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P:  1/19/2005 9:28:37 AM  
GettingEngaged
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Hi all,

My girlfriend has very small hands. Her fingers are short, but not particularly thin (I think size 6).

The first question is shape: Is a 75 point princess cut going to make her fingers look even shorter and chubby? She really wants princess, but I'm getting concerned.

The second question is the ring itself: What should I get to make her fingers look longer, rather than shorter?

Thanks.
 

 


Posted:  1/19/2005 9:28:37 AM

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P: 1/19/2005 9:43:31 AM
strmrdr
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.75 should be fine.
A thin band will help.
No trellis or x-prong go with a thin band setting with or without pave.
Then go with a thin 1/2 eternity wedding band.

Or just go with what she likes and dont worry about it :}

........... Karl has joined the diamond trade and is now posting as Karl_K

Posted:  1/19/2005 9:43:31 AM
P: 1/19/2005 9:49:22 AM
windowshopper
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well from a purely aesthetic standpoint an oval or emerald might be better BUT get herr what she wants.  Has she tried a bunch on?  If not she should to be sure.  And yes a thin band and thin wedding band give a lighter look and wont break up her finger so much

actually have you considered a radiant cut or has she--------rectangular shape so more elongated but with brilliant faceting

Posted:  1/19/2005 9:49:22 AM
P: 1/19/2005 10:10:11 AM
SJS1234
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I have short chubby fingers -- size 6.75, so this was DEFINITELY a concern for me.    I'm going with a very thin micropave setting (2mm).  My stone is 1.2 ct, but I think the band makes the bigger difference that the stone.   

Posted:  1/19/2005 10:10:11 AM
P: 1/19/2005 7:22:22 PM
NyssaLynne
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I was also going to suggest a slightly squared radiant.  It will elongate the finger but still give the appearance of the princess cut she desires.

Lynne~

Posted:  1/19/2005 7:22:22 PM
P: 1/19/2005 8:15:07 PM
valeria101
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Guess long shapes do wonders to make any hand look dainty. If pears and marquis and long rectangular stones of any kind are out of the question... neither square or round pull the trick as nicely regardless of how big they are, I think.

Ana "The greatest experts are only as good as the sum total of what they have seen." [Souren Melikian]

Posted:  1/19/2005 8:15:07 PM
P: 1/19/2005 8:18:36 PM
moremoremore
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I don't think size 6 is very small..most sample rings are size 6. Also, I respectfully suggest you let her be concerend about how it will look, not you.
The girl wants a princess. Get her a princess.

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Posted:  1/19/2005 8:18:36 PM
P: 1/19/2005 9:06:52 PM
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Date: 1/19/2005 9:43:31 AM
Author: strmrdr


Or just go with what she likes and dont worry about it :}


I think that's the best advice here

Posted:  1/19/2005 9:06:52 PM
P: 1/19/2005 9:34:34 PM
valeria101
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Date: 1/19/2005 96:52 PM
Author: noobie


Date: 1/19/2005 9:43:31 AM
Author: strmrdr


Or just go with what she likes and dont worry about it :}


I think that's the best advice here

Yes sir !   e-ring is no fashion article

Ana "The greatest experts are only as good as the sum total of what they have seen." [Souren Melikian]

Posted:  1/19/2005 9:34:34 PM
P: 1/19/2005 11:24:03 PM
allan creates
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Why don't you design a ring that backs up towards the hand rather than just sitting like any other ring with the shank centered as usual.

Curve the shank to back the ring up and set the diamond in front of it and you have something nobody else has and more finger is exposed making it look longer.

A drop of ink that spreads can give hundreds perhaps thousands of ideas.

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Posted:  1/19/2005 11:24:03 PM
P: 1/20/2005 12:37:27 AM
valeria101
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Date: 1/19/2005 11:243 PM
Author: allan creates

Why don't you design a ring that backs up towards the hand rather than just sitting like any other ring with the shank centered as usual.

It seems that these engagement rings are the most conservative of jewelry. Not surpirse though, since it is not the wearer that buys them and it is so hard to guess what someone else might like away from the beaten track

Ana "The greatest experts are only as good as the sum total of what they have seen." [Souren Melikian]

Posted:  1/20/2005 12:37:27 AM
P: 1/20/2005 2:35:37 AM
qtiekiki
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You gurls think a rectangular, oval, marquise would make the finger looks longer??? It seems to me that a more elongation shape stone would make the finger looks shorter because the length of the stone would cover more of the lenght of the finger.  I think the princess cut would make the finger look longer even though it seems like I am the only one that think so.  A thinner band/setting will definitely be helpful in making the finger look longer (this I agree with everyone). 

P.S. I have short fingers but I never worried about people thinking my fingers are short and no one ever made a statement about them (only comments on the ring).

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Posted:  1/20/2005 2:35:37 AM
P: 1/20/2005 2:58:00 AM
valeria101
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'guess is just one thing to consider when trying rings out. Can't imagine any hard rule holding about a matter of taste like this

Ana "The greatest experts are only as good as the sum total of what they have seen." [Souren Melikian]

Posted:  1/20/2005 2:58:00 AM
P: 1/20/2005 11:51:54 AM
codex57
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As long as the band isn't too thick and full of stuff, I don't think the shape matters enough to really make a difference. Plus, you buy a big enough stone, it won't matter cuz people are just gonna be in awe of how much of her finger is covered by the stone.

Posted:  1/20/2005 11:51:54 AM

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