I am getting ready to propose and I''m not sure what to do. My girlfreind''s Father does not speak english and her mother can not keep a secret. The whole family is very traditional and asking for his blessing was what I planned on and think is the right thing to do, but I''m not sure it is feasible without the possibility of ruining the secret. It is more important to me that she is happy and surprised, so I''m thinking of going with her to talk to both of them after I ask her as more of a formality. I''m not sure how this will come across, does anyone have any thoughts?
Her freinds that are capable of translating for me doesn''t seem appropriate since it is a very personal experience. I also thought of writing somehting and having it translated and handing it to him, but then how can he respond?
I am also trying to put together details of how I am going to ask, any input? I reserved a room near nigarar falls with a whirlpool and a view of the falls and am having champagne, roses and chocolate covered strawberries sent up. I know it sounds real cheezy, but I think she will like it and that is all that matters. However, I want to make it more special and not just cliche, so I''m looking for ideas.
Any help would be greatly appreciated!
Her freinds that are capable of translating for me doesn''t seem appropriate since it is a very personal experience. I also thought of writing somehting and having it translated and handing it to him, but then how can he respond?
I am also trying to put together details of how I am going to ask, any input? I reserved a room near nigarar falls with a whirlpool and a view of the falls and am having champagne, roses and chocolate covered strawberries sent up. I know it sounds real cheezy, but I think she will like it and that is all that matters. However, I want to make it more special and not just cliche, so I''m looking for ideas.
Any help would be greatly appreciated!