I was just reading reviews of a restaurant that I like, on two different web sites. The reviews were somewhat better on Trip Advisor (approx 200 reviews) than on Yelp (approx 40 reviews.)
I've also read reviews of two gyms that I recently belonged to.
I don't know, it just seems that so many people are really nit-picky about things these days. Is this just the nature of the internet? If you really wanted to criticize you could find something, but basically these gyms and this restaurant, both of which I've known for years, are well-run and well-priced, and both are really nice. While there are plenty of positive reviews of both, there are also many reviews picking the places apart, although I have found them to be consistently very good to excellent. I wouldn't like to be a business owner these days, with all these review sites. Some complaints are justified of course, but many also seem to be from people outraged that they don't received total perfection at all times, so even if they are unreasonable, the business still suffers.
Is it just that we are over-spoiled? In the Fifties people mostly ate at home and probably were thrilled to be eating out in a nice restaurant. So what if the bread isn't quite to your liking or you once noticed a teeny speck of dust in the gym. Our quality of life these days is mainly so much better than 40 years ago. There are so many more options regarding things to do and places to go.
In terms of criticizing others, too, I know two or three people who are forever making pronouncements about the competencies or brain power of others. Years ago I had a boyfriend who was obsessed with pronouncing how intelligent he thought others were, and I have another friend who is always really hard on other people. No one is up to her standards, and she's so superior, don't you know.
So that's how I feel. I think that a substantial number of people are over-critical these days, whether it's food, service, or people around us. I mean, nothing is perfect, you know? Anyone else feel like this? Perhaps I'm just tired of listening to complaints, or reading them when I look at reviews.
I've also read reviews of two gyms that I recently belonged to.
I don't know, it just seems that so many people are really nit-picky about things these days. Is this just the nature of the internet? If you really wanted to criticize you could find something, but basically these gyms and this restaurant, both of which I've known for years, are well-run and well-priced, and both are really nice. While there are plenty of positive reviews of both, there are also many reviews picking the places apart, although I have found them to be consistently very good to excellent. I wouldn't like to be a business owner these days, with all these review sites. Some complaints are justified of course, but many also seem to be from people outraged that they don't received total perfection at all times, so even if they are unreasonable, the business still suffers.
Is it just that we are over-spoiled? In the Fifties people mostly ate at home and probably were thrilled to be eating out in a nice restaurant. So what if the bread isn't quite to your liking or you once noticed a teeny speck of dust in the gym. Our quality of life these days is mainly so much better than 40 years ago. There are so many more options regarding things to do and places to go.
In terms of criticizing others, too, I know two or three people who are forever making pronouncements about the competencies or brain power of others. Years ago I had a boyfriend who was obsessed with pronouncing how intelligent he thought others were, and I have another friend who is always really hard on other people. No one is up to her standards, and she's so superior, don't you know.
So that's how I feel. I think that a substantial number of people are over-critical these days, whether it's food, service, or people around us. I mean, nothing is perfect, you know? Anyone else feel like this? Perhaps I'm just tired of listening to complaints, or reading them when I look at reviews.