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Re: The Official TTC Thread!

Aww, April, so sorry for your loss. Hugs. I hope it happens again for you soon.

by Laila619

August 20th, 2016, 8:45 pm

Forum: Family, Home & Health

Topic: The Official TTC Thread!

Replies: 24577

Views: 677077
Re: Tiffany channel wedding band to join my Tacori 2620 ;-))

It's really beautiful and suits your e-ring perfectly! Congrats on your upcoming wedding!! :wavey:
Re: Pinch me! I must be dreaming...Asscher SK Halo and AVCs

Super gorgeous! I'm happy that you found something you love. I've really enjoyed reading about your bling journey over the years. :wavey:

by Laila619

August 16th, 2016, 2:31 pm

Forum: Show Me the Bling! (Rings,Earrings,Jewelry)

Topic: Pinch me! I must be dreaming...Asscher SK Halo and AVCs

Replies: 75

Views: 2145
Re: Wasserman Schultz stepping down

Good! Funny how the liberal media is being pretty mum about the whole thing. You'll hear much more about Melania's speech than about any of the contents of the leaked e-mails.

by Laila619

July 24th, 2016, 8:53 pm

Forum: Hangout

Topic: Wasserman Schultz stepping down

Replies: 96

Views: 1714
Re: Hillary Clinton's powerful tv ad

I don't think it will have any impact on Trump supporters at all. They will think: He just speaks his mind, it's refreshing. The comments were taken out of context. My children don't look to politicians for role models, their parents should be and are their role models. Hilary is a liar and worse f...

by Laila619

July 18th, 2016, 5:03 pm

Forum: Hangout

Topic: Hillary Clinton's powerful tv ad

Replies: 78

Views: 1081
Re: Coward Cop killers in Dallas

I think part of the question is whether police use lethal force too readily, when there might be other alternatives. Yes, so true. This "shoot first, ask questions later" BS isn't working out so well. If these officers are SO FEARFUL for their lives because of a black man reaching into hi...

by Laila619

July 8th, 2016, 10:20 am

Forum: Hangout

Topic: Coward Cop killers in Dallas

Replies: 162

Views: 2209
Re: Alton Sterling and Philandro Castile

Pic of Alton Sterling and his arrest record: 9/09/96 aggravated battery 10/31/97 2nd degree battery 1/06/98 simple battery 5/04/00 public intimidation 9/20/00 carnal knowledge of a juvenile 9/04/01 domestic violence 5/24/05 burglary of an inhabited dwelling place 7/11/05 receiving stolen things 9/1...

by Laila619

July 8th, 2016, 8:09 am

Forum: Hangout

Topic: Alton Sterling and Philandro Castile

Replies: 94

Views: 1985
Re: Clinton cleared in email probe, no charges

Both my sons have a Top Secret/Secure Compartment Information - TS/SCI - clearance and would have been prosecuted for much less than what she just got away with. EXACTLY. The blatant double standard and looking the other way for her is just mind boggling. She was not cleared of wrong-doing; Comey a...

by Laila619

July 7th, 2016, 9:34 am

Forum: Hangout

Topic: Clinton cleared in email probe, no charges

Replies: 68

Views: 1115
Re: How to upgrade / ERD won't honor their upgrade policy?

gobble|1467842144|4052251 wrote:We'll be married a year in 3 weeks and wife wants to upgrade. I find that a bit offensive but you pick your battles.



Just tell her that sorry, but it's not in the cards right now. If you're planning on having a baby sometime soon, explain to her that it's really not a smart use of funds.

by Laila619

July 6th, 2016, 8:19 pm

Forum: RockyTalky

Topic: How to upgrade / ERD won't honor their upgrade policy?

Replies: 84

Views: 3698
Re: PS Mommy Thread-Newborn to 12 months!

Aww, JGator, he is such a cutie pie!! My MIL swears by "second child syndrome." She says they are usually much more adventurous and tend to keep parents on their toes far more than the first born. I hope he will start sleeping through the night soon for you!

by Laila619

July 1st, 2016, 3:44 pm

Forum: Family, Home & Health

Topic: PS Mommy Thread-Newborn to 12 months!

Replies: 16275

Views: 414463
Re: What would you do?

Hi Pupp! MIL probably isn't happy about the fact that your daughter is a young teen mom with two kids out if wedlock. She probably does love your daughter, but her choices are hard for her to accept. Nothing you can really do about it unfortunately. Everyone isn't going to get along, and family memb...

by Laila619

June 27th, 2016, 10:25 am

Forum: Hangout

Topic: What would you do?

Replies: 75

Views: 2207
Re: My Upsetting Brilliantly Engaged Experience

What a mess. I just don't get what happened. It's like they just didn't want to put in any effort with your ring.

by Laila619

June 20th, 2016, 6:42 pm

Forum: RockyTalky

Topic: My Upsetting Brilliantly Engaged Experience

Replies: 141

Views: 9820
Re: Teach your daughters not to get drunk

All good points, Gypsy. Thank you for sharing your story, and I am sorry you were made to feel like it was somehow your fault for being a "tease." UGH!!! :nono: That really wasn't the point of the post. The point is that perpetuating rape culture causes more rape. But thank you. No, I do ...

by Laila619

June 15th, 2016, 9:01 pm

Forum: Hangout

Topic: Teach your daughters not to get drunk

Replies: 116

Views: 2436
Re: Teach your daughters not to get drunk

All good points, Gypsy. Thank you for sharing your story, and I am sorry you were made to feel like it was somehow your fault for being a "tease." UGH!!! :nono:

by Laila619

June 15th, 2016, 8:47 pm

Forum: Hangout

Topic: Teach your daughters not to get drunk

Replies: 116

Views: 2436
Re: Teach your daughters not to get drunk

We all have to decide how much risk we want to take on. One way to cut down on risk is to not put yourself in a vulnerable situation. We can teach our sons all day long not to rape, to respect women, etc. But there are still some people who are just bad, people with no moral compass, people who get...

by Laila619

June 15th, 2016, 7:16 pm

Forum: Hangout

Topic: Teach your daughters not to get drunk

Replies: 116

Views: 2436
Re: Teach your daughters not to get drunk

Callie, hugs. Your situation was a horrible, terrifying one. Every woman should be safe in their own home. I already stated many times that I do not believe it is ever a woman's fault. I (and several others who agreed with me) said we should teach our daughters that getting drunk in public might not...

by Laila619

June 15th, 2016, 7:08 pm

Forum: Hangout

Topic: Teach your daughters not to get drunk

Replies: 116

Views: 2436
Re: Teach your daughters not to get drunk

OK so no woman could *ever* go out and have a drink too many? There's something off about that logic, even though I don't like drinking and if I had a daughter - or son - I would hope they wouldn't do too much of it (or at all, actually). I don't know. There's something different about saying be aw...

by Laila619

June 15th, 2016, 7:01 pm

Forum: Hangout

Topic: Teach your daughters not to get drunk

Replies: 116

Views: 2436
Re: Teach your daughters not to get drunk

Wanna teach your daughters something? Teach them to pick good friends. Teach them what consent looks like. Teach them to be strong through your example of strength. Teach them to love themselves through your unconditional love. Teach them to be competent in the world through self defense. But don't...

by Laila619

June 15th, 2016, 6:49 pm

Forum: Hangout

Topic: Teach your daughters not to get drunk

Replies: 116

Views: 2436
Re: Teach your daughters not to get drunk

Thank you Packrat, you said it all perfectly. I'm sorry you had to go through that at 16.

by Laila619

June 15th, 2016, 4:55 pm

Forum: Hangout

Topic: Teach your daughters not to get drunk

Replies: 116

Views: 2436
Re: Teach your daughters not to get drunk

Wanna teach your daughters something? Teach them to pick good friends. Teach them what consent looks like. Teach them to be strong through your example of strength. Teach them to love themselves through your unconditional love. Teach them to be competent in the world through self defense. But don't...

by Laila619

June 15th, 2016, 4:26 pm

Forum: Hangout

Topic: Teach your daughters not to get drunk

Replies: 116

Views: 2436
Re: Teach your daughters not to get drunk

Wow. Just ...wow. Laila, you live a very sheltered existence if you think this strategy is the answer. What do you propose: that your daughters carry a portable breathalyzer with them and blow every 20 minutes (they make disposable ones, in case you aren't aware)? "Sorry, guys, just have to ma...

by Laila619

June 15th, 2016, 3:55 pm

Forum: Hangout

Topic: Teach your daughters not to get drunk

Replies: 116

Views: 2436
Re: Teach your daughters not to get drunk

This is rape culture. No, I won't teach my daughter not to drink too much so she doesn't get raped. I'll teach her that it's unhealthy, she might embarrass herself, or make choices shell regret later. But I will not tell her not to drink because she might get raped. Suggesting women change their li...

by Laila619

June 15th, 2016, 3:38 pm

Forum: Hangout

Topic: Teach your daughters not to get drunk

Replies: 116

Views: 2436
Re: Teach your daughters not to get drunk

http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex/2013/10/sexual_assault_and_drinking_teach_women_the_connection.html A common denominator in these cases is alcohol, often copious amounts, enough to render the young woman incapacitated. Another common denominator is a god damn rapist. Well, obviously....

by Laila619

June 15th, 2016, 3:32 pm

Forum: Hangout

Topic: Teach your daughters not to get drunk

Replies: 116

Views: 2436
Re: Teach your daughters not to get drunk

I agree, lets teach sons not to rape. Also - date rape drugs. A woman can have 1 drink, or be drinking 7up all night long and end up with drugs in her drink. By your account, that's probably her fault for not watching her drink closely enough, or perhaps for not taking an 'anti-date rape drug' ahea...

by Laila619

June 15th, 2016, 3:30 pm

Forum: Hangout

Topic: Teach your daughters not to get drunk

Replies: 116

Views: 2436
Re: Teach your daughters not to get drunk

No one would get mad if someone said "We need to teach young women to look both ways before they cross a street, to lock their doors when home alone" etc. It's just common sense to stay safe. So why do people get so angry if someone mentions that getting black-out drunk in public probably ...

by Laila619

June 15th, 2016, 3:04 pm

Forum: Hangout

Topic: Teach your daughters not to get drunk

Replies: 116

Views: 2436

by Laila619

June 15th, 2016, 2:55 pm

Forum: Hangout

Topic: Teach your daughters not to get drunk

Replies: 116

Views: 2436
Teach your daughters not to get drunk

I didn't want to threadjack the other thread, and I think this is a very important topic. Let me make this clear before I say anything else: NO WOMAN EVER DESERVES TO GET RAPED. PERIOD. Now, with that said, why is it so controversial for us to teach our daughters/sisters/nieces that it is simply NOT...

by Laila619

June 15th, 2016, 2:52 pm

Forum: Hangout

Topic: Teach your daughters not to get drunk

Replies: 116

Views: 2436
Re: Alligator Drags Toddler Into Lagoon at Disney Resort

I think placing blame makes people feel better; this sort of thing will not happen to them because they have more common sense, they are better prepared, etc. So sad, every parent's worst nightmare. :(( I hope the poor dad isn't blaming himself for not being able to "fight" off the gator. ...

by Laila619

June 15th, 2016, 2:33 pm

Forum: Hangout

Topic: Alligator Drags Toddler Into Lagoon at Disney Resort

Replies: 132

Views: 2528
Re: Alligator Drags Toddler Into Lagoon at Disney Resort

People are really hypocrites. If a young woman gets black-out wasted from binge drinking in public, it's okay and she is not going to be held accountable if something bad happens to her. She has no responsibility to educate herself and keep herself safe. But now these poor parents are at fault that...

by Laila619

June 15th, 2016, 2:30 pm

Forum: Hangout

Topic: Alligator Drags Toddler Into Lagoon at Disney Resort

Replies: 132

Views: 2528
Re: Alligator Drags Toddler Into Lagoon at Disney Resort

A No Swimming sign is inadequate to protect against gators. Sure, the kid wasn't 'swimming'. Reportedly he was wading in 1-ft deep water when the gator snatched him. But I've seen nature docs of gators waiting motionless and still, underwater, at the water's edge with only their nostrils and eyes a...

by Laila619

June 15th, 2016, 1:30 pm

Forum: Hangout

Topic: Alligator Drags Toddler Into Lagoon at Disney Resort

Replies: 132

Views: 2528