE 15ct D IF H&A's Unable to polish platinum????? HELP...Please I'm new; hope this is the right section to ask my questions. They ruined my ring! Jeweler Tried to pull a fast one Hey Canadians, Name Change? What to say when friends/relatives ask how much? ... Cushion cousin? 3 day Quizz - What is this about? What is Shrinkage? High Low Game Soldering and sizing question with the price of diamonds increasing every week.... WEBSAILOR!!!! question!!! Los Angeles to San Jose?

Jump to:



Contact Us  |  Back Home  |  Privacy Statement  |  Forum Agreement  |  Forum Policies

Ideal BB Version: 0.1.5.4.beta1 Message forum software powered by  the Ideal BB

IdealBB Badge


Pricescope - Knowledge - Diamond Prices - Tools - Resources - About

© 2000-2009 Pricescope. Terms of Use Privacy Policy Disclaimer
forum archives