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Ideal_Rock
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Well since this thread is still here, I took the time to go read some of alley's old topics. I hadn't before, my bad.
Oh dear. I take back my previous advice. This is one of the unhealthiest, drama-ridden relationships I've ever heard of. I can see where some of you are coming from now. What a saga. Alley, my advice is now to definitely end your relationship, I'm not even going to pretend to sugarcoat this. I cannot believe an intelligent woman such as yourself can't see that you need to get out of this mess! Your husband may not be a bad guy, but he is terrible for you. And he seems to have mentally checked out of your relationship already. That email thing was a huge red flag (in your shoes, I would have filed for divorce then and there if I'm honest). Your husband wants kids, no amount of luxuries will make up for this lack. I'm a woman with no biological clock and even I realise that you can't ever ever get rid of the ache to have kids, no matter how to try to rationalise it.
You know this is a car crash in slow motion. YOU KNOW THIS. For gods sake, bail out now.
Right, flame me anyone who wants I'm standing by what I've written.
Oh dear. I take back my previous advice. This is one of the unhealthiest, drama-ridden relationships I've ever heard of. I can see where some of you are coming from now. What a saga. Alley, my advice is now to definitely end your relationship, I'm not even going to pretend to sugarcoat this. I cannot believe an intelligent woman such as yourself can't see that you need to get out of this mess! Your husband may not be a bad guy, but he is terrible for you. And he seems to have mentally checked out of your relationship already. That email thing was a huge red flag (in your shoes, I would have filed for divorce then and there if I'm honest). Your husband wants kids, no amount of luxuries will make up for this lack. I'm a woman with no biological clock and even I realise that you can't ever ever get rid of the ache to have kids, no matter how to try to rationalise it.
You know this is a car crash in slow motion. YOU KNOW THIS. For gods sake, bail out now.
Right, flame me anyone who wants I'm standing by what I've written.