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 She found out that i have a ring, what do i do?

P:  12/5/2003 10:42:56 PM  
Klasniedryg
Klasniedryg

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One time as she was browsing through my wallet, she found a JBL jellers credit card inside, with a recite for a dimand engagement ring. so all I can say is that I am busted. She knows that i have the ring, and knows that I will be proposing around christmas time. What should I do to still make it a surprise? And I do still need some ideas, I live near chiacgo it that helps.

 


Posted:  12/5/2003 10:42:56 PM

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P: 12/7/2003 6:41:45 AM
KittyTiger
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Even though she knows already.... believe me .. it'll still be wonderful..
 
Just do everything as planned...... 

***changed my user name from Leota --> to KittyTiger***

Posted:  12/7/2003 6:41:45 AM
P: 12/7/2003 7:01:46 AM
goldenringlets
goldenringlets

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"Browsing" in your wallet?!?!

Is this a good idea? Does she make a habit of it?

Privacy issues aside, she will be surprised, although possibly less so than had she not gone looking.

Goldenringlets

Posted:  12/7/2003 7:01:46 AM
P: 12/8/2003 10:09:40 AM
magna2
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It is too bad that the cat is out of the bag. But do not despair since the proposal will still be sweet and welcomed so although she knows it will be soon she won't know exactly when and where.

Posted:  12/8/2003 10:09:40 AM
P: 12/9/2003 10:10:58 AM
sxn675
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Well, you could be mean and say something like "Now that you've seen the receipt, it's ruined the surprise, so I am going to return that ring". You could talk about how the surprise aspect of it was so important to you and now you that she knows you need to re-choose (or something). Then of course you keep the ring and propose as planned. It's kind of evil, but it will throw her off the scent and keep SOME element of surprise. Plus, it will keep her out of your wallet!

Posted:  12/9/2003 10:10:58 AM
P: 12/17/2003 4:22:16 PM
Volred
Volred

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Ya cannot make it a surprise now.

Lying to her would just make matters worse.

I think you should try to make the proposal as sweet as possible. Scrap your current plans, and plan a new day/evening. Make it utterly romantic, and flattering. For your girl, it will be like watching a story unfold, waiting for the moment when the hero proposes to the dame. Anticipation will absolutely kill her.

You can now play out your proposal like a love story, and she will love it. Even though she knows what is coming. Thats why women like to read those romance novels. Women love a good romance rather than a fancy dinner.

My ideas:
- Flowers on bed / in room
- Candles
- Romantic saxaphone music (I think you can find some from London Drugs
- While walking you could tease her by bending down....... to tie your shoe. Ya know lead her on.
- When you do propose be obvious that you will be proposing, (long lovely speeches & stuff, or going over to a drawer and pulling something out.)

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Posted:  12/17/2003 4:22:16 PM
P: 12/20/2003 12:46:32 AM
zebov
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I think you can still make it a surprise, in a way. As said above, if you simply do things that are "proposal-esque" throughout the season, when the actual proposal comes she'll just think it's another "one of those times she thinks you're proposing". Have fun with it. Just because she knows doesn't mean it can't still be great! And you get to have some of your own fun too!

Zebov

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Posted:  12/20/2003 12:46:32 AM
P: 1/28/2004 7:49:16 PM
wellman
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I would complacently bring up the factor that you got it for your friend or brother because he could not affort it and that he is planning on proposing. That way everyone is focusing on him asking instead of you.

tee...hee...heee

Not a great speaker...but a somewhat well listener!

Posted:  1/28/2004 7:49:16 PM

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