CirqueDuMort
Rough_Rock
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This will be my third engagement ring. I wish I had known Pricescope sooner.
The first two were for my late wife, who died about two and a half years ago from breast cancer at 48, after 18 years together. I bought the first one in 1995, while very poor and living in NYC, from a Hoboken discounter for $850 including setting. It was a tiny little runt of a solitaire. I upgraded for her on our tenth anniversary, a .9 from BlueNile that presented large but was dull. I have both saved for our daughters. I didn't know much.
Fast forward, and I am hopelessly in love with an amazing woman. I'm a capable single dad with tons of friends and a great job. I didn't expect or need to fall in love, but life has it's own path. It just happened and I feel very, very fortunate to be indulged a second time in deep love.
I expect sometime early next year I will propose and I want to give her an elegant three-stone, marquise and ruby platinum ring something like this:
http://www.gemvara.com/jewelry/camille-ring/marquise-diamond-palladium-ring-with-ruby/fjfzt
She loves red, always with lipstick, and wears a lot of black. She's playful and smart, sexy but unfussy. She won't want a ring that's trendy or like any other her friends have, and will want something that generates envy but isn't pretentiously large. I'm aware of the Marquise history in the 80's and do not think she has any negative impressions about that, and she'll like that marquises are (sometimes) good bargains.
My budget is about $10k total. I'd like to emphasize diamond performance and nothing larger than 1.5ct. The setting should be fairly simple and elegant. The three stones are enough sizzle I think.
The date is still months away (for some personal and pragmatic reasons). I will be buying around November 15-February 1st so that I can propose within the 60 day return window. I'll look at James Allen, Whiteflash and GoodoldGold probably, although JA has an edge there. I will, if you are willing, enlist your help in choosing a diamond closer to the time.
I had a few questions in advance. I've been reading the forums a lot, and still have a few questions. Any answers appreciated.
1) That can be a weird time of year for inventory, yes? Will Marquise be affected? Should I buy closer to Nov 15 or Feb 1?
2) I understand color needs to be a little whiter in a marquise. Will florescence help that?
3) Will a whiter or more yellow color diamond go better with ruby side stones? I guess whiter maybe would create more contrast and be more pleasing? Or maybe the opposite, that you won't notice a more yellow stone because of the ruby?
3) How would florescence look with ruby side stones on a three-stone setting? I'm thinking it might look cool, but maybe weird. There are no pics anywhere like that. I think she might like fluorescence.
4) How do I pick the rubies? Can I ask for them to be a certain color? She would want them vivid and somewhat dark. Not pink.
5) How big should the rubies be for 1 ct? 1.5 ct?
6) She likes to wear gold and silver (but not together). Is rose gold a smart move? With the ruby and diamond (and maybe fluorescence), I'm worried that rose gold would make a franken-ring. So I'm leaning toward classic platinum. But I honestly think she might like it.
7) if you have any three-stone setting suggestions with clean lines, please suggest them! I have focused my attention on the stone more than the setting and I don't see a whole lot that looks better than the basic ones like that I linked above.
I have seen some of the most polite and articulate discussion on this board. Awesome community here. thanks
The first two were for my late wife, who died about two and a half years ago from breast cancer at 48, after 18 years together. I bought the first one in 1995, while very poor and living in NYC, from a Hoboken discounter for $850 including setting. It was a tiny little runt of a solitaire. I upgraded for her on our tenth anniversary, a .9 from BlueNile that presented large but was dull. I have both saved for our daughters. I didn't know much.
Fast forward, and I am hopelessly in love with an amazing woman. I'm a capable single dad with tons of friends and a great job. I didn't expect or need to fall in love, but life has it's own path. It just happened and I feel very, very fortunate to be indulged a second time in deep love.
I expect sometime early next year I will propose and I want to give her an elegant three-stone, marquise and ruby platinum ring something like this:
http://www.gemvara.com/jewelry/camille-ring/marquise-diamond-palladium-ring-with-ruby/fjfzt
She loves red, always with lipstick, and wears a lot of black. She's playful and smart, sexy but unfussy. She won't want a ring that's trendy or like any other her friends have, and will want something that generates envy but isn't pretentiously large. I'm aware of the Marquise history in the 80's and do not think she has any negative impressions about that, and she'll like that marquises are (sometimes) good bargains.
My budget is about $10k total. I'd like to emphasize diamond performance and nothing larger than 1.5ct. The setting should be fairly simple and elegant. The three stones are enough sizzle I think.
The date is still months away (for some personal and pragmatic reasons). I will be buying around November 15-February 1st so that I can propose within the 60 day return window. I'll look at James Allen, Whiteflash and GoodoldGold probably, although JA has an edge there. I will, if you are willing, enlist your help in choosing a diamond closer to the time.
I had a few questions in advance. I've been reading the forums a lot, and still have a few questions. Any answers appreciated.
1) That can be a weird time of year for inventory, yes? Will Marquise be affected? Should I buy closer to Nov 15 or Feb 1?
2) I understand color needs to be a little whiter in a marquise. Will florescence help that?
3) Will a whiter or more yellow color diamond go better with ruby side stones? I guess whiter maybe would create more contrast and be more pleasing? Or maybe the opposite, that you won't notice a more yellow stone because of the ruby?
3) How would florescence look with ruby side stones on a three-stone setting? I'm thinking it might look cool, but maybe weird. There are no pics anywhere like that. I think she might like fluorescence.
4) How do I pick the rubies? Can I ask for them to be a certain color? She would want them vivid and somewhat dark. Not pink.
5) How big should the rubies be for 1 ct? 1.5 ct?
6) She likes to wear gold and silver (but not together). Is rose gold a smart move? With the ruby and diamond (and maybe fluorescence), I'm worried that rose gold would make a franken-ring. So I'm leaning toward classic platinum. But I honestly think she might like it.
7) if you have any three-stone setting suggestions with clean lines, please suggest them! I have focused my attention on the stone more than the setting and I don't see a whole lot that looks better than the basic ones like that I linked above.
I have seen some of the most polite and articulate discussion on this board. Awesome community here. thanks