Clairitek
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I have been asked to be a Matron of Honor at a friend's wedding next October. She and her husband got married in a private ceremony with parents this past October and are planning a larger church wedding and reception in the bride's hometown. I was actually her MOH for a previous engagement that ended this past April and had made a lot of plans for her bridal shower. Oddly enough, I just listed all of the stuff I had gathered (for an Alice in Wonderland themed shower inspired by Mia1181) for sale on Wedding Bee on Thursday night and then the bride asked me to be her MOH on Friday night.
I don't want to sell the items if I am going to be throwing her a shower but then it occurred to me, does she even "deserve" a shower? What is the etiquette here? I figure her shower will be in the late Spring or early Summer so by then she and the groom will have been married for 7-9 months.
Thoughts? Experience? I really have no opinion either way, I just don't want to be throwing a party that most people would find to be rude or uncalled for.
Perhaps I can throw her a different kind of shower? Lingerie shower? Charity donation shower? Something like that?
I don't want to sell the items if I am going to be throwing her a shower but then it occurred to me, does she even "deserve" a shower? What is the etiquette here? I figure her shower will be in the late Spring or early Summer so by then she and the groom will have been married for 7-9 months.
Thoughts? Experience? I really have no opinion either way, I just don't want to be throwing a party that most people would find to be rude or uncalled for.
Perhaps I can throw her a different kind of shower? Lingerie shower? Charity donation shower? Something like that?