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Have you ever thought of doing something bad? |
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| P: 6/4/2009 2:06:33 PM | |
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Elegant Ideal Rock Total Posts: 830 Last Post: 11/10/2009 Member Since: 6/13/2008 |
Knowing full well there may be consequences to your action, but knowing how satisfying it might be? I am having some bad thoughts right now, nothing evil, but I don't know if I could live with the decision to follow through with it... I mean, the opportunity hasn't even presented itself, so my taking action on it isn't relelvent at this point. I am just so happy that no matter what, nobody can hear my thoughts and I can think what I want and nobody knows...
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| Posted: 6/4/2009 2:06:33 PM | |
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| P: 6/4/2009 2:08:32 PM | |
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somethingshiny Ideal Rock Total Posts: 3,648 Last Post: 11/20/2009 Member Since: 7/22/2007 |
care to expound?? ![]() I think we've all had unnecessary thoughts of malice, it's if you follow through on those thoughts that you need to be concerned with. *** "Life is change. Growth is optional. Choose wisely." ~ Karen Kaiser Clark *** |
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| P: 6/4/2009 2:13:27 PM | |
Starset Princess Ideal Rock Total Posts: 2,474 Last Post: 11/20/2009 Member Since: 11/24/2004 |
I've had 'public relations' in some pretty terrifyingly exciting locations. Looking back I shouldn't have done it, I probably wouldn't do it again, but it is pretty darn satisfying to know it has been done.
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janinegirly Ideal Rock Total Posts: 2,217 Last Post: 11/21/2009 Member Since: 9/21/2006 |
Hmm SP, are you going to leave us hanging? What falls under the category of terrifyingly exciting? And I wonder what Elegant has up her sleeve? I think it's completely normal to be tempted by "bad behavior" so long as it isn't something evil as you call it!
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| Posted: 6/4/2009 2:16:19 PM | |
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Elegant Ideal Rock Total Posts: 830 Last Post: 11/10/2009 Member Since: 6/13/2008 |
I don't want to do anything evil - morbid - horrible - just bad... just wrong and bad...
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| Posted: 6/4/2009 2:20:21 PM | |
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Dancing Fire Ideal Rock Total Posts: 10,218 Last Post: 11/21/2009 Member Since: 4/3/2004 |
Date: 6/4/2009 2:20:21 PM like cheating on your SO ?? Author: Elegant I don't want to do anything evil - morbid - horrible - just bad... just wrong and bad... ![]()
it is always harder to find a "mind clean" stone than a eye clean stone. |
| Posted: 6/4/2009 2:40:30 PM | |
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musey Ideal Rock Total Posts: 11,155 Last Post: 11/20/2009 Member Since: 9/30/2006 |
Date: 6/4/2009 2:40:30 PM Author: Dancing Fire Date: 6/4/2009 2:20:21 PM like cheating on your SO ?? Author: Elegant I don't want to do anything evil - morbid - horrible - just bad... just wrong and bad... ![]() ![]() DFire, does that not fall under "horrible" in your opinion?
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| Posted: 6/4/2009 2:49:20 PM | |
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Addy Ideal Rock Total Posts: 3,915 Last Post: 11/18/2009 Member Since: 10/20/2007 |
Date: 6/4/2009 2:13:27 PM Author: Starset Princess I've had 'public relations' in some pretty terrifyingly exciting locations. Looking back I shouldn't have done it, I probably wouldn't do it again, but it is pretty darn satisfying to know it has been done. My favorite type of bad!! I'm often tempted to be bad, little pranks mostly, nothing too bad.
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| Posted: 6/4/2009 2:53:59 PM | |
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Dancing Fire Ideal Rock Total Posts: 10,218 Last Post: 11/21/2009 Member Since: 4/3/2004 |
Date: 6/4/2009 2:49:20 PM depends on whom you talk to Author: musey Date: 6/4/2009 2:40:30 PM Author: Dancing Fire Date: 6/4/2009 2:20:21 PM like cheating on your SO ?? Author: Elegant I don't want to do anything evil - morbid - horrible - just bad... just wrong and bad... ![]() ![]() DFire, does that not fall under 'horrible' in your opinion?
it is always harder to find a "mind clean" stone than a eye clean stone. |
| Posted: 6/4/2009 2:58:12 PM | |
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VRBeauty Ideal Rock Total Posts: 2,599 Last Post: 11/21/2009 Member Since: 4/3/2006 |
Never!
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| Posted: 6/4/2009 3:28:27 PM | |
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Elegant Ideal Rock Total Posts: 830 Last Post: 11/10/2009 Member Since: 6/13/2008 |
Date: 6/4/2009 2:58:12 PM Hmmm... DF - does cheating on YOUR wife count as bad or horrible - we aren't talking about describing the mess she will make of you after she finds out either...Author: Dancing Fire Date: 6/4/2009 2:49:20 PM depends on whom you talk to Author: musey Date: 6/4/2009 2:40:30 PM Author: Dancing Fire Date: 6/4/2009 2:20:21 PM like cheating on your SO ?? Author: Elegant I don't want to do anything evil - morbid - horrible - just bad... just wrong and bad... ![]() ![]() DFire, does that not fall under 'horrible' in your opinion? ![]() Although my SO is ticking me off right now...
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| Posted: 6/4/2009 3:30:17 PM | |
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Linda W Ideal Rock Total Posts: 10,439 Last Post: 11/21/2009 Member Since: 2/15/2006 |
Date: 6/4/2009 2:58:12 PM Author: Dancing Fire Date: 6/4/2009 2:49:20 PM depends on whom you talk to Author: musey Date: 6/4/2009 2:40:30 PM Author: Dancing Fire Date: 6/4/2009 2:20:21 PM like cheating on your SO ?? Author: Elegant I don't want to do anything evil - morbid - horrible - just bad... just wrong and bad... ![]() ![]() DFire, does that not fall under 'horrible' in your opinion? ![]() DancingFire would never do that!!!
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| Posted: 6/4/2009 3:30:30 PM | |
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musey Ideal Rock Total Posts: 11,155 Last Post: 11/20/2009 Member Since: 9/30/2006 |
Date: 6/4/2009 2:58:12 PM Author: Dancing Fire Date: 6/4/2009 2:49:20 PM depends on whom you talk to Author: musey Date: 6/4/2009 2:40:30 PM Author: Dancing Fire Date: 6/4/2009 2:20:21 PM like cheating on your SO ?? Author: Elegant I don't want to do anything evil - morbid - horrible - just bad... just wrong and bad... ![]() ![]() DFire, does that not fall under 'horrible' in your opinion? ![]() I know what you're alluding to, and in my opinion "cheating" does not apply in an open relationship ("cheating" implies deception)
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| Posted: 6/4/2009 3:30:44 PM | |
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Elegant Ideal Rock Total Posts: 830 Last Post: 11/10/2009 Member Since: 6/13/2008 |
Date: 6/4/2009 2:08:32 PM I think I want to hear everyone elses evil thoughts...but it does bring to light what peoplethink as being just bad and what others think may be terrible or malicious! Some people see cheating as just bad - but others think it is outrageously horrible - especially if you have been with someone for 16 years...
Author: somethingshiny care to expound?? ![]() I think we've all had unnecessary thoughts of malice, it's if you follow through on those thoughts that you need to be concerned with.
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| Posted: 6/4/2009 3:32:59 PM | |
| P: 6/4/2009 4:27:07 PM | |
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somethingshiny Ideal Rock Total Posts: 3,648 Last Post: 11/20/2009 Member Since: 7/22/2007 |
Horrible vs. bad: Horrible; cheating on spouse, SO murder (that can be proven )knowing you can't live with a decision you've made Bad; punching someone in the face (bad but perfectly acceptable) putting a spider in someone's bed calling someone a b!tch while waiting on her at a store fantasizing of cheating on SO *** "Life is change. Growth is optional. Choose wisely." ~ Karen Kaiser Clark *** |
| Posted: 6/4/2009 4:27:07 PM | |
| P: 6/4/2009 4:43:07 PM | |
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Elegant Ideal Rock Total Posts: 830 Last Post: 11/10/2009 Member Since: 6/13/2008 |
Date: 6/4/2009 4:27:07 PM Ding ding ding ding ding.......Author: somethingshiny Horrible vs. bad: Horrible; cheating on spouse, SO murder (that can be proven )knowing you can't live with a decision you've made Bad; punching someone in the face (bad but perfectly acceptable) putting a spider in someone's bed calling someone a b!tch while waiting on her at a store fantasizing of cheating on SO
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| Posted: 6/4/2009 4:43:07 PM | |
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purrfectpear Ideal Rock Total Posts: 3,696 Last Post: 11/20/2009 Member Since: 3/31/2008 |
I think about robbing a bank as a fantasy. Out here in California your chances of getting caught are pretty nil unless you make a habit of it. There's more than one bank robbery a day and they usually don't get the person. Unfortunately, I worry about being the one person they DO catch , so no easy money for me.For awhile I gave some consideration to bumping off my almost ex husband for the insurance money. It would have been so easy to pick him off on his hour long commute from work to our very rural home during deer season. No one would have been the wiser. Rifle with scope + empty farm field = stray shots happen all the time. There was also the hair dryer into the bathtub scenario. Lucky for him he wasn't worth the risk and he wasn't a miserable person. He was just boring as heck and got on my last nerve some days.
"Style is knowing who you are, what you want to say and not giving a damn." -Gore Vidal |
| Posted: 6/4/2009 4:47:20 PM | |
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tlh Ideal Rock Total Posts: 4,050 Last Post: 11/20/2009 Member Since: 12/31/2008 |
There are a lot of definitions of bad sweet pie... and sometimes bad is better...
"I like smiling. Smiling's my favorite!" Will Ferrell ~ Elf |
| Posted: 6/4/2009 4:49:53 PM | |
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Dancing Fire Ideal Rock Total Posts: 10,218 Last Post: 11/21/2009 Member Since: 4/3/2004 |
Date: 6/4/2009 4:43:07 PM Ha,Ha...i knew it !!! Author: Elegant Date: 6/4/2009 4:27:07 PM Ding ding ding ding ding.......Author: somethingshiny Horrible vs. bad: Horrible; cheating on spouse, SO murder (that can be proven )knowing you can't live with a decision you've made Bad; punching someone in the face (bad but perfectly acceptable) putting a spider in someone's bed calling someone a b!tch while waiting on her at a store fantasizing of cheating on SO ![]()
it is always harder to find a "mind clean" stone than a eye clean stone. |
| Posted: 6/4/2009 6:05:09 PM | |
| P: 6/4/2009 8:44:58 PM | |
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Elegant Ideal Rock Total Posts: 830 Last Post: 11/10/2009 Member Since: 6/13/2008 |
Date: 6/4/2009 6:05:09 PM Author: Dancing Fire Date: 6/4/2009 4:43:07 PM Ha,Ha...i knew it !!! Author: Elegant Date: 6/4/2009 4:27:07 PM Ding ding ding ding ding.......Author: somethingshiny Horrible vs. bad: Horrible; cheating on spouse, SO murder (that can be proven )knowing you can't live with a decision you've made Bad; punching someone in the face (bad but perfectly acceptable) putting a spider in someone's bed calling someone a b!tch while waiting on her at a store fantasizing of cheating on SO ![]() ![]() Yeah - but you never did answer my question!!!
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| Posted: 6/4/2009 8:44:58 PM | |
| P: 6/4/2009 8:51:15 PM | |
Diamond*Dana Ideal Rock Total Posts: 6,168 Last Post: 11/20/2009 Member Since: 7/21/2006 |
Yes, I have 'thought' about doing something bad, but I would not act on certain things. I guess that it would just depend on the situation and timing. Cheating is not something that I would do though.
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| Posted: 6/4/2009 8:51:15 PM | |
| P: 6/4/2009 8:55:02 PM | |
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Kelli Ideal Rock Total Posts: 4,570 Last Post: 11/21/2009 Member Since: 5/27/2008 |
Everyone has THOUGHT about doing bad things...
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| Posted: 6/4/2009 8:55:02 PM | |
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Elegant Ideal Rock Total Posts: 830 Last Post: 11/10/2009 Member Since: 6/13/2008 |
I would never cheat either - but I have had evil thoughts about revenge and ways to go about it. I despise my principal, but...I just keep telling myself that karma will nip her in the rear. I have never wanted to see someone suffer as much as I have with her...brings out the worst in me.
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| Posted: 6/4/2009 8:55:23 PM | |
| P: 6/4/2009 9:51:54 PM | |
DivaDiamond007 Ideal Rock Total Posts: 1,207 Last Post: 11/19/2009 Member Since: 6/7/2007 |
I'll admit to wondering how much money those Brinks trucks have in them. I work in a downtown area so they're around a lot. Holding one up would be pretty stupid since there are so many people around. I don't think I could live with myself if I ever did anything really bad to a person - even if I truly hated them. It's just not my personality.
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| Posted: 6/4/2009 9:51:54 PM | |
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diamondseeker2006 Ideal Rock Total Posts: 17,609 Last Post: 11/18/2009 Member Since: 1/11/2006 |
I really believe people get what they deserve in the end, so I don't generally feel the need to get revenge. I do understand the momentary feeling of wishing they would quickly get what they deserve, though!
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| Posted: 6/4/2009 10:17:16 PM | |
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MC Ideal Rock Total Posts: 8,814 Last Post: 11/22/2009 Member Since: 2/8/2003 |
Date: 6/4/2009 9:51:54 PM Yep, those Brinks' trucks have caught my eye, too. Well, actually I'm just kidding. Admitting that would nearly be a federal offense. . .Author: DivaDiamond007 I'll admit to wondering how much money those Brinks trucks have in them. I work in a downtown area so they're around a lot. Holding one up would be pretty stupid since there are so many people around. I don't think I could live with myself if I ever did anything really bad to a person - even if I truly hated them. It's just not my personality. ![]() I'm totally up for doing bad things! Somethingshiny said "punching someone in the face," and this reminds me of how much I wanted to kick box some random annoying person at a grocery store after being influenced by watching the entire Alias series. I'd love to kick some serious butt! Of course, the most I would do is ram my shopping cart into another person's cart and I've only done that once or twice!
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| Posted: 6/4/2009 10:19:42 PM | |
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AGBF Ideal Rock Total Posts: 8,041 Last Post: 11/22/2009 Member Since: 1/26/2003 |
Date: 6/4/2009 4:27:07 PM Author: somethingshiny Horrible vs. bad: Horrible; cheating on spouse, SO murder (that can be proven )knowing you can't live with a decision you've made Bad; punching someone in the face (bad but perfectly acceptable) putting a spider in someone's bed calling someone a b!tch while waiting on her at a store fantasizing of cheating on SO Boy, do I disagree with this! I don't see having fantasies as a bad thing. I think that actions can be evil, but that thoughts-unless acted upon-are neither bad nor good. They are grist for the mill. They are something that can be analyzed. I just told my daughter today about the famous quotation that an unexamined life is not worth living. I think, therefore I am!!! AGBF
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| Posted: 6/4/2009 10:29:43 PM | |
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canuk-gal Ideal Rock Total Posts: 9,195 Last Post: 11/19/2009 Member Since: 4/19/2004 |
Date: 6/4/2009 10:29:43 PM HI:Author: AGBF Date: 6/4/2009 4:27:07 PM Author: somethingshiny Horrible vs. bad: Horrible; cheating on spouse, SO murder (that can be proven )knowing you can't live with a decision you've made Bad; punching someone in the face (bad but perfectly acceptable) putting a spider in someone's bed calling someone a b!tch while waiting on her at a store fantasizing of cheating on SO Boy, do I disagree with this! I don't see having fantasies as a bad thing. I think that actions can be evil, but that thoughts-unless acted upon-are neither bad nor good. They are grist for the mill. They are something that can be analyzed. I just told my daughter today about the famous quotation that an unexamined life is not worth living. I think, therefore I am!!! AGBF ![]() Agreed! I mean, are not fantasies for what "healthy" people do instead of acting out the real thing? Honeslty who has not thought of Johnny Depp or George Clooney outside of Oceans Eleven or Pirates??????Nuf said (except to define "bad" or "evil" which are vastly different IMHO...but I did say enuf!!). cheers--Sharon "People who possess great qualities, do not need to show off". |
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| P: 6/4/2009 11:03:34 PM | |
FrekeChild Ideal Rock Total Posts: 12,880 Last Post: 11/22/2009 Member Since: 12/14/2007 |
Yes. And recently, every bad thing I've been thinking about doing has to do with the post office. _______________________________ "Women are either goddesses or doormats." Pablo Picasso "In all matters of opinion, our adversaries are insane." Mark Twain |
| Posted: 6/4/2009 11:03:34 PM | |
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AdiS Ideal Rock Total Posts: 1,143 Last Post: 11/22/2009 Member Since: 7/17/2008 |
Does imagining how I strangle, beat up and kick the hell out of my colleague who just wouldn't stop rambling and jabbering count as bad?
"And you, my friend, are royally..." [loud horn blast] ~Puss-in-Boots |
| Posted: 6/5/2009 2:31:49 AM | |
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allycat0303 Ideal Rock Total Posts: 2,928 Last Post: 11/15/2009 Member Since: 11/19/2004 |
I've thought of all of the above, the bad, AND the horrible. I believe I have the capacity for both, but I also have a lot of restraint. I think it's healthy and normal, gets my frustration out and allows me to relieve stress associated with toxic situations. |
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