OK, original plan was rolling along smoothly. Found a setting she likes (based on a ring she saw in a vintage store), decided to go with the traditional round brilliant, and just had to finalize the purchase next week. Out of the blue, she tells me "You know, I really don''t think I like the round diamonds. I think I like the emerald, cushion, or asscher." She has no idea I''m planning anything but just happened to see some pictures in the Sunday paper.
Here''s my question: Do I alter the plan and find a setting to go with one of those shapes (back to square one) or do I propose sans ring and have her come pick something out? I really wanted this to be a surprise, but I also think if she went to select something, she might realize that the round stones "sparkle" so much more and can even look bigger. Any advice would be greatly appreciated! TIA
Here''s my question: Do I alter the plan and find a setting to go with one of those shapes (back to square one) or do I propose sans ring and have her come pick something out? I really wanted this to be a surprise, but I also think if she went to select something, she might realize that the round stones "sparkle" so much more and can even look bigger. Any advice would be greatly appreciated! TIA