TravelingGal
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So snowflakeluvr''s thread has me thinking about discipline.
I don''t want to talk about spanking, since that''s always a heated topic, but I am interested in what you moms (or mom to be''s, or people who don''t even have/want kids - so basically open to everyone) think about kids fearing their parents. I''m not talking about being terrified. I''m talking about "uh oh!" healthy fear while still being secure enough to know they are loved.
I''ve heard some parents who don''t want to discipline with any type of fear...they would prefer that the child listens out of respect for their parents. Others do use (or have the threat) of spanking, or even "the look" to keep their kids in line.
Do you think fear (for lack of a better word) is something children should have for their parents?
I don''t want to talk about spanking, since that''s always a heated topic, but I am interested in what you moms (or mom to be''s, or people who don''t even have/want kids - so basically open to everyone) think about kids fearing their parents. I''m not talking about being terrified. I''m talking about "uh oh!" healthy fear while still being secure enough to know they are loved.
I''ve heard some parents who don''t want to discipline with any type of fear...they would prefer that the child listens out of respect for their parents. Others do use (or have the threat) of spanking, or even "the look" to keep their kids in line.
Do you think fear (for lack of a better word) is something children should have for their parents?