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ť Ever wish you'd spent more money on bling and less on clothes, shoes, handbags etc?

Ever wish you'd spent more money on bling and less on clothes, shoes, handbags etc?

P: 3/15/2009 7:57:46 AM
Phoenix Ideal Rock Total Posts: 3,028 Last Post: 11/18/2009 Member Since: 10/5/2006	A recent thread about bling and the recession got me thinking that perhaps I should have spent less on clothes, shoes, handbags etc. so I could have put that money towards more bling instead - whilst still keeping our overall discretionary spending within a certain limit? Honestly, even though I don't spend that much money on such things in general these days, I keep thinking about how I could have got more bling or upgraded my bling if I hadn't spent the money on these other things instead. I tend to wear the same clothes and shoes generally and carry just one or two handbags on a daily basis (except for the rare special occasions). My best friend however, only owns two items of bling, one 1.6ct Tiffany Lucida and a Tiffany eternity ring. She's wanted a pair of diamond studs for years and still has not got them. In the meantime, her hubby and she herself spend thousands (I'd guess, don't really know for sure) on designer clothes and shoes and to a lesser extent her handbags. They have a wardrobe that would make most fashinista's green with envy. Well, actually, they have one huge walk-in wardrobe and a guest room which they fill up with their stuff. I think between them they must own about 300 pairs of designer shoes. They don't wear anything but designer gear. Granted, they look really beautiful (well, they are beautiful people anyway) in their designer outfits, but I keep wondering why they haven't got round to buying her a pair of studs and all she wants is a 1-1.5cttw studs (she has tiny earlobes). I guess each to their own, huh (?) What about you?
Posted: 3/15/2009 7:57:46 AM

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P: 3/15/2009 8:51:07 AM
justjulia Ideal Rock Total Posts: 2,303 Last Post: 7/23/2009 Member Since: 4/4/2006	Depends. If your job requires a certain "look," then I guess you need to play along. It's like nails...ok, over the years I have invested at one time or another in tips, manicures, and such, in the name of keeping myself looking as best as possible--but is it a neccesary expense? No. But on some level it was/is. I'm one of those people where the bling does not match the wardrobe. I'll wear something til it falls apart and I really only own the bare essentials in clothing and shoes. It's weird, I know. I hate clothes shopping. Give me 5 of the same thing in diff colors and I'm good to go. "A thing of beauty is a joy forever." J Keats
Posted: 3/15/2009 8:51:07 AM

P: 3/15/2009 10:30:13 AM
Chrono Ideal Rock Total Posts: 11,281 Last Post: 11/20/2009 Member Since: 4/22/2004	Me too. I don't follow fashion and I abhore handbags and heels. As long as I have the basics, I'm good to go, so most of my money does go to bling.
Posted: 3/15/2009 10:30:13 AM

P: 3/15/2009 10:52:53 AM
thing2of2 Ideal Rock Total Posts: 7,657 Last Post: 11/22/2009 Member Since: 1/1/2007	Sometimes I think about this, but I actually like clothes, shoes and handbags more than diamonds (GASP!) so I don't care.
Posted: 3/15/2009 10:52:53 AM

P: 3/15/2009 11:16:28 AM
Dancing Fire Ideal Rock Total Posts: 10,218 Last Post: 11/21/2009 Member Since: 4/3/2004	i've never been a "clothes" type of person,90% of the time i would be in T shirts and jeans,but then i would buy an expensive piece of jewelry if i can afford it. it is always harder to find a "mind clean" stone than a eye clean stone.
Posted: 3/15/2009 11:16:28 AM

P: 3/15/2009 11:28:45 AM
Lorelei Ideal Rock Total Posts: 34,212 Last Post: 11/22/2009 Member Since: 4/30/2005	Date: 3/15/2009 11:16:28 AM Author: Dancing Fire i've never been a 'clothes' type of person,90% of the time i would be in T shirts and jeans,but then i would buy an expensive piece of jewelry if i can afford it. I prefer to spend on the handbags I collect rather than bling these days, I am very fortunate to have what I have but I don't long for more really. There are pieces I would like get eventually but for now I am content. Nothing is more sacred as the bond between horse and rider...no other creature can ever become so emotionally close to a human as a horse. When a horse dies, the memory lives on because an enormous part of his owner's heart, soul, very existence dies also...but that can never be laid to rest, it is not meant to be... - Stephanie M Thorn
Posted: 3/15/2009 11:28:45 AM

P: 3/15/2009 12:02:30 PM
Elmorton Ideal Rock Total Posts: 3,748 Last Post: 11/21/2009 Member Since: 7/6/2007	I like handbags a lot, and I tend to buy really classic styled bags (I still carry my first coach bag that I was given about 8 years ago), but I'm not really "fashionista" about it, in the sense that I never want/like the "now" bags. I like jewelry better for that very reason. With jewelry, looks last for years and can be handed down for generations. Clothes don't really work like that...so I'm perfectly happy with my Target/AT Loft duds that allow me to save for other things.
Posted: 3/15/2009 12:02:30 PM

P: 3/15/2009 1:22:13 PM
AmberGretchen Ideal Rock Total Posts: 7,046 Last Post: 11/11/2009 Member Since: 1/6/2005	Date: 3/15/2009 10:52:53 AM Author: thing2of2 Sometimes I think about this, but I actually like clothes, shoes and handbags more than diamonds (GASP!) so I don't care. Hehe - I'm with thing2, sort of. If it really came down to an either/or, I'd probably take the clothes/shoes/handbags. But it would be a close call. I do like to spend enough to feel like I look good when I leave the house, and I'm guessing this will become even more important to me and also a bigger part of my budget once I actually start working and need to dress professionally most of the time.
Posted: 3/15/2009 1:22:13 PM

P: 3/15/2009 1:57:48 PM
Harriet Ideal Rock Total Posts: 11,800 Last Post: 11/19/2009 Member Since: 7/7/2006	Now that I'm not working, I'm happily out of suits and back in jeans. I don't have that many pairs of shoes and handbags. But, the ones I have are not inexpensive. However, to me, they are classics and I expect to wear them for quite a while. "The greatest experts are only as good as the sum total of what they have seen." (Souren Melikian)
Posted: 3/15/2009 1:57:48 PM

P: 3/15/2009 2:01:31 PM
FrekeChild Ideal Rock Total Posts: 12,880 Last Post: 11/22/2009 Member Since: 12/14/2007	Date: 3/15/2009 10:52:53 AM Author: thing2of2 Sometimes I think about this, but I actually like clothes, shoes and handbags more than diamonds (GASP!) so I don't care. This is true for me as well, at least concerning shoes, but it really helps out that I don't really like diamonds, so my gemstone buying hasn't been decreased that much. _______________________________ "Women are either goddesses or doormats." Pablo Picasso "In all matters of opinion, our adversaries are insane." Mark Twain
Posted: 3/15/2009 2:01:31 PM

P: 3/15/2009 2:13:31 PM
justjulia Ideal Rock Total Posts: 2,303 Last Post: 7/23/2009 Member Since: 4/4/2006	Date: 3/15/2009 11:16:28 AM Author: Dancing Fire i've never been a 'clothes' type of person,90% of the time i would be in T shirts and jeans,but then i would buy an expensive piece of jewelry if i can afford it. There is nothing sexier than a man in jeans and t shirt and a really nice watch. It's like they are comfortable in their own skin at the same time paying attention to little details. In my mind kinda like Robert Redford. (My age is showing. ) "A thing of beauty is a joy forever." J Keats
Posted: 3/15/2009 2:13:31 PM

P: 3/15/2009 3:11:18 PM
waxing lyrical Cut Rock Total Posts: 162 Last Post: 11/21/2009 Member Since: 12/29/2008	I'm not a clothes, handbag or shoe girl. I spend a good chunk of change on natural and bespoke perfume and then, of course, sparklies. With metta, B
Posted: 3/15/2009 3:11:18 PM

P: 3/15/2009 5:08:58 PM
MC Ideal Rock Total Posts: 8,814 Last Post: 11/22/2009 Member Since: 2/8/2003	I don't spend a lot of money on clothes and shoes, however, those are my preference. I only need a few pieces of jewelry to be satisfied (and have all that I need as of now) but it seems I cannot seem to have enough sweaters and camisoles and always am hunting for new ones.
Posted: 3/15/2009 5:08:58 PM

P: 3/15/2009 6:49:07 PM
Madam Bijoux Ideal Rock Total Posts: 3,053 Last Post: 11/22/2009 Member Since: 7/15/2005	No, because Monday morning quarterbacking and second guessing yourselkf is a waste of time . "I never met a diamond I didn't like." No jewel is as beautiful as a cat's eyes. Madam Bijoux (Gabrielle)
Posted: 3/15/2009 6:49:07 PM

P: 3/15/2009 11:38:14 PM
Phoenix Ideal Rock Total Posts: 3,028 Last Post: 11/18/2009 Member Since: 10/5/2006	These replies are interesting. Thanks for replying, PS'ers. Generally, for those that replied, roughly the majority prefer bling, but a fair number of you said you prefer clothes/shoes etc, which is a little bit surprising for me. My tai tai friend says that you have to dress smartly to match yr bling, rather than the other way round. My best friend, as I mentioned, cares not very much about her bling but her wardrobe is of utmost importance in making her feel good about herself. My dressing, although professional enough when I am working, is not OTT, designer-wise. I have far too many evening dresses and fancy shoes, however, that barely make out of the wardrobe, particularly these days. I shudder to think of much I'd "wasted" on these. From this point onwards, I will exercise more discipline and not buy any more clothes, shoes, handbags etc for a while. I'd rather have jewellery that I could thoroughly enjoy (when my self-imposed bling moratorium is over) and later leave to my nieces and our (future) children.
Posted: 3/15/2009 11:38:14 PM

P: 3/15/2009 11:43:25 PM
TravelingGal Ideal Rock Total Posts: 11,306 Last Post: 11/21/2009 Member Since: 12/29/2004	Well, I'm a porker post kid so I am not into buying any clothes these days! I wasn't beforehand either, to be honest. You know you don't shop enough when your own husband is telling you to go out and spend a little money on yourself. I like a bling project once in a while but mostly for special occasions. I don't care to have a jewelry box filled with stuff. In fact, I'm a bit discombobulated since I will have three rings to wear soon and only two hands - I hate having the choice! Me, I'll always really only enjoying spending money on my original two loves...fine dining and travel. And neither is ever a waste. _______________________ Travel quote of the week: "Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines, sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover." -Mark Twain
Posted: 3/15/2009 11:43:25 PM

P: 3/15/2009 11:52:30 PM
Italiahaircolor Ideal Rock Total Posts: 4,335 Last Post: 11/20/2009 Member Since: 12/17/2007	To be honest, no. I have small collection and I'm proud of what I own...but I love a lot of things and I'm not a bling addict. I love purses, and shoes, and home goods. ____________________________ Remember to keep your words soft and sweet...you may have to eat them someday.
Posted: 3/15/2009 11:52:30 PM

P: 3/16/2009 1:17:03 AM
puffy Ideal Rock Total Posts: 1,201 Last Post: 11/21/2009 Member Since: 11/21/2006	NOPE. i love all my designer clothes, shoes, and handbags. i just got brand new clothes and a few handbags from DH, and i am already looking into my next handbag purchase. clothes and shoes i buy year round. if i see something that i like, i get it. i like my jewelry collection thus far. i don't even wear all pieces all the time, but it's nice to have options. the only thing that i wear all the time when i go out is my ering and wband, and of course my studs which i don't take off. i would much rather have my designer clothes (nice jeans, tops, jackets), shoes, and hangbags over more jewelry that would just sit there. don't get me wrong, i am still going to get jewelry, but i like shopping for clothes and shoes all the time.
Posted: 3/16/2009 1:17:03 AM

P: 3/16/2009 3:51:35 AM
babysteps Ideal Rock Total Posts: 597 Last Post: 8/18/2009 Member Since: 2/13/2008	I would say 'no', but I think that's because my other fave indulgence is handbags and I have stuck to the classics and/or styles and colors that I really, really love. I try not to buy based on what is currently fashionable if it doesn't work for me - so some seasons I haven't purchased anything. Other than jewelry and bags - I am pretty low key, a jeans & loafers, J. Crew kind of style. I take great care of my bags, too, so I hope to be able to have my daughter use them one day - by then they'll be vintage!
Posted: 3/16/2009 3:51:35 AM

P: 3/16/2009 6:44:35 AM
bee* Ideal Rock Total Posts: 11,097 Last Post: 11/22/2009 Member Since: 5/14/2006	Nope, I much prefer spending money on designer shoes than diamonds.
Posted: 3/16/2009 6:44:35 AM

P: 3/16/2009 8:23:39 AM
AdiS Ideal Rock Total Posts: 1,143 Last Post: 11/22/2009 Member Since: 7/17/2008	Date: 3/15/2009 8:51:07 AM Author: justjulia Depends. If your job requires a certain 'look,' then I guess you need to play along. It's like nails...ok, over the years I have invested at one time or another in tips, manicures, and such, in the name of keeping myself looking as best as possible--but is it a neccesary expense? No. But on some level it was/is. I'm one of those people where the bling does not match the wardrobe. I'll wear something til it falls apart and I really only own the bare essentials in clothing and shoes. It's weird, I know. I hate clothes shopping. Give me 5 of the same thing in diff colors and I'm good to go. Same here. When I go shopping, I'd buy a black suit (or two ) with both skirt and trousers, a couple of shirts in different colours and I consider my duty done. I like bag and shoes shopping a little more but still I can't say I spend that much money on them. I used to but not anymore. Sparklies, on the other hand... Well, let's just say that the extent of my bling obsession is starting to scare even me. Well, what can you do. I consider the simple, classy black clothes combined with a unique piece of jewelry the quintessence of elegance. "And you, my friend, are royally..." [loud horn blast] ~Puss-in-Boots
Posted: 3/16/2009 8:23:39 AM

P: 3/16/2009 8:48:54 AM
chiquitapet Ideal Rock Total Posts: 2,106 Last Post: 11/21/2009 Member Since: 10/17/2007	Date: 3/15/2009 8:51:07 AM Author: justjulia Depends. If your job requires a certain 'look,' then I guess you need to play along. It's like nails...ok, over the years I have invested at one time or another in tips, manicures, and such, in the name of keeping myself looking as best as possible--but is it a neccesary expense? No. But on some level it was/is. I'm one of those people where the bling does not match the wardrobe. I'll wear something til it falls apart and I really only own the bare essentials in clothing and shoes. It's weird, I know. I hate clothes shopping. Give me 5 of the same thing in diff colors and I'm good to go. OMG. That`s exactly me. I have couple of favourite pants in different colours and just got today an awesome shirt in 4 different colours... LOL. The only designer product I have is a LV handbag... I much prefer to spend money on bling than anything else.
Posted: 3/16/2009 8:48:54 AM

P: 3/16/2009 8:55:55 AM
icekid Ideal Rock Total Posts: 6,554 Last Post: 11/20/2009 Member Since: 11/17/2004	Date: 3/15/2009 10:30:13 AM Author: Chrono Me too. I don't follow fashion and I abhore handbags and heels. As long as I have the basics, I'm good to go, so most of my money does go to bling. Yeah I'd rather save for sparklies. Plus starting this summer, I get to wear scrubs to work everyday. That cuts down on my nice clothes spending a lot!
Posted: 3/16/2009 8:55:55 AM

P: 3/16/2009 4:22:43 PM
musey Ideal Rock Total Posts: 11,155 Last Post: 11/20/2009 Member Since: 9/30/2006	No. I enjoy the other things I spend money on (travel, apparel, handbags, home decor, etc.) as much if not more than my jewelery. Really all that's important to me are the few core pieces (in my case, engagement ring and wedding band are more than enough), so I wouldn't rather skip the other discretionary spending in order to acquire more jewelery.
Posted: 3/16/2009 4:22:43 PM

P: 3/16/2009 4:34:33 PM
Bia Ideal Rock Total Posts: 4,289 Last Post: 11/21/2009 Member Since: 3/28/2008	I don't spend a lot of money on clothes or jewelry. My engagement ring is the only really expensive (over $1000) piece I own to date, and other than the diamond studs in my ears, it's the only jewelry I wear on a regular basis. I do have costume stuff but not expensive. I do have a weakness for expensive shoes but rarely buy them...maybe twice a year (if that). As for clothes, I hardly ever buy anything designer or very expensive....Banana Republic is about as expensive as I go unless I find something truly extraordinary that I won't find anywhere else. For me to spend $150 on a pair of jeans? Won't happen. I'd much rather use that money to travel or buy things for our home. So to answer your question: I don't spend enough on either so, no. LOL ________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Have no fear of perfection - you'll never reach it Salvador Dali
Posted: 3/16/2009 4:34:33 PM

P: 3/16/2009 5:04:46 PM
part gypsy Ideal Rock Total Posts: 1,752 Last Post: 11/19/2009 Member Since: 11/7/2004	I have no regrets regarding clothes or jewelry purchases. Last few years spent more on jewelry than clothes. This year purposely trying to spend more on clothes, less on jewelry both to even things out, plus now that my youngest is 2 I am out of the pregnant/nursing changing body shape cycle.
Posted: 3/16/2009 5:04:46 PM

P: 3/17/2009 2:07:35 AM
pennquaker09 Ideal Rock Total Posts: 1,484 Last Post: 11/21/2009 Member Since: 11/2/2007	Well, I think it's important to invest in clothes even if they are only the basics. I will admit that I don't buy as much designer stuff as I used to. Ralph Lauren is pretty much the highest I will go these days. And I will only buy something at full price if I really want it. Sephora is the mothership! - diamondfan Leasing any car is not a smart thing, but leasing a Mercedes is flat out stupid.
Posted: 3/17/2009 2:07:35 AM

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