Gypsy
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Matata|1435549649|3896117 said:They should do whatever they darn well please. Mix traditions or create new ones. Personally, I'd like to see something fresh and new that carries significance to each couple rather than same old tired traditions currently in play.
This.
This is what we did. I don't see why it makes a difference if the couple is homosexual or heterosexual.
Do what makes sense for me.
I hated the garter thing. Didn't have it.
We saw each other before our vows because we had photography session. It was very special because it was just the two of us (and the photographers in the background).
As for family attendance. We didn't have sides. Seemed silly as my family was local and his was from across the country. So my side was huge in comparison.
I didn't toss my bouquet. I don't like that tradition either.
And no one carried anyone.
My husband did propose though. And that worked for us. Which is what matters.
Do what makes sense for your relationship. It doesn't matter what anyone else does. Or what anyone else thinks.