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We're postponing the wedding

P: 4/15/2009 2:30:16 PM
Winks_Elf Ideal Rock Total Posts: 862 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 11/28/2008	Just too much going on financially this year, and now my 3-year-old needs oral surgery to remove one of her front teeth. She banged her mouth on the hardwood floor back in September, the tooth died, and now it's begun to abcess. Gotta have it removed. That's going to be at least a $2,500 bill (and that's just the deductible portion). Her father has not exactly been helping out with medical bills, so I know this is going to have to come out of my pocket. There goes any money for a deposit on a rental so we can move in together, and forget about a $$$$$ wedding! Ugh. Melissa - Learning is a lifelong process of obtaining and sharing knowledge.
Posted: 4/15/2009 2:30:16 PM

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P: 4/15/2009 2:36:45 PM
Margot Rough Rock Total Posts: 83 Last Post: 10/15/2009 Member Since: 4/6/2009	Date: 4/15/2009 2:30:16 PM Author:Winks_Elf Just too much going on financially this year, and now my 3-year-old needs oral surgery to remove one of her front teeth. She banged her mouth on the hardwood floor back in September, the tooth died, and now it's begun to abcess. Gotta have it removed. That's going to be at least a $2,500 bill (and that's just the deductible portion). Her father has not exactly been helping out with medical bills, so I know this is going to have to come out of my pocket. There goes any money for a deposit on a rental so we can move in together, and forget about a $$$$$ wedding! Ugh. So sorry to hear about that. I stress about where I am going to come up with the money for a wedding because I will be the one footing the bill. It will happen though. :) I hope your little one recovers soon! ~It's useful being top banana in the shock department.~
Posted: 4/15/2009 2:36:45 PM

P: 4/15/2009 2:39:28 PM
Winks_Elf Ideal Rock Total Posts: 862 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 11/28/2008	One day at a time, honey! One day at a time. Ruby will be fine, but it's just a matter of paying off the bill when it comes. Melissa - Learning is a lifelong process of obtaining and sharing knowledge.
Posted: 4/15/2009 2:39:28 PM

P: 4/15/2009 2:43:08 PM
musincy Ideal Rock Total Posts: 609 Last Post: 11/20/2009 Member Since: 6/28/2008	Aww, I'm so sorry!
Posted: 4/15/2009 2:43:08 PM

P: 4/15/2009 2:48:08 PM
panda08 Ideal Rock Total Posts: 543 Last Post: 9/30/2009 Member Since: 7/30/2008	I'm sorry to hear about your difficulties. Hope your little one gets better soon!
Posted: 4/15/2009 2:48:08 PM

P: 4/15/2009 2:49:35 PM
Hudson_Hawk Ideal Rock Total Posts: 4,499 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 11/2/2006	Aww I'm sorry, that really stinks I'm sorry about Ruby, I hope she feels better soon. That's Mrs. Hudson_Hawk to you... Over and out.
Posted: 4/15/2009 2:49:35 PM

P: 4/15/2009 2:49:51 PM
mscushion Ideal Rock Total Posts: 2,166 Last Post: 11/16/2009 Member Since: 11/15/2008	So sorry to hear. It's a tough year for sure to be having all the expenses associated with a wedding. I hope your little one feels better soon.
Posted: 4/15/2009 2:49:51 PM

P: 4/15/2009 2:55:15 PM
kama_s Ideal Rock Total Posts: 1,684 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 7/12/2008	Aww, Winks, that's really awful. I hope things pick up soon for you. Is your daughter's name Ruby? It's such a sweet name!
Posted: 4/15/2009 2:55:15 PM

P: 4/15/2009 2:56:50 PM
meresal Ideal Rock Total Posts: 3,592 Last Post: 11/20/2009 Member Since: 11/13/2007	I'm sorry Winks. Everything will be ok. ___________________________ I AM Mrs B... with Lil' B on the way!!! Living life to the fullest...
Posted: 4/15/2009 2:56:50 PM

P: 4/15/2009 3:00:33 PM
Winslet Cut Rock Total Posts: 291 Last Post: 11/20/2009 Member Since: 12/28/2008	Awww bummer I'm so sorry for both you and your daughter!
Posted: 4/15/2009 3:00:33 PM

P: 4/15/2009 3:06:40 PM
merrymunky Ideal Rock Total Posts: 1,023 Last Post: 11/22/2009 Member Since: 10/17/2008	Oh no...that's not good. I hope you little girl is better soon. The wedding will be even more worth while when it finally happens. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~*~ Chee-Chee and Rawse joined the married club on August 26th 2009! Loving life as a very happy newlywed!
Posted: 4/15/2009 3:06:40 PM

P: 4/15/2009 3:09:41 PM
Porridge Ideal Rock Total Posts: 1,612 Last Post: 11/22/2009 Member Since: 10/27/2008	I'm sorry about your little girl, I hope she's ok! That stinks.
Posted: 4/15/2009 3:09:41 PM

P: 4/15/2009 3:45:42 PM
AmberGretchen Ideal Rock Total Posts: 7,046 Last Post: 11/11/2009 Member Since: 1/6/2005	I'm so sorry to hear about that! Its been such a rough year for so many. Any chance you guys could have some kind of small private ceremony to make it legal and then have something bigger and fancier when there's more money?
Posted: 4/15/2009 3:45:42 PM

P: 4/15/2009 4:44:57 PM
bee* Ideal Rock Total Posts: 11,105 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 5/14/2006	I'm really sorry to hear that. Sending hugs.
Posted: 4/15/2009 4:44:57 PM

P: 4/15/2009 4:54:47 PM
brandy_z28 Ideal Rock Total Posts: 930 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 5/23/2008	I'm so sorry to hear that! Hugs to you and Ruby! B
Posted: 4/15/2009 4:54:47 PM

P: 4/15/2009 5:21:13 PM
Winks_Elf Ideal Rock Total Posts: 862 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 11/28/2008	Date: 4/15/2009 2:55:15 PM Author: kama_s Aww, Winks, that's really awful. I hope things pick up soon for you. Is your daughter's name Ruby? It's such a sweet name! Yes, my daughters are Ruby (3) and Kimberly (almost 9...means diamond). My daughters are my gems! I also have two sons. Melissa - Learning is a lifelong process of obtaining and sharing knowledge.
Posted: 4/15/2009 5:21:13 PM

P: 4/15/2009 5:22:21 PM
Winks_Elf Ideal Rock Total Posts: 862 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 11/28/2008	Date: 4/15/2009 3:45:42 PM Author: AmberGretchen I'm so sorry to hear about that! Its been such a rough year for so many. Any chance you guys could have some kind of small private ceremony to make it legal and then have something bigger and fancier when there's more money? I think we may wind up doing that, and not tell anyone in the family we got married. It would be for the benefits. Melissa - Learning is a lifelong process of obtaining and sharing knowledge.
Posted: 4/15/2009 5:22:21 PM

P: 4/15/2009 5:24:13 PM
lliang_chi Ideal Rock Total Posts: 1,232 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 3/13/2008	Winks, sorry to hear about your postponement. I hope your daughter's oral surgery goes well. How old are your sons?
Posted: 4/15/2009 5:24:13 PM

P: 4/15/2009 5:47:09 PM
VRBeauty Ideal Rock Total Posts: 2,603 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 4/3/2006	Melissa -- I'm so sorry to hear this! I hope you find a way to get married sooner rather than later, with your loved ones in attendance. As one who broke three teeth as a youngster, I had to smile (and wince) when I read about the "why." Best wished for your little girl! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ VRBeauty Thursday is the new Friday.
Posted: 4/15/2009 5:47:09 PM

P: 4/15/2009 5:48:21 PM
tlh Ideal Rock Total Posts: 4,060 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 12/31/2008	I am sorry to hear about this!!! I hope she gets better soon! "I like smiling. Smiling's my favorite!" Will Ferrell ~ Elf
Posted: 4/15/2009 5:48:21 PM

P: 4/15/2009 6:01:14 PM
Maisie Ideal Rock Total Posts: 7,766 Last Post: 11/21/2009 Member Since: 12/30/2006	I'm sorry to hear about your little one. I hope she gets well soon. I am so glad we have the NHS over here. It would be awful to have a big bill like that to worry about.
Posted: 4/15/2009 6:01:14 PM

P: 4/15/2009 6:03:10 PM
Bia Ideal Rock Total Posts: 4,300 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 3/28/2008	Sorry to hear this Winks Your poor baby... We're here for you. (((hugs))) ________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Have no fear of perfection - you'll never reach it Salvador Dali
Posted: 4/15/2009 6:03:10 PM

P: 4/15/2009 6:09:28 PM
diamondseeker2006 Ideal Rock Total Posts: 17,609 Last Post: 11/18/2009 Member Since: 1/11/2006	Date: 4/15/2009 5:22:21 PM Author: Winks_Elf Date: 4/15/2009 3:45:42 PM Author: AmberGretchen I'm so sorry to hear about that! Its been such a rough year for so many. Any chance you guys could have some kind of small private ceremony to make it legal and then have something bigger and fancier when there's more money? I think we may wind up doing that, and not tell anyone in the family we got married. It would be for the benefits. That's a great idea! Just get married and have a big receptin and vow renewal when you can afford it! ~~~ When in doubt...don't.~~~
Posted: 4/15/2009 6:09:28 PM

P: 4/15/2009 6:48:50 PM
iluvcarats Ideal Rock Total Posts: 1,911 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 4/17/2008	I am sorry to hear this Winks What a bummer! We actually have a lot in common though. 1. My son fell at Legoland and lost a tooth when he was 18 months. It turned black and they had to pull the root 2. Ruby is the name I was going to use for my last baby (if I ever have it) b/c it was my Grandfather's name. His name was Rubin and my Grandma called him Ruby. 3. One of our first dates was at Cafe Reggio I hope things start looking up for you
Posted: 4/15/2009 6:48:50 PM

P: 4/15/2009 6:55:32 PM
princessplease Ideal Rock Total Posts: 3,523 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 2/20/2009	I'm sorry Winks. I hope your little one gets well ______________________________ On July 31 I will say those two little words that will take my breath away. One little kiss will have fulfilled all my wishes of going from Ms. G to his Mrs. V ˘ž 250 days ˘ž
Posted: 4/15/2009 6:55:32 PM

P: 4/15/2009 10:05:38 PM
*~Alexis~* Ideal Rock Total Posts: 1,732 Last Post: 11/14/2009 Member Since: 2/10/2006	Wink since you are not married yet and you have 4 kids, look into seeing if the hospital offers financial assistance, they might do things on a sliding scale and can offer you a discount. Also you could apply for Medical Assistance for them since they are minors. Something to look into. Sorry to hear about your wedding being postponed!! ~Alexis~
Posted: 4/15/2009 10:05:38 PM

P: 4/15/2009 11:12:43 PM
gwendolyn Ideal Rock Total Posts: 6,544 Last Post: 11/12/2009 Member Since: 8/4/2007	Sorry to hear that your wedding will be postponed (unless you secretly get married). Hope your Ruby will be ok and those medical bills get paid, honey. Take care. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ UK Wedding: April ?th, 2010 US Reception: May 30th, 2010! Out of Context Theatre presents...ladypirate: "Gwen, you would make a terrible medieval catholic priest!" 'One day you will do things for me that you hate. That is what it means to be family.' -Jonathan Safran Foer, 'Everything Is Illuminated'
Posted: 4/15/2009 11:12:43 PM

P: 4/15/2009 11:17:36 PM
Octavia Ideal Rock Total Posts: 1,462 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 10/29/2007	Aww, I'm sorry, what an unfortunate thing to happen. I hope things start looking up for you soon.
Posted: 4/15/2009 11:17:36 PM

P: 4/16/2009 12:17:49 AM
House Cat Ideal Rock Total Posts: 513 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 2/22/2009	Melissa, I hope your little Ruby feels better soon. I'm sorry to hear about your wedding plans. Sometimes, when you have to put things off for a little while, even better things are waiting in the wings. Take care... If you're going through hell, keep going. -Winston Churchill
Posted: 4/16/2009 12:17:49 AM

P: 4/16/2009 4:51:40 AM
LaraOnline Ideal Rock Total Posts: 2,039 Last Post: 9/1/2009 Member Since: 2/25/2008	Date: 4/15/2009 2:55:15 PM Author: kama_s Aww, Winks, that's really awful. I hope things pick up soon for you. Is your daughter's name Ruby? It's such a sweet name! I'm so sorry Winks! It seems such a shame to have to postpone your wedding. I'm glad your bub will be okay. And then a plank in reason broke... Emily Dickinson
Posted: 4/16/2009 4:51:40 AM

P: 4/16/2009 7:27:37 AM
jcarlylew Ideal Rock Total Posts: 2,850 Last Post: 11/23/2009 Member Since: 6/27/2008	aw winks, i am sorry to hear that! and I hope that Ruby's surgery goes well! _____________________________ i look at white bread like a young lover
Posted: 4/16/2009 7:27:37 AM

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