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 Baby steps..or full court press? To buy, or not to buy...

P:  5/12/2004 4:10:03 PM  
sixstrrzr
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Well, like many before me, I want to buy a diamond for an engagement.

I went to a mall, put a ring on lay-a-way, and am now going to cancel...I just "don't feel comfortable".

I've read many posts on this board...

Just don't know where to start.

I've gone through some tutorials, know a little about quality & grade..I can talk fairly intellegently.

1.Is it better to buy the diamond, then the setting?

2.Are the 4 C's most important? Or the desk percentages, etc.

3. GIA vs. IGL? Or other certs?

4. Independent appraisals?

I really like the H&A, maybe .75-1.0 c, G-H, VS1, but there's probably more to consider.

Do I need to be more educated?

Thanks for the help - I know these seem like mundane questions, but I'd like to get pointed ("arrow"-style) in the right direction.

Posted:  5/12/2004 4:10:03 PM

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P: 5/12/2004 4:19:00 PM
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Well, like many before me, I want to buy a diamond for an engagement.

Welcome

1.Is it better to buy the diamond, then the setting?

It's best to first decide if the GF is going to participate in the process. If not, then find out what she likes. Sometimes the diamond shape leads you in a certain direction for the settings. Sometimes the setting leads you in the direction for the diamond. Which is more important to you and GF?

2.Are the 4 C's most important? Or the desk percentages, etc.

Only you can decide. For me it's: 1.) Cut, 2.) Carat (although it's kind of a tie), 3.) Clarity, 4.) Color. This list differs depending on the type of diamond however as fancy shapes hold more body color. Color may need to be bumped up in the list of importance.

The numbers are important for weeding out dogs, but you have to see them to believe them.

Actually, come to think of it... the most important "C" is Cash. Figure out your budget first, then start shopping.

3. GIA vs. IGL? Or other certs?
4. Independent appraisals?

GIA is good. I thin AGS is better, but no matter who certs it, always get it checked out by an indp. appraiser. To save time, you can have it sent to an appraiser directly from the vendor who will report back to you. Or, alternatively, you can have a few diamonds sent to a local appraiser (check with the vendor for details) and you can pick between them.

I really like the H&A, maybe .75-1.0 c, G-H, VS1, but there's probably more to consider.

If you budget is tight or you want to get the most of your money, you don't need a branded H&A to have H&A symmetry.

Do I need to be more educated?

Learn as much as you can... just don't drive yourself crazy (like some of us here). Good luck.

VH (aka GroomZilla)

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Posted:  5/12/2004 4:19:00 PM
P: 5/12/2004 4:23:44 PM
limey
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VH gives some of the best damn advice I have ever read. A few more. Be patient, don't rush. Buy an IdealScope and learn what a really good cut can look like! Look at all diamonds under various lights, not just jewelry store. Avoid mauls. Find out if she likes square or round or other, platinum or yellow gold. Find a jeweler you trust, there are many on PS that are amazingly helpful.

Posted:  5/12/2004 4:23:44 PM
P: 5/12/2004 4:25:31 PM
weemodin
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On 5/12/2004 4:10:03 PM sixstrrzr wrote:



1.Is it better to buy the diamond, then the setting?

Yes. Buy the diamond separately, then search for the setting. As a rule, high quality diamonds are not sold "pre-set" -- only the crud at maul stores (which you are wise to have avoided in the end, grasshopper) have pre-set stones.

2.Are the 4 C's most important? Or the desk percentages, etc.

General consensus here will probably be that of the four Cs, cut is the most important, provided that you chose a decent clarity and color grade. Why? Cut determines the light performance of the stone.
As for color -- most people are okay with anything up to H, I, or even J. This is a personal thing, though -- I'd go to a nice (not maul) jewelry store and look at some colors in WELL CUT stones to decide what your color threshold is. For your money, H-J in an ideal cut stone is usually the most "bang for your buck"
Clarity -- anything eyeclean is usually all that is worth paying for for most people. This means VS2, most SI1s, and some SI2s.
And of course, carat. Totally personal choice there.

3. GIA vs. IGL? Or other certs?

GIA or AGS are the most reputable, as is HRD (though not common). EGL USA (not any of the other EGLs) is okay too, you just have to be a little more careful since they're liberal on color/clarity grading.


4. Independent appraisals?
Always a good idea.
I really like the H&A, maybe .75-1.0 c, G-H, VS1, but there's probably more to consider.

Do I need to be more educated?
Don't we all? Check out the tutorial on goodoldgold.com -- it's got tons of info! And good Luck!

Thanks for the help - I know these seem like mundane questions, but I'd like to get pointed ('arrow'-style) in the right direction.
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Posted:  5/12/2004 4:25:31 PM
P: 5/12/2004 4:26:25 PM
weemodin
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VH and I must have posted at the same time... sorry!

Posted:  5/12/2004 4:26:25 PM
P: 5/12/2004 4:32:15 PM
verticalhorizon
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No worries, Wee... Thanks a bumch Limey! I've been through enough that I think I can give back a little something to the community!

Limey also has some good points that I missed!

He's right that you shouldn't feel rushed, by a sales person OR by yourself. Try not to come up with the proposal plans before you get the ring. Putting the cart before the horse. Many a bad choice was probably made in a shortage of time or pressure from a salesperson.

That said, also be aware that diamond prices have been on the rise. If you find something that's within your search criteria, but not 100% perfect... I say grab it! You never know who might take it from you or if DeBeers might hike up the price.

Getting yourself a loupe and Ideal Scope isn't a bad idea. Go into anyplace that sells diamonds and examine different stones of VARYING qualities... not just the ones that you think you'll like.

For a bit of fun, sometimes play dumb, sometimes play it smart. See how differently you're treated. I love this game!

VH (aka GroomZilla)

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Posted:  5/12/2004 4:32:15 PM
P: 5/12/2004 5:20:49 PM
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Hi VH,
 
I caught your tag line and just cracked up. The Church of Cut Quality! LOL

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Posted:  5/12/2004 5:20:49 PM
P: 5/12/2004 5:42:22 PM
sixstrrzr
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Many thanks for all your replies....

I am looking (read "she prefers") at a round brilliant, yellow gold 'simple' (no adjacent smaller stones) setting.

I'd like ~1 ct., but it may be too big (if there is such a diamond!) for her very small hands. She always says (in hint-dropping fashion)"I don't need anything too big..." which either means "don't get a large diamond" or "get me something now" (rather than saving up for a bigger diamond?) .

One of my dilemmas is whether to involve her in the selection process - it seems wierd. This cart-before-the-horse approach (as one replier called it) , while practical, doesn't seem romantic. Conversely, I'd really like to get her something she likes....oh, the sleepless nights & headaches linger....

Does anyone have any idea how long a process it usually is, from start of stone search to finished product delivery? That may be another one of my dumb questions - I suppose it could take as long as I want to look.

-ssr

Just noticed my tag as a new poster is "Rough Rock"....should be "Coal Chunk" or even "Liquid Dinosauer"





Posted:  5/12/2004 5:42:22 PM
P: 5/12/2004 6:49:16 PM
Shay37
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Six, as a woman I think it's important that you find out your GF's opinion on the whole subject. If she wants to be totally surprised or involved can be the difference between years of happiness with the ring or complaining and upgrading immediately.

Here's a nice compromise: Find out the shape she prefers. Have one of these fine internet dealers send two that you pick to an independant appraiser in your area. Take GF and have her pick between the two loose diamonds. Have her choose two or three settings that she truly loves. You choose the final winner and have it set. That way the finished product is still very much a surprise, and you know she will be happy with it. That way the whole thing is not make or break on you. She won't have to worry about knowing your budget. (you selected the diamonds within that criterion after all) You find an imaginative way to propose and life is a whole lot simpler that way.

Meanwhile listen to the experts here (I'm not one of them) on how the 4C's affect a diamond's beauty, and decide what's most important to you. (I'm a cut fanatic, BTW) Good luck and happy hunting.

Shay

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Posted:  5/12/2004 6:49:16 PM
P: 5/13/2004 12:13:07 PM
valeria101
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Simpel settign means that whoever sells the stone can provide one... and most are relatively inexpensive. You can well get a very un-fancy one as long as it gets proper finish by the setter - it can make allot of difference, I would think.

Since you want a H&A round, there is little use to hunt down diamonds "on the terrain" with an Iscope in hand: these stones take their pride in abiding by very tight proportions - basically, the best cuts are all cut alike

So... it will definitely be a straight forward buy at least in this cut-crazed envirionment that PS is.

The set of specs you post (H&A, G, VS1, ~1ct) make a good start. I would definitely not be shy of VS2-SI1 and perhaps tone down the H&A requirement (not allot, but a hair down the highest standard by H&A grading, esp. if the stone shows promissing light return regardless) if the cost difference is of issue. Also, 1 carat really means about 6.5mm diameter, and the respective size can well mean 0.95 at 59% depth or 1.1carats at 64% depth. Again, going a bit below 1 carat is usually a saver, if this matters allot.

Any stones you have considered yet



Ana "The greatest experts are only as good as the sum total of what they have seen." [Souren Melikian]

Posted:  5/13/2004 12:13:07 PM
P: 11/8/2004 6:52:36 PM
sixstrrzr
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OK,



 



It's time to get serious...



 



It's been a while since my last post, and I got busy with other things for the last few months, and I'm re-educating myself on stones for an engagement ring. Last May, plunked down 10% at a maul, and next day cancelled, after poking around on net (mostly here).



My gosh, those mauls are truly full of carnival barkers...really creepy, imho.



What I'm looking for (mainly because my gf has small hands, and is active) is Round Brilliant, around .95ct, color J+ (it'll be set in a YG band), premium or ideal cut, VVs1 or 2, and would like good table/depth for max. brilliance (some maybe call this H&A - ?).



Is this the type of stone I can get on the Net? (hopefully, thast's not a dumb question).



Thanks in advance.....



 



 



 



 

Posted:  11/8/2004 6:52:36 PM
P: 11/8/2004 7:08:05 PM
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Yes, you can find that on the net!  SuperbCert has a J, VS1 stone that is .95 for $3675.  You didn't mention your budget.  I'd also check out some of the other dealers who are often recommended here including Whiteflash and Good Old Gold.


I would focus on the CUT first and then the color and clarity.  Are you sure you want a VVS stone?  You can get a very clean VS stone for a lot less money. 

Posted:  11/8/2004 7:08:05 PM
P: 11/8/2004 7:17:46 PM
sixstrrzr
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Hi, Patty,


 


Thanks,


 


No probably don't need VVS - except that my gf is really into gold & stones, and has a 50 loupe (I think - it's powerful), but only for evaluation - at this point, she'd probably accept CrackerJack ring (yes, we've been dating a while).


My budget for engagement ring, bridal band, and groom ring ~$8-10k.


Other than the stone (I'd like to get best value - doesn't look like B&M's the way to go), I'd like a specific setting - maybe Cathedral. Even though a Tiffany is recommended, I'd like something a little more secure for an active girl - like a channel set, or a combo channel/large prong.


 


 


 


 

Posted:  11/8/2004 7:17:46 PM
P: 11/8/2004 7:21:58 PM
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Date: 5/12/2004 5:42:22 PM
Author: sixstrrzr


...She always says (in hint-dropping fashion)'I don't need anything too big...' which either means 'don't get a large diamond' or 'get me something now' (rather than saving up for a bigger diamond?) .

 


LMAO!!! I just had to comment--you're very astute. I'm sure you'll be able to make her happy with what you select.


"...Why don't they just come right out and say it? 'Diamonds...that'll shut her up!' "

Posted:  11/8/2004 7:21:58 PM
P: 11/8/2004 7:25:03 PM
sixstrrzr
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Date: 11/8/2004 7:21:58 PM
Author: goldengirl

Date: 5/12/2004 5:42:22 PM
Author: sixstrrzr


...She always says (in hint-dropping fashion)'I don't need anything too big...' which either means 'don't get a large diamond' or 'get me something now' (rather than saving up for a bigger diamond?) .




LMAO!!! I just had to comment--you're very astute. I'm sure you'll be able to make her happy with what you select.


 


Not as astute as you might think (see above).


It's just that she deserves something better than she's willing to accept....I think.


 


 

Posted:  11/8/2004 7:25:03 PM
P: 11/8/2004 7:30:24 PM
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You should be able to find a nice stone and ring with your budget.  I'm a bit confused when you say that a Tiffany style setting may not be as secure as a channel set ring.  I think a low pronged head like the Tiffany style is pretty secure.  The only thing that would possibly give more protection to the stone would be to go with a bezel setting.  The channel sets bands are pretty too.

Posted:  11/8/2004 7:30:24 PM
P: 11/8/2004 8:53:11 PM
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I agree with Patty.  You can have a very secure setting in the Tiffany style or other prong style settings.  I think the key for someone who is very active is to not have it set high, but to pick a setting and/or crown head that is lower.  That way it won't get bumped around as much, will fit better into gloves if that matters, and in general is just more out of the way, while still looking nice.  You mentioned a cathedral style setting.  In general they tend to be higher settings tht others like the Tiffany style or a bezel set stone, so it might not be the best choice for someone active. 


Do you have any idea what style she really prefers?  (I think crackerjacks has had several variations.)  I would really try to find that out or involve her in the process, so that it is a ring that she loves. 

Posted:  11/8/2004 8:53:11 PM
P: 11/9/2004 2:28:54 AM
valeria101
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Second the lower setting idea... basket-type (the Wprong at Whiteflash and the Xprong by Vatche, or most Lucida-style) are usually very care-free and dainty in the same time.  After them, Tiffany's (and the copies) and the Royal crown by Vatche come close for confort, IMO. As long as there is little space and "no metal" under the center diamond, any setting model can be made lower.


Actually, these lower settings allow to make the prongs very small and still be safe (since there is way less likely for them to get bent when short). I don't hear this said very often... but it definitely holds true. The only problem ?  These settings needs to fit the stones well - it does not work to make one-size-fit-all models, as it works for the very cheap "Tiffany style" models


Just one more 0.2 thrown in. Can't wait to see the ring... 

Ana "The greatest experts are only as good as the sum total of what they have seen." [Souren Melikian]

Posted:  11/9/2004 2:28:54 AM
P: 11/9/2004 2:44:13 AM
valeria101
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That was the "baby steps post"... here's the "full court press"


Since I interpret your GF's message as "better yesterday than sooner", here are two candidates off the bat: 1.33_H/VS1 and 1.5_J/VS2


 

Ana "The greatest experts are only as good as the sum total of what they have seen." [Souren Melikian]

Posted:  11/9/2004 2:44:13 AM
P: 11/9/2004 6:20:37 AM
orbaya
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Whiteflash.com has an Ideal cut G, VS2, GIA certed for $4809 (.95cts) 


http://www.whiteflash.com/round/Round-cut-diamond-814454.htm


 


They also have 7 H&A's AGS certed that are just over a carat that start at $7,635 that are V2, G in color.


http://www.whiteflash.com/diamonds/advanced-diamond-search.aspx?refine


 


Hope this helps!



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Posted:  11/9/2004 6:20:37 AM
P: 11/10/2004 12:42:31 PM
sixstrrzr
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Do the Wprong and xprong setting styles impair the viewing/ appearance of the diamond?


I've heard that you want as much of the top & bottom of the stone left "uncovered" to maximize brilliance - I'm just a little concerned that I'd cover up/ impede reflection of a fantastic stone with an overly protective setting.


Or, if the stone is a premioum cut, VVx clarity, it would look fantastic no matter what (possible slight over-generalization on my part) setting I choose?


 


 


 


Date: 11/9/2004 2:28:54 AM
Author: valeria101

Second the lower setting idea... basket-type (the Wprong at Whiteflash and the Xprong by Vatche, or most Lucida-style) are usually very care-free and dainty in the same time.  After them, Tiffany's (and the copies) and the Royal crown by Vatche come close for confort, IMO. As long as there is little space and 'no metal' under the center diamond, any setting model can be made lower.



Actually, these lower settings allow to make the prongs very small and still be safe (since there is way less likely for them to get bent when short). I don't hear this said very often... but it definitely holds true. The only problem ?  These settings needs to fit the stones well - it does not work to make one-size-fit-all models, as it works for the very cheap 'Tiffany style' models



Just one more 0.2 thrown in. Can't wait to see the ring...

Posted:  11/10/2004 12:42:31 PM

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