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My fiance dropped to his knee after saying the mushy stuff.  I think that is typical ...

Agreed it doesn''t matter so much what you say.   Once she figures out what you are doing, she will barely be listening!


by applechick

April 3rd, 2006, 11:31 am

Forum: Proposal Ideas

Topic: how long does an average propsal speech last?

Replies: 18

Views: 2449


I think it is pretty dead-on that 2 years is the sweet spot ... I actually always sort of intuitively figured that IN GENERAL that amount of time would give you the highest probabiility of success.  People who get married too quick often don''t know each other well enou...

by applechick

April 3rd, 2006, 6:14 am

Forum: Ladies in Waiting

Topic: Courtship Article

Replies: 12

Views: 784


What about Friday night? I have that feeling too. My boyfriend mentioned on tuesday he got opera tickets through work for free and did i want to go on friday.  anyway, i got our mail yesterday and it was a catalogue from the opera company adressed to him.  so he is lying about getting them...

by applechick

March 31st, 2006, 6:56 am

Forum: Ladies in Waiting

Topic: Gut feeling....

Replies: 47

Views: 1850


i think you''re be awfully judgemental of sam. i think it is equally unfair for a girl to say a guy should definitely give a commitment by this date as it is for a guy to string a girl along for however many years --- there is probably some truth and validity to both sides.  i think that i...

by applechick

March 28th, 2006, 8:09 am

Forum: Ladies in Waiting

Topic: Hello! (I''''m new) and my problem...

Replies: 28

Views: 1337


26 is really young, especially if you''re in grad school.   still, the fact that he was willing to move in with you 3 years ago (at 23?) but not willing to get married at 26 seems a little strange.  i live in new york city , and most guys here wouldn''t want to get married at 26, but ...

by applechick

March 28th, 2006, 4:43 am

Forum: Ladies in Waiting

Topic: Hello! (I''''m new) and my problem...

Replies: 28

Views: 1337


poor guy - let''s not jump all over him. i think we are all in agreement that 1) he means well 2) we would all have freaked out if we were his girlfriend as well and 3) that people often get so caught up in the proposal they forget that the proposal is NOT the point, and neither is the ring or the w...

by applechick

March 24th, 2006, 7:39 am

Forum: Ladies in Waiting

Topic: from a guy''s perspective

Replies: 62

Views: 2304


Hey - I am a 27 female in a similar situation to your girl (been together 5 years, moved in together a year ago, although we didn''t move anywhere - we live in NYC). This is my first time posting although I have been lurking for a while. I personally can understand why your girl freaked out.  W...

by applechick

March 24th, 2006, 4:58 am

Forum: Ladies in Waiting

Topic: from a guy''s perspective

Replies: 62

Views: 2304







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