Diamondz24x
Rough_Rock
- Joined
- Jun 18, 2007
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- 4
Hey all, i''m new to the board..glad i found a place where i can openly vent about this and not be told i''m crazy. My boyfriend and i will be together 4yrs in august. He''s been talking about marrying me since month 2.. and i think because he was so into it and talked about it so often i really just expected that it would have happened by now. We''ve both fallen on some hard times with jobs..we''ve been in and out of steady work on and off and have wound up living with my mom. We''ve discussed getting engaged and we both want to get married, but there is just no money. My mom says she''ll help if not pay for most of the wedding..but he can''t afford the ring, and i''m afraid it''ll just take forever to save for one if he starts now that he''s been working a few months. i''m 24 and he''s turning 37..so i really want to get the ball rolling. He feels bad proposing without a ring.. feels like it isn''t right.. but at this point as much as i''d love a beautiful ring to show off my engagement..i wanna start a family before he''s in his 40s decides that maybe he''s getting too old to have too many children. I just don''t know what to do.. i''ve managed to put aside about $600.00 would it be stupid to offer up some money to help pay for a ring.. or has anyone heard of outrageous auctions on ebay.. that guy who owns a store in ny but sells some of his rings cheap?? Can they be trusted? i know i know.. i don''t make sense..but i feel so stuck.. i feel like there isnt much i can do.. my friends and his friends who''ve been together half the time we have are all already engaged or married and they just keep asking..so guys when is it happening..?? i don''t know how much longer i can say we''re saving..