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great points Dave, as a very happy L IL owner with a non superideal diamond, I hope we can be helpful to all consumers, not just those looking for a super louper cut, or very high on the colour and clarity scale. My diamond is not a perfect stone, but I love it and get compliments all the time for it's beauty, also I have followed the journeys here of some other happy I1 owners that have found their perfect diamond happened to be an I clarity!
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Dave, I would add to your post that there is no one "right combo" that makes a perfect diamond. There are so many variables that go into making a diamond perfect for someone and they aren''t necessarily being D IF ex ex ex. I think often people get really caught up in the numbers game, especially when buying online since they cannot see the stones in person beforehand. I always say to people, "how does it look to YOU?" As long as a stone "speaks" to you, it''s perfect for you. IMO.
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So true. So many people buy "the paper" - D FL [not IF!]. It is kind of like collecting "autographs" in the art world. Things often are bought not for their beauty, but for some other reason.
I would say that if somebody sees a stone that calls out to them, then that is their stone. You do not want to be getting a stone that has the "right" specs but needs to "grow on you". When I got my first large stone many years ago [the 6.39 carat step cut estate piece posted on SMTR] I had been looking for at least 2 years for the right stone [I had been looking at 5 ish carat RB''s! Nothing floated my boat.]. I then saw this stone in a store window and it was calling my name. I knew I had to have it so I got it. It is that connection that is important IMHO [BTW, the stone is a VS1 L/M color and it has spectacular presence]. Don''t rely on the paper. |
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Thank you for the reminder, Dave. My diamond is a well-cut 60/60 style round brilliant, which seems to be out of fashion here. This stone was selected for me by my jeweler who also happened to know the cutter and his work. It is a very beautiful diamond, and frankly, I like it more than many of the "ideal" cut stones that I have seen in person. It''s mine, I love how it looks, and so it''s perfect for me.
You can learn a lot about diamonds here on Pricescope, and be so much better prepared when shopping. But the quest for perfection is a fool''s game. You wouldn''t try to buy the perfect painting by the numbers. A painting is a work of art and so is a diamond. |
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I agree completely!
As a newbie, I can still remember my first few visits here. . . it can be VERY daunting to jump in and ask questions expecting that if you aren't asking only about the elusive "perfect diamond" you may not get good feedback. It can be discouraging to people new to this, like me. Obviously, not everyone here thinks we all should be buying H&A type cuts, but because so much emphasis is placed on cut, AND RIGHTLY SO, it could deter people who know they have to "settle" for a cut that's not considered perfect. I tend to be the kind of person who enjoys researching, learning and figuring it out and Forums like this don't intimidate me at all so I perservered! ![]() ![]() DH was pressuring me to make a decision quickly and he was out of town almost the whole time So I read here A LOT for one straight week and quickly figured out for myself that although the specs were relatively important, they were NOT a deal killer if I loved the stone. In my humble opinion, I think a lot of people put a little too much emphasis on the certs/specs. . . as if we'd carry them around to prove the fantasticness of our stone! ![]() If I relied on specs/certs more than I did, I wouldn't have nearly the stone I was able to get. |
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Good writing Dave..., I
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As you move away from the typical round brilliant..., the standards become more subjective and as you get to the upper reaches of the rarity (Fancy Colored Diamonds as example) the scope of the subjectivity range becomes much wider and wilder than the eyes or mind can even imagine. I always tell people to first choose a Diamond with their eyes and for a "mind clean" feeling make sure it comes with an acceptable lab report. Most importantly..., I tell them to get educated before the decision! I agree with you a 100% by thinking that the average visitor/lurker can be easily intimidated by the amount of technical information floating around on PS on the subject of the higher quality segment. I truly think this message of yours (David) should be titled and positioned in the FAQ section for lurkers to easily identify. We must not forget that the great majority of Diamond material is of lower quality..., and so naturally the majority of jewelry out on the market is made up with these types of Diamonds. BUT..., you can also find extremely high end jewelry designers incorporating LOW quality Diamond material in their designs..., as an example see De Grisogono''s use of highly included/opaque melee or Black colored Diamonds mixing with high quality Diamonds or Gemstones! I does not make these jewelry pieces less perfect for the consumers who purchase these pieces incorporating these Diamonds. That said..., I truly believe a place like PS should be accommodating for consumers wanting to educate themselves on Diamonds no matter which types! And now for the weekly quiz!!! ![]() ![]() Is this Diamond beautiful or no?
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Great post, Dave. I know when I selected one of my Asschers, my diamond seller would not show me the certs until I looked at the diamonds first. It was an easy selection, my stone left out at me. When I looked at the cert, I was surprised by the table %, and I had to spend the next 15 minutes looking at the diamond, then the cert, then the diamond again. I did finally take the PS advise and went with my eyes (the remainder of the numbers were great, in my opinion), and I have loved the results.
I think the numbers can be a red flag to get you away from some questionable diamonds and narrow your focus to those that require closer consideration. But the final call needs to be made with your own eyes, the ones that will be staring at that sparkler for years to come (or until the next upgrade ).
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A bunch of internal (extra large) feathers (through-out the stone) positioned parallel to each-other and to the natural Diamond plane structure... Yes..., for sure its unique...
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That is a very cool diamond. It would make a nifty piece of jewelry. |