I need advice selecting the metal for a custom e-ring. My original ring was platinum. I like the white color but dislike how it scratches so quickly. I also think that it is a tad heavy. I've been researching alternatives but find conflicting information. Which metal is whitest, holds its shine best, and is most durable? Does palladium white gold look white without plating? Also, does anyone know of any jewelers online who make custom rings in palladium white gold or from palladium? Thanks!